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when a couple know you but dont reveal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

messaged a couple today as you do..they know me outside of fab.know my nickname were im from etc wont say who they are or how they know me.finding it funny keeping me guessing.my concern is they know my facebook as they mentioned things i had posted.my fab life is private from likes of facebook etc.family and friends who are unaware i swing .what concerns or legalitys if any do i have .if they were to tell people..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You have to assume that anything you put on the Internet is or will be or could end up in the public domain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have to assume that anything you put on the Internet is or will be or could end up in the public domain. "
but is there any legal side to them sharingmy info ..last thing i want is my 62 yr old parents knowing what i do..via facebook.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You have to assume that anything you put on the Internet is or will be or could end up in the public domain. but is there any legal side to them sharingmy info ..last thing i want is my 62 yr old parents knowing what i do..via facebook."

Probably not. Check your privacy settings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing they won't reveal anything. .they are just winding you up. If they reveal what you do its going to also reveal what they do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing they won't reveal anything. .they are just winding you up. If they reveal what you do its going to also reveal what they do x"

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I doubt they'll say anything but to tell you they know you and not say who they are is pathetic behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had the same when i stupidly put my kik up! they knew me but i couldnt find out who they were so left. fab

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

If they work in IT and have access to GNIP data it's really, really easy to associate locations to people to posts

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Cue loads of people google searching GNIP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is something called the malicious communications act which makes it an offence to send communication intended to cause distress or abuse. Threats to "out" you would be covered under this. This can be punished with imprisonment. But clearly you need to know who the offenders are to involve police. Trolls beware.

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By *it44Woman
over a year ago

Telford

Have you reported them to admin? Plus blocking them could help maybe ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I doubt they'll say anything but to tell you they know you and not say who they are is pathetic behaviour"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work your way through your facebook friends eliminating people then look at their pics for clues ... Tattoos hair colour age weight clothes etc where they been on holiday im sure U will be able to whittle it down to just a few then bam throw it at em who they are!! They will be bricking it more than U did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah sounds like it's someone off your facebook because fb does a birthday alert and i just saw your status...

Happy birthday btw. Hope they're just teasing you and not gonna release any info.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I think that one common mistake that people make is using photos on here that they also use on vanilla sites such as Facebook... A quick reverse image search of a face-pic could easily reveal the users Facebook account or other forums that they use.

It's best to keep a set of unique pics just for fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely us facebook because it tries to control everything about you my settings are so tight I wonder why I use it. Bar a set group of friends I do not converse with anyone else.

Call the bluff of the couple turn it on them tell them you realise who they are.

As for pics surely no one is so dumb to use fab pics on facebook etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

all sorted was a mate..who knew it would wind me up...twat..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I rarely us facebook because it tries to control everything about you my settings are so tight I wonder why I use it. Bar a set group of friends I do not converse with anyone else.

Call the bluff of the couple turn it on them tell them you realise who they are.

As for pics surely no one is so dumb to use fab pics on facebook etc."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I rarely us facebook because it tries to control everything about you my settings are so tight I wonder why I use it. Bar a set group of friends I do not converse with anyone else.

Call the bluff of the couple turn it on them tell them you realise who they are.

As for pics surely no one is so dumb to use fab pics on facebook etc."
i dont use facebook piks but anyone that has seen me knows im hard to not notice...rugged good lucks ..killer smile..joking..but my tattoos are a giveaway..lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all sorted was a mate..who knew it would wind me up...twat.."

I bet you could throttle them!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"You have to assume that anything you put on the Internet is or will be or could end up in the public domain. but is there any legal side to them sharingmy info ..last thing i want is my 62 yr old parents knowing what i do..via facebook."

Yes there is a legal side but in enforcing that position it is most likely the details will be published in local if not national papers.

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

Some 'mate'!

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