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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I know the answer before I ask the question but I need to know.

Been chatting to someone and arranged a meeting. All of a sudden, everything has gone, even when the viewed me

Does this mean I've been had ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

means they have blocked or gone UNLOS.

happens.

might be something you said, might be cold feet, might of had a real life situation, might be a fake.

who knows? oh yeah, only them.

move on try again have fun.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think I know the answer before I ask the question but I need to know.

Been chatting to someone and arranged a meeting. All of a sudden, everything has gone, even when the viewed me

Does this mean I've been had ?"

Annoying isn't it. This and variations of this situation have happened to us now we never expect anything until we are sitting in a bar having a drink with people who look similar to photos we've been sent......even then we check to be sure they aren't holograms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just had same!! chatted for 2wks arranged to meet this wknd now they've got "other" plans!! such is fab! Next

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

".even then we check to be sure they aren't holograms"

sure ebay have them..lol..Connie x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"".even then we check to be sure they aren't holograms"

sure ebay have them..lol..Connie x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They put so much effort into it. Oh well. That opens up the opportunity to visit attic this afternoon/evening for the first time

The Attic does exist doesn't it ?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They put so much effort into it. Oh well. That opens up the opportunity to visit attic this afternoon/evening for the first time

The Attic does exist doesn't it ?? Lol "

Course it does. It's where I keep my Christmas decs

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

I think this is a dynamic of meeting people from the Internet...

As a human being you will always err towards the tangible.

Some people are dedicated or are driven by their curiosity and physical needs to meet people...

But most will weigh up the options, with a few deciding, doing nothing, staying in and watching TV is the best choice.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

When that happens next to the block button should be a 'cunt button' which tells everyone they're a time wasting cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When that happens next to the block button should be a 'cunt button' which tells everyone they're a time wasting cunt. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When that happens next to the block button should be a 'cunt button' which tells everyone they're a time wasting cunt. "

How lovely. Because they have decided you're not for them you call them a cunt?? Lucky escape for them I would say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't you think that the more civilised way of backing out is to just say 'sorry but we've changed our minds' and not just block. ?

I'm a little nieve I suppose, I didn't realise manners don't count anymore. ?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


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The Attic does exist doesn't it ?? Lol "

Only in the first 4 dimensions, but not the 5th

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few men try to get sex talk from me and go UNLOS after realising it's futile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the major reasons I only do spontaneous meets is because I get scared of committing to plans. Things change and I'd prefer to lose out on chances than have to explain myself for cancelling or flaking out. I'm the opposite end of the spectrum, it works for me but infuriates others.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"When that happens next to the block button should be a 'cunt button' which tells everyone they're a time wasting cunt.

How lovely. Because they have decided you're not for them you call them a cunt?? Lucky escape for them I would say"

No, they're a cunt for not saying so. We are straight with every couple either way and spend time getting ready and don't appreciate being let down at the last minute xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a couple cancel hours before we were due to meet then posted a new veri the next day, a swift blocking sorted that one, another couple we had planned to meet went unlos the week before we had planned to meet, thats life!

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"One of the major reasons I only do spontaneous meets is because I get scared of committing to plans. Things change and I'd prefer to lose out on chances than have to explain myself for cancelling or flaking out. I'm the opposite end of the spectrum, it works for me but infuriates others. "

I'm kind of with you on this, I'm capricious and decide on the spot what I want to do, a day or two, fine. A week and i have changed my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my best meets off here have come after maybe an hour or 3 chatting but some need planning and arranging. it seems like some just string you along and when your let down by those you invited into your home it is taking the piss! it's the main reason i dnt travel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few men try to get sex talk from me and go UNLOS after realising it's futile. "

Frustrating isn't it? If I wanted to just talk about it I'd get paid for it on a sex line.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I think I know the answer before I ask the question but I need to know.

Been chatting to someone and arranged a meeting. All of a sudden, everything has gone, even when the viewed me

Does this mean I've been had ?"

