FabSwingers.com forum: getting deleted

By *ultan of swing 55 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

People are more likely to respond to someone with some public pics and profile write up. At the moment there is nothing there to grab someone's interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you write?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you write?"

Bit nosey aren't you lol

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?"

Don't send a message problem solved

Seriously maybe your approach isn't working plenty of advice on the forums if you search

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By *ultan of swing 55 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

usally put fancy a chat ?

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth

Would you prefer if someone replied saying 'no' ?

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By *ultan of swing 55 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

good idea

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By *ultan of swing 55 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

yes would be better lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?"

Just keep sending them it every time the delete it. Works every time

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By *ultan of swing 55 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

very good hats off

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yeap! I would delete....poor profile and no pics, I've got loads of cute guys to choose from with a decent profile and pictures which allow me to choose, funny that

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?"

My advice is deal with it and move on nobody owes you a reply or explanation as to why

also I have no idea what's in the message or if you attach pictures but my answer would still be as above

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?"

You've been on the site for over a year and this is the best profile you can manage?

I think you can figure out why nobody replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women get millions of emails aday and 98% of the time they will delete lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"usally put fancy a chat ?"

Is that it? That's how you hope to be successful? Jeez!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt reply to your messages as you have no pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i wouldnt reply to your messages as you have no pics"

Plus hes not black lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"usally put fancy a chat ?"
add "fancy my cocksnot up ya fartpipe if not" that works for me cuts the bs out too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"usally put fancy a chat ? add "fancy my cocksnot up ya fartpipe if not" that works for me cuts the bs out too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"usally put fancy a chat ? add "fancy my cocksnot up ya fartpipe if not" that works for me cuts the bs out too!

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giggidy

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I look at the profile before I open the message, and with your profile and a fancy a chat message I would delete as well. There is nothing there that sparks my interest.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"usally put fancy a chat ?"

That'll be it probably as it's coupled with a virtually non existent profile. One or the other, preferably both, need more effort I would say. Good luck.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"i wouldnt reply to your messages as you have no pics

Plus hes not black lol

How do you know? His silhouette is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send the message then delete it so that you won't see if it's read or not. That way, you delete it first and can deal with important things like food. Then you'll be surprised when women reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?"

Post up a message you've sent that's got deleted then we can have a look and see if there's an issue.

Otherwise it might jist be they didn't fancy you

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By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago

In amongst the Unicorns & fairy dust

"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?"

My apologies if this sounds harsh OP but according to the green arrow you asked exactly the same question about 6 months ago and received similar advice from others that contributed to the thread , and after glancing at your profile you chose to ignore the advice given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?

attention seeking again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he works for Sydney University??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?"

No easy answer

I prefer a deleted mail to snotty answer or constant no's

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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

No wonder your messages get deleted , I'd do the same . Your profile is hardly exciting and you have no pics

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Have you changed anything about your profile or approach from last time you asked exactly the same question?? No?? Oh well, you know best eh? See you in another 6 months....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeap! I would delete....poor profile and no pics, I've got loads of cute guys to choose from with a decent profile and pictures which allow me to choose, funny that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A delete is a no thanks, all you have to is in your head realise that deleting your message means no thanks, a lot of guys get this and understand.

If asking people to chat gets you a yes answer what you gonna say next? Bet you can't chat after saying that.

I've noticed many guys are 'bored' and that's why they're here and they expect me to put all the effort in an entertain them, well no thanks to that, i don't want to be as bored as you are.

I'm probably either ignoring my inbox coz it's boring in itself or i'm already chatting to several guys at once if anything of interest appears in it.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"usally put fancy a chat ?"

do you attach a face pic.

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By *earboynottinghamMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

You need an avatar otherwise a lot of people will just delete immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"usally put fancy a chat ?"

And that will be why, that and fact that profile is poor

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?"

Pictures. I'd delete too just because you have none.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

The green arrow shows you asked this 29 weeks ago.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"The green arrow shows you asked this 29 weeks ago.

In 29 weeks there may be others who might post, which will mean different advice.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP...if you sent a mail saying fancy a chat to us we may answer but it would be no thanks too.

The very first meet we had was with someone who sent a one line mail that had us laughing, we replied and it ended up in a meet. I don't think a first message has to be war and peace but it has to stand out or you will get lost inbetween the good ones.

For your profile, you are obviously happy with it so you don't have to take anyones advice if you don't want to, but an avatar pic might help.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?"

Honest answer, no avatar I would probably delete tbh

All the best

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Wonder if the OP will take the advice and put a pic up, or will it go in one ear and out the other?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Op you were advised that pictures would help 4 months ago. You've not put any up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"usally put fancy a chat ?"

Really? How enticing. Do you give a hint as to what you might wish to chat about?

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?"

Same advice as you got the last time you asked, sort your profile out and you will have more success, but you will probably ignore this thread as well.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

So a question....would that line that you can see at the start of any mail make anyone want to open a profile to check it out anyway?

We don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So a question....would that line that you can see at the start of any mail make anyone want to open a profile to check it out anyway?

We don't

Snap. I always think, "If you want to chat, bloody chat. But don't ask me if I want to chat with no idea of what." It is rather like the, "How r u?" line. I'm fine, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?"

Your profile isn't very exciting !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a fuck. Hi or your gonna get it hard you bitch get deleted automatic by the fab police

Could be there not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have asked for advice more than once op and the best advice I can give on profiles is.... listen to what your told. the replies you are getting on this thread are from your target audience so to speak. Listen and enact the changes you are told about where possible.

What Info I have gathered that ladies like in a single guy profile from just reading the threads is as follows

1. Avatar.

Have one, either a body shot, face or something that will make them smile..

Very few ladies want to see your todger... they have all seen them before.

2. profile.

Fill it out. Message me, I have a massive cock, wanna meet birds and shag em profile text probably means your lazy and wont put effort into getting a meet so chances are you wont make an effort once you do get one. Tell people about YOU. Your profile is your shop window as there are an awful lot of shop windows on fab use it to the best of your ability and stand out.

Humour is always good.

Messages.

Keep them open and honest, a little about you and show you have read their profile properly, if your addressing a couple talk to both of them, remember the male half reads them too and if you were to message us "you have great tits, wanna fuck", will just get deleted.

If she wants to see your fella she will ask unless its already stated on her profile she wants one but you would know that if you had read the profile.

I think thats all I can say.. sorry so long winded, hope it helps and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?"

You profile screams DELETE ME.

No profile pic

No photos

No decent profile text

Just no effort

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