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By *054 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newquay

Why am I finding it hard to meet women on this site am I that bad looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is a wall of text which is hard to read. It's got spelling mistakes all over it. You have one picture and it's of your cock. And a whiney status.

What did you expect?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Your profile is a wall of text which is hard to read. It's got spelling mistakes all over it. You have one picture and it's of your cock. And a whiney status.

What did you expect?"

Sorry mate but agree with above.....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why am I finding it hard to meet women on this site am I that bad looking "

Can't comment on your looks but the picture you do have won't be to everyone's taste.

If the site is causing you to feel bad about yourself step back for a while, it's not good to let it affect you that way.

Good luck

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Your profile is a wall of text which is hard to read. It's got spelling mistakes all over it. You have one picture and it's of your cock. And a whiney status.

What did you expect?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same old cliché! The word lol is used WAY too much!

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Just look at the answers given 18 weeks ago, when you last posed the question.

Or, you can just accept no-one wants to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit profile. Nuff said.

Jen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unable to tell if your bad looking to answer your question as your cock pic is in the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same old cliché! The word lol is used WAY too much! "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The phrase about not being bothered about looks is a real turn off, implies you don't care how ugly someone is you'll fuck em anyway. There is not a woman on this earth that would read that and think "thank god, he doesn't care I have a face like a dogs arse he will have sex with me anyway"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The phrase about not being bothered about looks is a real turn off, implies you don't care how ugly someone is you'll fuck em anyway. There is not a woman on this earth that would read that and think "thank god, he doesn't care I have a face like a dogs arse he will have sex with me anyway"

"
oh yes there is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The phrase about not being bothered about looks is a real turn off, implies you don't care how ugly someone is you'll fuck em anyway. There is not a woman on this earth that would read that and think "thank god, he doesn't care I have a face like a dogs arse he will have sex with me anyway"

oh yes there is! "
please don't use the forums to get around a block its against forum rules

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Ohhh dear....shocking profile be blunt, sorry! You need to make so much more effort if you want to be successful. Please get rid of the lol's all over the place, your profile is nothing to lol about.....delete it all and start again, take your time, check your spellings and proof read several times! AND lose the cock pic of course! Good luck

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"The phrase about not being bothered about looks is a real turn off, implies you don't care how ugly someone is you'll fuck em anyway. There is not a woman on this earth that would read that and think "thank god, he doesn't care I have a face like a dogs arse he will have sex with me anyway"

oh yes there is! please don't use the forums to get around a block its against forum rules"

He isn't, he is answering your post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The phrase about not being bothered about looks is a real turn off, implies you don't care how ugly someone is you'll fuck em anyway. There is not a woman on this earth that would read that and think "thank god, he doesn't care I have a face like a dogs arse he will have sex with me anyway"

oh yes there is! please don't use the forums to get around a block its against forum rules

He isn't, he is answering your post."
so its OK to use the forums to continue to interact with someone after they have blocked you??? Thought that was a real no no

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP....your profile is hard to read for me. Maybe use paragraphs.

To the point of " I count personality more important than looks " if you had put that the other way round someone would have vilified you for that too so put exactly what you want on your profile , but I would just space it out a bit more.

Good luck.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"The phrase about not being bothered about looks is a real turn off, implies you don't care how ugly someone is you'll fuck em anyway. There is not a woman on this earth that would read that and think "thank god, he doesn't care I have a face like a dogs arse he will have sex with me anyway"

oh yes there is! please don't use the forums to get around a block its against forum rules

He isn't, he is answering your post.so its OK to use the forums to continue to interact with someone after they have blocked you??? Thought that was a real no no"

As long as it's within the context of the thread and not to ask why youve been blocked or such like then yes it's fine,

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"The phrase about not being bothered about looks is a real turn off, implies you don't care how ugly someone is you'll fuck em anyway. There is not a woman on this earth that would read that and think "thank god, he doesn't care I have a face like a dogs arse he will have sex with me anyway"

oh yes there is! please don't use the forums to get around a block its against forum rules

He isn't, he is answering your post.so its OK to use the forums to continue to interact with someone after they have blocked you??? Thought that was a real no no"

If he is asking you to unblock. why have you blocked me/ unblock me etc etc then yes.... but answering anothers post is allowed unless he is harassing you.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"To the OP....your profile is hard to read for me. Maybe use paragraphs.

To the point of " I count personality more important than looks " if you had put that the other way round someone would have vilified you for that too so put exactly what you want on your profile , but I would just space it out a bit more.

Good luck. "

Oops sorry ruggers didn't realise you were here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hairy cock pi,c put me straight off with out reading anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The phrase about not being bothered about looks is a real turn off, implies you don't care how ugly someone is you'll fuck em anyway. There is not a woman on this earth that would read that and think "thank god, he doesn't care I have a face like a dogs arse he will have sex with me anyway"

oh yes there is! please don't use the forums to get around a block its against forum rules

He isn't, he is answering your post.so its OK to use the forums to continue to interact with someone after they have blocked you??? Thought that was a real no no

If he is asking you to unblock. why have you blocked me/ unblock me etc etc then yes.... but answering anothers post is allowed unless he is harassing you.

