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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A fabber asked to meet last night to go to a club, I told him j would do nothing more than a bj because my other half wasnt there, iv woken up this morning to see a status from what he called his FB which must b his gf sayin how could he cheat on her as soon as she left manchester... This has made me feel awful about swinging now and the fact he asked last night if we could meet again tonight....

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Well, from what you say, you were upfront and honest...If there is an issue it is between them, not you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The issue is with them

I wouldn't worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A fabber asked to meet last night to go to a club, I told him j would do nothing more than a bj because my other half wasnt there, iv woken up this morning to see a status from what he called his FB which must b his gf sayin how could he cheat on her as soon as she left manchester... This has made me feel awful about swinging now and the fact he asked last night if we could meet again tonight.... "

Ouch. In the future will you make sure you chat to the female to ensure she is okay with it? I'd be okay with my husband playing alone but would always be willing to chat to the other participants to confirm it and if we were to play with a half of a couple alone would want to do the same. Weeds out the liars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ouch. In the future will you make sure you chat to the female to ensure she is okay with it? I'd be okay with my husband playing alone but would always be willing to chat to the other participants to confirm it and if we were to play with a half of a couple alone would want to do the same. Weeds out the liars. "

Same here, always check with both parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't worry about it, one guy from here told me his girlfriend was a only a mate. Not sure why guys even mention their girlfriend if they're gonna lie about them? She wasn't on here so far as i know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A fabber asked to meet last night to go to a club, I told him j would do nothing more than a bj because my other half wasnt there, iv woken up this morning to see a status from what he called his FB which must b his gf sayin how could he cheat on her as soon as she left manchester... This has made me feel awful about swinging now and the fact he asked last night if we could meet again tonight....

Ouch. In the future will you make sure you chat to the female to ensure she is okay with it? I'd be okay with my husband playing alone but would always be willing to chat to the other participants to confirm it and if we were to play with a half of a couple alone would want to do the same. Weeds out the liars. "

If the guy said she was his FB why would they need to then go an ask her and involve themselves like that its not there issue if he's a liar

Wouldn't worry about it guys you did nothing wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so many real single guys and women on here are still seeing attached guys? duh!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A fabber asked to meet last night to go to a club, I told him j would do nothing more than a bj because my other half wasnt there, iv woken up this morning to see a status from what he called his FB which must b his gf sayin how could he cheat on her as soon as she left manchester... This has made me feel awful about swinging now and the fact he asked last night if we could meet again tonight.... "

No need or you to feel awful about what someone else did if you had no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The issue is between him and his girlfriend/fuckbuddy, I can't see that you did anything wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A fabber asked to meet last night to go to a club, I told him j would do nothing more than a bj because my other half wasnt there, iv woken up this morning to see a status from what he called his FB which must b his gf sayin how could he cheat on her as soon as she left manchester... This has made me feel awful about swinging now and the fact he asked last night if we could meet again tonight....

Ouch. In the future will you make sure you chat to the female to ensure she is okay with it? I'd be okay with my husband playing alone but would always be willing to chat to the other participants to confirm it and if we were to play with a half of a couple alone would want to do the same. Weeds out the liars. "

Seemed genuine enough to be honest plus so many guys can easily pretend to be there other half, really annoyed me to be honest how people can lie no point being on this site if u cant be honest with people xx

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Some people lie on here to get what they want. As long as you are up front and honest with your partner then don't worry about others, leave them to mess up/live their life their way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still giggling at the . "Just a BJ as my partner wasn't there".

Do you know Bill Clinton by any chance ?

You're not responsible.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"A fabber asked to meet last night to go to a club, I told him j would do nothing more than a bj because my other half wasnt there, iv woken up this morning to see a status from what he called his FB which must b his gf sayin how could he cheat on her as soon as she left manchester... This has made me feel awful about swinging now and the fact he asked last night if we could meet again tonight.... "

That's his problem...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good that you have trust with your partner to play seperately. Don't let people take advantage of that.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Some people lie on here to get what they want. As long as you are up front and honest with your partner then don't worry about others, leave them to mess up/live their life their way."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the immortal words of Minxie "it wasn't your fault"

You cannot be responsible for the actions of others.

(Is this an elaborate look at me thread?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not your issue op

Your honest with your partner and that's what matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A fabber asked to meet last night to go to a club, I told him j would do nothing more than a bj because my other half wasnt there, iv woken up this morning to see a status from what he called his FB which must b his gf sayin how could he cheat on her as soon as she left manchester... This has made me feel awful about swinging now and the fact he asked last night if we could meet again tonight.... "

Did she name you? What makes you think the status is about you? He could be fucking women all over the place.

Odd.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She message me hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She message me hun x"

Don't feel bad. His issues, not yours. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A fabber asked to meet last night to go to a club, I told him j would do nothing more than a bj because my other half wasnt there, iv woken up this morning to see a status from what he called his FB which must b his gf sayin how could he cheat on her as soon as she left manchester... This has made me feel awful about swinging now and the fact he asked last night if we could meet again tonight....

Ouch. In the future will you make sure you chat to the female to ensure she is okay with it? I'd be okay with my husband playing alone but would always be willing to chat to the other participants to confirm it and if we were to play with a half of a couple alone would want to do the same. Weeds out the liars.

Seemed genuine enough to be honest plus so many guys can easily pretend to be there other half, really annoyed me to be honest how people can lie no point being on this site if u cant be honest with people xx"

We have on rare occasions met one half of a couple.. We always speak to both halves and if its a guy asking, we would never do it without knowing the woman involved and having asked her.,

I would expect the same in return if anyone was wanting to meet either of us.. Not that its currently an issue.

you didnt do anything wrong but can see how you would feel bad..

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Well, from what you say, you were upfront and honest...If there is an issue it is between them, not you..."

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By *tloversCouple
over a year ago

Warrington

You don't have to check with the other person in a couple. .that's their issue not yours.

You did absolutely nothing wrong at all..look after your own relationship and let everyone else worry about theirs. You sound in a good place in your relationship so carry on and yes shame for his gf but not your problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to get a thicker skin and detach emotion from physical pleasure ....don't get involved otherwise x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm still giggling at the . "Just a BJ as my partner wasn't there".

Do you know Bill Clinton by any chance ?

You're not responsible. "

I dont know bill haha but thats just a rule we have between us and that I stick too if im having full sex my other half likes to watch so seems wrong to do it while hes not there, this was made clear to the meet before hand,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the immortal words of Minxie "it wasn't your fault"

You cannot be responsible for the actions of others.

(Is this an elaborate look at me thread?) "

And nooo this is not a look at me thread, if I wanted people to look at me id be running down my street naked, this is a genuine post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not your problem lady. Move in and let him dort out his GF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the immortal words of Minxie "it wasn't your fault"

You cannot be responsible for the actions of others.

(Is this an elaborate look at me thread?)

And nooo this is not a look at me thread, if I wanted people to look at me id be running down my street naked, this is a genuine post "

In that case, move on with a clear conscience

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