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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I recently met a guy in one of the chat rooms and 20 minutes later he was in my house having a coffee and then afters.

The connection between us is immense, mentally, physically, sexually and socially and I know both of us are blown away with how well we have gelled.

We have had 3 meets so far and are planning many many many more but I am trying to keep a sense of reality about this situation.

It has just been a week so far but my head is racing all the time with kinky and twisted thoughts of what to do with him the next time we meet. I am living breathing dreaming of him constantly and it is getting in the way of my studies.

Im certain that is isnt love but this level of lust is driving me insane. Has anyone else had such a relationship on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On FAB and real life. Neither ended well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you are over thinking it all. Just enjoy the experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently met a guy in one of the chat rooms and 20 minutes later he was in my house having a coffee and then afters.

The connection between us is immense, mentally, physically, sexually and socially and I know both of us are blown away with how well we have gelled.

We have had 3 meets so far and are planning many many many more but I am trying to keep a sense of reality about this situation.

It has just been a week so far but my head is racing all the time with kinky and twisted thoughts of what to do with him the next time we meet. I am living breathing dreaming of him constantly and it is getting in the way of my studies.

Im certain that is isnt love but this level of lust is driving me insane. Has anyone else had such a relationship on fab. "

Not had this on fab I never let myself get like that,I have outside of fab though.

just enjoy it

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Had this years ago when I worked in Guildford. I was dating one the cleaners. Any excuse and I'd have to find her for a clean up.... Couldn't keep our hands off each other. Many a cupboard and a few disabled loos not to mention her dragging me in to some bushes.... So nearly caught

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy it! Life is short so live in the moment x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Not had this on fab I never let myself get like that,I have outside of fab though.

just enjoy it "

I didnt let myself - it was a case of he saw me on cam and messaged - i viewed him on cam and my insides just twisted and I knew I had to see him asap. It wasnt planned

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If he feels the same it's all good but if not just enjoy it for what it is. Great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few times. Only from fab and all ended badly. Enjoy it whilst you can

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When u say ended badly how do you mean?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"I recently met a guy in one of the chat rooms and 20 minutes later he was in my house having a coffee and then afters.

The connection between us is immense, mentally, physically, sexually and socially and I know both of us are blown away with how well we have gelled.

We have had 3 meets so far and are planning many many many more but I am trying to keep a sense of reality about this situation.

It has just been a week so far but my head is racing all the time with kinky and twisted thoughts of what to do with him the next time we meet. I am living breathing dreaming of him constantly and it is getting in the way of my studies.

Im certain that is isnt love but this level of lust is driving me insane. Has anyone else had such a relationship on fab. "

nope but I want one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. I've been meeting him for over 2 years. I still do think about him quite a lot throughout but I am a fully functioning addict now lol. I'm sure it'll get more manageable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky devils. Good for you. Enjoy it while it lasts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do. I've been meeting him for over 2 years. I still do think about him quite a lot throughout but I am a fully functioning addict now lol. I'm sure it'll get more manageable. "

My worry is one of us will fall and that will be the end. If we both fall then there is no problem is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently met a guy in one of the chat rooms and 20 minutes later he was in my house having a coffee and then afters.

The connection between us is immense, mentally, physically, sexually and socially and I know both of us are blown away with how well we have gelled.

We have had 3 meets so far and are planning many many many more but I am trying to keep a sense of reality about this situation.

It has just been a week so far but my head is racing all the time with kinky and twisted thoughts of what to do with him the next time we meet. I am living breathing dreaming of him constantly and it is getting in the way of my studies.

Im certain that is isnt love but this level of lust is driving me insane. Has anyone else had such a relationship on fab. "

That level of lust is compulsory for me, can't see the point in meeting otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there done it,, and got hurt... Be careful. Since that happened I heve built a very very sturdy wall which has almost crumbled on several occasions . Enjoy it while you can op but keep that wall sturdy.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Soo I think u are right xx

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom


"When u say ended badly how do you mean?"

The candle that burns twice as bright, lasts half as long......

Enjoy it while its there....xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup op had it just the once and still addicted to Mr deviant... It can get complicated but just try to enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Enjoy it! Life is short so live in the moment x"

Completely agree with this. Doesn't happen often so grab it, literally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do. I've been meeting him for over 2 years. I still do think about him quite a lot throughout but I am a fully functioning addict now lol. I'm sure it'll get more manageable.

My worry is one of us will fall and that will be the end. If we both fall then there is no problem is there."

This is how I mean badly. Unfortunately when sex keeps getting better and better it's a lot harder to keep it no strings in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crash and burn eventually but enjoy it all while it lasts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My issue is I am an over thinker so I analyse everything to the nth degree.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples


"My issue is I am an over thinker so I analyse everything to the nth degree."

Well, stop doing that, if you have a question in your mind, ask it. Very simple and as an ex overthinker, it dies work and will save your sanity

Things can get complicated when emotions become involved, but that's not a bad thing.

No strings doesn't have to be no emotion, for me it simply means no commitment

I've experienced real connections with some I've met on here, my best and closest friend is an ex playmate from here whose wedding I was at last year. And at our peak, we were very hot for each other, like you've described

Like everything, communication is key, and enjoy while it's happening and be honest with yourself about what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks Soo I think u are right xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When's the wedding ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup...happened to me on my very first meet oddly enough.

We're still friends now....

Enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy the experiences whilst its still exciting for you. I was the same but now its just fizzled out for me..try not to get strong feelings in case you do get hurt,just be careful xx have lots of fun

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I met up with an old work mate recently and we ended up shagging...I'm a bit smitten and completely in lust at the moment - he's married but has plenty of free time to spend at mine and although he's vanilla, he's always been a bit of a tart so I'm completely open about my lifestyle. I'm enjoying it for what it is, but I have been surprised at the amount of time I'm thinking about him - I can't think of another time I've been quite so infatuated over a bloke, but I'm not gonna be hanging my swinging boots up

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I recently met a guy in one of the chat rooms and 20 minutes later he was in my house having a coffee and then afters.

The connection between us is immense, mentally, physically, sexually and socially and I know both of us are blown away with how well we have gelled.

We have had 3 meets so far and are planning many many many more but I am trying to keep a sense of reality about this situation.

It has just been a week so far but my head is racing all the time with kinky and twisted thoughts of what to do with him the next time we meet. I am living breathing dreaming of him constantly and it is getting in the way of my studies.

Im certain that is isnt love but this level of lust is driving me insane. Has anyone else had such a relationship on fab. "

Yes - but not on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes on fabs....I'm married and he was single ...ended badly but friends now ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Have had some very intense, erotic, passionate play sessions with a few playmates from here. I am definitely getting better at enjoying things while they last and not trying too hard to rekindle things. Some relationships have a natural shelf life....

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