"
. I understand if they are just commenting on the post but to quote and spuriously disagree with the blocker I thought was against the rules. I am obviously wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, thread hijacked.....as you were everyone

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

. I am obviously wrong "

Yes.

No mod would know who had blocked who anyway so how would it be policed?

Now that the man knows you don't want any interaction with him he will hopefully ignore your posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hairy cock pi,c put me straight off with out reading anything."

Haha! Yup! x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"To the OP....your profile is hard to read for me. Maybe use paragraphs.

To the point of " I count personality more important than looks " if you had put that the other way round someone would have vilified you for that too so put exactly what you want on your profile , but I would just space it out a bit more.

Good luck.

Oops sorry ruggers didn't realise you were here.. "

No worries, I just wish you had been a bit quicker as it would have saved me typing

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"To the OP....your profile is hard to read for me. Maybe use paragraphs.

To the point of " I count personality more important than looks " if you had put that the other way round someone would have vilified you for that too so put exactly what you want on your profile , but I would just space it out a bit more.

Good luck.

Oops sorry ruggers didn't realise you were here..

No worries, I just wish you had been a bit quicker as it would have saved me typing "

Haha.. I'll try harder next time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be yourself more. i was advised to move cock picks to private and have body and bum pics on profile. less is more with text. good luck for the future

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"be yourself more. i was advised to move cock picks to private and have body and bum pics on profile. less is more with text. good luck for the future"

Did it help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get more views and some ladies actually respond now which is nice. I also get some messages without having to send one. I took on board peoples advice and will again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought if your posting on the forum, but don't look at the profile how does one know they're blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thought if your posting on the forum, but don't look at the profile how does one know they're blocked."

And that's why it's only if they whinge about the block is it not allowed. Spends what the blocks for ai suppose if they just weren't the right type that's different from calling someone a raddled old *unt. You'd probably realise you were blocked if it was the latter. Anyway, off thread again!!!!!!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"i get more views and some ladies actually respond now which is nice. I also get some messages without having to send one. I took on board peoples advice and will again "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i get more views and some ladies actually respond now which is nice. I also get some messages without having to send one. I took on board peoples advice and will again "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the site is causing you to feel bad about yourself step back for a while, it's not good to let it affect you that way.

Good luck "

Your advice is always very caring and thoughtful.

Nice by name......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I took on board peoples advice and will again "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its easy, there aint enough women on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is a wall of text which is hard to read. It's got spelling mistakes all over it. You have one picture and it's of your cock. And a whiney status.

What did you expect?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant believe this is still going. it is the op just attention seeking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its easy, there aint enough women on the site "

You think more women, would have different results

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Can't comment on how bad looking you are so can only comment on what I see.

Your picture isn't the most attractive to me and there is only 1 which lacks effort.

Alot is how you see things. Cup half full or half empty.

Status updates will put off people if half full update.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its easy, there aint enough women on the site

You think more women, would have different results "
no but more perving

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"Why am I finding it hard to meet women on this site am I that bad looking "

Lol...

You have a pic of your erect penis..and that's it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. You have 1 pic . And that's your cock. Do you really think ladies are going to message you because you have a cock ?

You also want to be discreet

You can't accommodate

See where I'm going here ?

Look at other guys profiles and get a few tips. Good luck mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cant believe this is still going. it is the op just attention seeking"

The OP hasn't been on since his first post. This is just another look at my cock thread . Don't think most of the people that start these ever change anything. They just know that women frequent the forums and can wank over the fact they have seen their penis .

Jen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cant believe this is still going. it is the op just attention seeking

The OP hasn't been on since his first post. This is just another look at my cock thread . Don't think most of the people that start these ever change anything. They just know that women frequent the forums and can wank over the fact they have seen their penis .

Jen "
Really !!!! I might bang one up then

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"cant believe this is still going. it is the op just attention seeking

The OP hasn't been on since his first post. This is just another look at my cock thread . Don't think most of the people that start these ever change anything. They just know that women frequent the forums and can wank over the fact they have seen their penis .

Jen "

What a confession...ladies wanking over such penis exposing threads (if thats what they are)

How many such threads a day would you like to keep your circulation well exercised? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha ha no i meant the OPs wank that females have seen their penis .

I don't wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha ha no i meant the OPs wank that females have seen their penis .

I don't wank "

jen i have a crush on you lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha ha no i meant the OPs wank that females have seen their penis .

I don't wank

jen i have a crush on you lol x"

Lol why ?

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Ha ha ha no i meant the OPs wank that females have seen their penis .

I don't wank

jen i have a crush on you lol x

Lol why ?"

Try it you might like it...lol. A thread with smiles...yipee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha ha no i meant the OPs wank that females have seen their penis .

I don't wank

jen i have a crush on you lol x

Lol why ?"

your beautiful and your pictures are magnificent

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By *054 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newquay

Right guys I'v took all on bored and changed my profile will be adding more pics up soon so thankyou hope the new one brings me better luck

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