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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So you have a social with a couple, all goes well, you spend a few weeks chatting and arranging a play meet. All are extremely enthusiastic, but then you get stood up! Why? How hard is it to just send a quick message saying they've changed their mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They might have felt embarrassed about changing their minds. It's not always black n white, not everyone just says 'we're just not gonna turn up'

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"How hard is it to just send a quick message saying they've changed their mind? "

Judging from the amount of times these posts appear, almost impossible. I do wonder why, in these days of instantaneous communication, it seems to be so difficult to drop a quick text along the lines of 'I've/we've changed our mind'. I have had a couple of texts along those lines and I've been fine with it. Better than being sat in a pub alone with people looking at me with sympathy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How hard is it to just send a quick message saying they've changed their mind?

Judging from the amount of times these posts appear, almost impossible. I do wonder why, in these days of instantaneous communication, it seems to be so difficult to drop a quick text along the lines of 'I've/we've changed our mind'. I have had a couple of texts along those lines and I've been fine with it. Better than being sat in a pub alone with people looking at me with sympathy."
well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just bloody rude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly. We're non pushy and friendly, we'd have been polite about the situation and stuff, we'd just rather know instead of traveling and waiting.

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By *inkylouiseWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Honesty and decencey is allways the best policey but alas its not the way on here a shame realy.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Maybe it was a fake profile? Did they have recent verifications? Had you spoken to them via webcam?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so unbelievably rude and happened to me a lot in the early days xxx

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Maybe it was a fake profile? Did they have recent verifications? Had you spoken to them via webcam? "

They had a social with them??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe it was a fake profile? Did they have recent verifications? Had you spoken to them via webcam? "

We had a social with them lol, they were eager right up to the morning of our play meet, then just didn't show or reply to messages, but had been viewing us on here around the time we were meant to be meeting, which is my point, if they had time to click on our profile they had time to say "sorry we won't be there " lol

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Maybe it was a fake profile? Did they have recent verifications? Had you spoken to them via webcam?

We had a social with them lol, they were eager right up to the morning of our play meet, then just didn't show or reply to messages, but had been viewing us on here around the time we were meant to be meeting, which is my point, if they had time to click on our profile they had time to say "sorry we won't be there " lol"

Ah, Sorry my mistake, I read your post too quickly. Yeah that is pretty bad

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Rude and selfish

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"So you have a social with a couple, all goes well, you spend a few weeks chatting and arranging a play meet. All are extremely enthusiastic, but then you get stood up! Why? How hard is it to just send a quick message saying they've changed their mind? "

Sorry to hear this,seems some people get their kicks this way.It doesnt take much to tell someone you have changed yr mind .Lots of great people here who wont mess you about though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd put it in with the rude people who don't reply to messages on here.

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By *ngel delight 69Woman
over a year ago

Torquay

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"So you have a social with a couple, all goes well, you spend a few weeks chatting and arranging a play meet. All are extremely enthusiastic, but then you get stood up! Why? How hard is it to just send a quick message saying they've changed their mind?

Sorry to hear this,seems some people get their kicks this way.It doesnt take much to tell someone you have changed yr mind .Lots of great people here who wont mess you about though."

Sounds like cold feet which must be embarrassing but they should have told you.

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