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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi, I've been on and off this website for around 3 years although mainly on!

During that time I have found it very difficult to arrange meets for myself not through lack of trying though, I have met 3 women from here (2 have since deleted there profile) and would love to meet some more!

Do you think this is mainly due to age, poor profile, poor pictures or just not interested (don't worry I can handle the pain of people saying just not interested ha)

Thanks for any responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to say this but your profile screams ME ME ME say something about what a potential meet can get out of meeting you and... SMILE.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you I'm just uploading a picture now of me smiling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Banned from Ladbrooks? Not impressive? Try a more positive approach. We would run a mile.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I have to be honest, I am not sure if the Ladbrook things is a joke or not, but it doesn't work for me.

The rest of it looks fine though, have you tried socials or clubs or is that not your thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Banned from Ladbrooks? Not impressive? Try a more positive approach. We would run a mile."
its supposed to be a joke, a very good joke, but he wrote it completely wrong and ruined it

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Ahhh is it banned for the bookies for getting his cock out to measure it and he can't count as he thinks it was two pens long?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The original version goes something like this:-

3 random facts about me ......

I can fit 8 Argos pens in my vagina

I wear my socks inside out

I'm banned from Argos

(Female version obviously)

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Are you here as a swinger, or for NSA sex?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I can see what he was trying to do now then

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I have to be honest, I am not sure if the Ladbrook things is a joke or not, but it doesn't work for me.

The rest of it looks fine though, have you tried socials or clubs or is that not your thing?"

After reading it again, bits of it sound a bit negative....don't put yourself down I would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile is fine i think. Like the bum pic but the other two i don't. Your profile pic is nice and you look like you might be my type . Sort your pics out and message me

Jen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile is fine i think. Like the bum pic but the other two i don't. Your profile pic is nice and you look like you might be my type . Sort your pics out and message me

Jen x"

There you go OP, you've scored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile is fine i think. Like the bum pic but the other two i don't. Your profile pic is nice and you look like you might be my type . Sort your pics out and message me

Jen x

There you go OP, you've scored."

Big time!!!! Ive seen this hot lady in the club I work at and they don't get much hotter just wished I was bloody younger lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile is fine i think. Like the bum pic but the other two i don't. Your profile pic is nice and you look like you might be my type . Sort your pics out and message me

Jen x

There you go OP, you've scored.

Big time!!!! Ive seen this hot lady in the club I work at and they don't get much hotter just wished I was bloody younger lol!!! "

Ha ha I saw you too you had your top off lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile is fine i think. Like the bum pic but the other two i don't. Your profile pic is nice and you look like you might be my type . Sort your pics out and message me

Jen x

There you go OP, you've scored.

Big time!!!! Ive seen this hot lady in the club I work at and they don't get much hotter just wished I was bloody younger lol!!!

Ha ha I saw you too you had your top off lol. "

I like to get my tats out at every opportunity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile is fine i think. Like the bum pic but the other two i don't. Your profile pic is nice and you look like you might be my type . Sort your pics out and message me

Jen x

There you go OP, you've scored.

Big time!!!! Ive seen this hot lady in the club I work at and they don't get much hotter just wished I was bloody younger lol!!!

Ha ha I saw you too you had your top off lol.

I like to get my tats out at every opportunity "

We were told you would be getting more out lol. But that must have been after we left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile is fine i think. Like the bum pic but the other two i don't. Your profile pic is nice and you look like you might be my type . Sort your pics out and message me

Jen x"

They you go op...looks like look at me threads do work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile is fine i think. Like the bum pic but the other two i don't. Your profile pic is nice and you look like you might be my type . Sort your pics out and message me

Jen x

They you go op...looks like look at me threads do work "

It does if they listen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile is fine i think. Like the bum pic but the other two i don't. Your profile pic is nice and you look like you might be my type . Sort your pics out and message me

Jen x

They you go op...looks like look at me threads do work

It does if they listen. "

Maybe he's shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile is fine i think. Like the bum pic but the other two i don't. Your profile pic is nice and you look like you might be my type . Sort your pics out and message me

Jen x

There you go OP, you've scored.

Big time!!!! Ive seen this hot lady in the club I work at and they don't get much hotter just wished I was bloody younger lol!!!

Ha ha I saw you too you had your top off lol.

I like to get my tats out at every opportunity

We were told you would be getting more out lol. But that must have been after we left "

im beginning to get a reputation will you be staying longer next time then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile is fine i think. Like the bum pic but the other two i don't. Your profile pic is nice and you look like you might be my type . Sort your pics out and message me

Jen x

There you go OP, you've scored.

Big time!!!! Ive seen this hot lady in the club I work at and they don't get much hotter just wished I was bloody younger lol!!!

Ha ha I saw you too you had your top off lol.

I like to get my tats out at every opportunity

We were told you would be getting more out lol. But that must have been after we left

im beginning to get a reputation will you be staying longer next time then "

Yes , hopefully won't have tonsililtis next time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other than the poorly told joke your profile looks fine. Far better than many.

So unless your messages/approach are totally shite then don't see why you are having problems.... It's a great site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your age, profile and pictures look on to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So summary is maybe a couple of different pictures and get rid of the joke?

Thanks for the help people and done! X

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"So summary is maybe a couple of different pictures and get rid of the joke?

Thanks for the help people and done! X"

The trouble is, you can't be sure what it is that is preventing meets. Indeed, it might be any number of things and what one person thinks is a turn off, another potential sexual partner will think is fantastic. If you act on what a minimal number of people say, then your profile will be so diluted with other peoples opinions, it gradually becomes less personal to you and more generic and hence boring and won't stand out. You obviously thought the original photos and joke represented you and now you don't.

My advice is write a profile and if you like it, keep it. You can't please everyone all of the time. So don't try. It's what I do anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we are chatting to him now and he seems alright

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By *leur de lisWoman
over a year ago

Buxton


"hi, I've been on and off this website for around 3 years although mainly on!

During that time I have found it very difficult to arrange meets for myself not through lack of trying though, I have met 3 women from here (2 have since deleted there profile) and would love to meet some more!

Do you think this is mainly due to age, poor profile, poor pictures or just not interested (don't worry I can handle the pain of people saying just not interested ha)

Thanks for any responses "

In all honesty your profile just doesn't stand out or eclipse other guys on here there are a lot more appealing ones about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u don't have safe sex on ur looking for, would put us off instantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oops interests I meant

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