I have a question for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had the same thing , was chatting to a couple who said they really wanted to meet up , then when i looked again they had left the site , so annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

great idea , i like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When that happens next to the block button should be a 'cunt button' which tells everyone they're a time wasting cunt. "

I'm with you on that one xx

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

people's situations change, or they may have decided against continuing to remain in touch...doesn't mean they are not genuine...best move on and not worry about it.

Good luck in the future

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

I think if 3 people press the 'cunt button' then you should be flagged up so we can see your a time waster

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"people's situations change, or they may have decided against continuing to remain in touch...doesn't mean they are not genuine...best move on and not worry about it.

Good luck in the future"

Also people who don't have a verification in a year should be auto deleted too as they're time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people's situations change, or they may have decided against continuing to remain in touch...doesn't mean they are not genuine...best move on and not worry about it.

Good luck in the future

Also people who don't have a verification in a year should be auto deleted too as they're time wasters "
not true!

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"people's situations change, or they may have decided against continuing to remain in touch...doesn't mean they are not genuine...best move on and not worry about it.

Good luck in the future

Also people who don't have a verification in a year should be auto deleted too as they're time wasters not true! "

Yes you are, just webcam verify or go to a club

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Can I just say that the first part quoted above [the nice part!] is from my post...and the bit after about non verified people is not me!

For the record i don't think if you aren't verified after a year means anything...and I know several people on here who are very very genuine but not interested in veris at all... I know it is maybe best if you are, but not a definite negative reflection if you aren't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people's situations change, or they may have decided against continuing to remain in touch...doesn't mean they are not genuine...best move on and not worry about it.

Good luck in the future

Also people who don't have a verification in a year should be auto deleted too as they're time wasters not true!

Yes you are, just webcam verify or go to a club"
no! i dnt want to do any of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I just say that the first part quoted above [the nice part!] is from my post...and the bit after about non verified people is not me!

For the record i don't think if you aren't verified after a year means anything...and I know several people on here who are very very genuine but not interested in veris at all... I know it is maybe best if you are, but not a definite negative reflection if you aren't..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me too.

Went a bit far and created a whole other website similar to fab where people earned trust points as well as verifications for meets.

Of course if they arranged and then blocked for no reason they could have mistrust points against them on their profile.

Was quite a nifty site.

Took it down in the end as no one visited.

I didnt mind as I enjoyed making it. Still have all the code somewhere.

Lol.

In the end you just have to chalk it up to experience mate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Update!!!

"EVERY CLOUD"

Since I posted the original thread, I've had so many messages of support, both public and private, and met some lovely genuine people-not to mention 2 OFFERS TO PLAY. Now you tell me ...has every cloud got a silver lining or what ?

Thank you f abbers. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Update!!!

"EVERY CLOUD"

Since I posted the original thread, I've had so many messages of support, both public and private, and met some lovely genuine people-not to mention 2 OFFERS TO PLAY. Now you tell me ...has every cloud got a silver lining or what ?

Thank you f abbers. X"
you little scamp!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Update!!!

"EVERY CLOUD"

Since I posted the original thread, I've had so many messages of support, both public and private, and met some lovely genuine people-not to mention 2 OFFERS TO PLAY. Now you tell me ...has every cloud got a silver lining or what ?

Thank you f abbers. X"

Sympathy f**ks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if 3 people press the 'cunt button' then you should be flagged up so we can see your a time waster"

'Letzplay' are timewasters. Never met you and never will but I've said it so it must be true. Not like that idea would be abused!!

Here's a radical idea why don't people just use common sense and quit blaming others when they make bad decisions.

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley


"I think if 3 people press the 'cunt button' then you should be flagged up so we can see your a time waster"

The danger of that is that some people will press it just because you didn't reply to their messages or even if you just say 'no thanks'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Update!!!

"EVERY CLOUD"

Since I posted the original thread, I've had so many messages of support, both public and private, and met some lovely genuine people-not to mention 2 OFFERS TO PLAY. Now you tell me ...has every cloud got a silver lining or what ?

Thank you f abbers. X

Sympathy f**ks? "

isn't that why people start this type of thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prob just another cock teaser op. I wouldn't worry about it. There are loads of them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When my cock is down a woman's throat...i don't care if it's sympathy the put it there.

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