FabSwingers.com forum: Tips for a single girl

By *igBunny OP Woman
over a year ago

My Town

Hello. Any tips for a newby please!

It's my naughty secret, getting into this. No time for a proper boyfriend, but I want a bit of fun.

Thanks for any help!

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By *imnher2Woman
over a year ago

watford

yes just enjoy yourself and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi big bunny, welcome hope you have lots of fun. My top tip is be safe, try and leave a number with a FAB friend when on a meet especially if you haven't done many before, that way they can call you to check you are okay and all is well.

If things are not comfortable for you they can tell you to come home as the house is on fire, granny is on the roof etc! xx

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By *igBunny OP Woman
over a year ago

My Town

thanks for the advice, what i could do with is trying a club first on my own and seeing if i like it!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

In some instances a club may not be the best deal for you as a single lady can sometimes be hassled a lot which may put you off the idea.

Maybe try one of the socials that people organise on here

Good luck and hope you have fun, stay safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you use ordinary dating sites? Very similar rules, make sure anyone your going to meet you have chatted a bit with them first. A web cam is always a good way to see them with next to no risk. Meet in a public place and get a mate to ring you after say 20-30 mins, then you have an excuse to leave.

And you can always ask here if your not sure

Have safe fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi big bunny, welcome hope you have lots of fun. My top tip is be safe, try and leave a number with a FAB friend when on a meet especially if you haven't done many before, that way they can call you to check you are okay and all is well.

If things are not comfortable for you they can tell you to come home as the house is on fire, granny is on the roof etc! xx"

Completely agree....this was the first tip i got when i joined and although i take my time and try and get to know a person first theres only so much you can glean from a comp or over the phone.

And remember a quick trip to the loo to send a 'omg, help!!' text, saves a lot of awkwardness if you find yourself meeting a moose lol

But welcome btw, enjoy, its lots of fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure that made sense......well it did in my head!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single fem and been in the scene for a few years...the only few tips i can give are-

Dont give out to much detail about ur personal life ie- dont use your real name etc and be very careful with your pics dont send over the net show them in the window on msn.

Last but not least have fun also as there are sum gorgeous peeps out there.

issy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with all the above - and have fun! Beautiful eyes by the way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i split from my ex she went along to a party as a single fem and just socialised without playing. It gave her the confidence to see what it was like to swing alone without feeling any pressure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single girl who has been in the scene on and off for about ten years , a few pointers ...

Try and make a female friend first, someone you can discuss things with, who is also in the scene.

Keep a mobile for just "swinging" so as to keep it private.

Dont give out to many personal details at once.

Meet only at clubs, much safer.

Maybe go to clubs with female mate ?

Trust your instinct everytime.

Go to as many social functions as you can and meet people.

Join in the forums .

And above all else, HAVE FUN

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By *igBunny OP Woman
over a year ago

My Town

i'd love a female friend to go to clubs with. We could look after each other.

My best mate, years ago, we sort of messed about with men and took care of each other, but being so young (15) we didn't know what to do with the men we met.

And sadly, she shit on me, by calling me behind my back and telling tales, even though I used to stick up for her all the time and get her out of fights (she liked to start fights and could never finish them, so I had to sort them out)

Sad that a mate turns on you, but i would love a female shag pal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

right when we going?????? lol

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By *igBunny OP Woman
over a year ago

My Town

"right when we going?????? lol "

Hello!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hellloooooooooo

you done any clubs yet hun? i'm still a club virgin lol

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By *igBunny OP Woman
over a year ago

My Town

once, cupids in swinton. i went with a male friend and he looked after me.

But, I owuld like to try partners i Bury, with a female.

I wouldn't like to go on my own, but if I went with a man, I would feel I had to stay with them all night.

So would rather go under my own steam, but with a lady friend and we could look out for each other.

And make sure the "Dorises" behave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"once, cupids in swinton. i went with a male friend and he looked after me.

But, I owuld like to try partners i Bury, with a female.

I wouldn't like to go on my own, but if I went with a man, I would feel I had to stay with them all night.

So would rather go under my own steam, but with a lady friend and we could look out for each other.

And make sure the "Dorises" behave

Oi..... Most of the Gents on here have manners, would never hassle a woman..

I tried it once, she's still bloody here eh lol..

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By *igBunny OP Woman
over a year ago

My Town

"once, cupids in swinton. i went with a male friend and he looked after me.

But, I owuld like to try partners i Bury, with a female.

I wouldn't like to go on my own, but if I went with a man, I would feel I had to stay with them all night.

So would rather go under my own steam, but with a lady friend and we could look out for each other.

And make sure the "Dorises" behave

Oi..... Most of the Gents on here have manners, would never hassle a woman..

I tried it once, she's still bloody here eh lol..

Sorry, the men on the forum seem nice and polite.

I must just get the nutters and wankers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh there are a fair few arseholes we can say.

we got a pm about two weeks ago from a guy 'begging' me to meet on my own and away from my boy, which it clearly states on the profile is not going to happen, nevermind the fact that iv never been with another guy.

his email was all sleazey and then went on to say, and i quote

' then baby we can head to a premier inn, il pay, where i can screw you hard from behind, slapping your ass while you scream out titles of james bond movies'

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By *igBunny OP Woman
over a year ago

My Town

"oh there are a fair few arseholes we can say.

his email was all sleazey and then went on to say, and i quote

' then baby we can head to a premier inn, il pay, where i can screw you hard from behind, slapping your ass while you scream out titles of james bond movies'

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OMG, that is weird.

How can you take them seriously? Some message telling you how they will make you wet and come all ngiht. Yeah right lol.

Just had one telling me his wife won't sleep with him. Why the hell should I then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lmao nicely put!!!! i'm thinking a club next week some time!!! have a lady friend who also wants 2 try it out! we're both club virgins but wnt knock it til we've tried it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lmao nicely put!!!! i'm thinking a club next week some time!!! have a lady friend who also wants 2 try it out! we're both club virgins but wnt knock it til we've tried it!!! "

You been yet?? How did it go???

I'm jealous ... Not sure I'd have the bottle to go with just girls ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had one telling me his wife won't sleep with him. Why the hell should I then!"

Haha, I liked that!

From a blokes point of view, make sure you say exactly what you want to get on your profile.

There are plenty of nob heads who don't read profiles, so there is no way you can stop those plokers emailing you, but the few of us serious guys want to know if we stand any chance. If you don't say you only want 40+ guys, for example there is no point in me emailing and I would just annoy you if I did, know what I mean?

Have fun, though and be safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and you do have lovely eyes, by the way!

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By *lgernonMan
over a year ago

cupar

"Hi

In some instances a club may not be the best deal for you as a single lady can sometimes be hassled a lot which may put you off the idea.

Maybe try one of the socials that people organise on here

Good luck and hope you have fun, stay safe."

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By *igBunny OP Woman
over a year ago

My Town

"Oh and you do have lovely eyes, by the way!

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go to a few social meets first hun then you get to know one or two and see who who fancy anyway best of luck kiddo xx

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

so you not into james bond films then ?er that if we ever meet I have to remeber that LOL

Sue

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