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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive been on this site ages and have never had a meet, can someone tell me why? Or help me get moving? Haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many dicks on the dancefloor. And your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Too many dicks on the dancefloor. And your profile."
dont get how but ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, its like a lottery of who will get laid or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many dicks on the dancefloor. And your profile. dont get how but ok "

She's saying you have too many cock pics which put most women off and not enough variety of others, torso, bum, suited etc so people can see what your body is like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might help you if you changed your profile. It is too short and conveys nothing. "Anything" is really not good.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

For me I have a fairly quick filter process and this is before even reading the message;

1: if the profile avatar is the set to the shaowman, a cock or too dark so barely visible (like yours) I instantly delete without reading or caring further

2: If the avatar looks good I open the profile, if theres no pics or just a gallery of cock shots I again delete the message without reading it.

3: the text if its as generic as yours so shows no personality I again delete the message without reading

4: If 1-3 are ok i read the message if it doesnt spark my interest or show an attempt to.have read my profile I again delete without reply.

If your curious about why id call your profile generic its because of mainly two things, the first is everyone is "here for fun" and two use of the word genuine, as it means nothing! your only genuine once at the meet itself.

Another thing to.consider is would you really do ANYTHING? If I asked you to vome over while I took a shit in your mouth and watched you eat it, would you? or If i asked you to dress and be a baby all night long would you? as both qre very real fetishes that come within the realms of you doing 'anything'

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

If you've been on the site for over a year and not had a meet, then that in itself will work against you as people will wonder why...I'd delete this profile and start again but with a much better one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one can help you other then yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club socialise get invited to parties swingers don't bite unless invited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The self pity of your status is a massive turn off for me.

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, its like a lottery of who will get laid or not."

Its defo not a lottery, show respect and that you have read the profile you are sending messages too, include a face pic, be polite, let your personalty come through in message and have patience, also if they say no, move on and don't let it get you down, OP your profile does need some work tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a good looking fella! someone like you shouldnt have a problem with meeting at all! just work on how your message people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pics (not cock) and more info on your profile should make the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile very bland

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By *eshzMan
over a year ago

0151

OP you only have 5 lines as part of your profile. I'm sure as an individual in flesh, you are much more interesting than this...but its failing to come across here, why don't you take some time browsing and looking at profiles that are well written, I'm sure you will get a "feel" on what you should write. You also should consider taking the advice of other posters regarding putting more pictures and not only cock pictures.Hope this helps bud. All the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's Easter weekend. Most people are with their families. Not the best time for meets.

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"For me I have a fairly quick filter process and this is before even reading the message;

1: if the profile avatar is the set to the shaowman, a cock or too dark so barely visible (like yours) I instantly delete without reading or caring further

2: If the avatar looks good I open the profile, if theres no pics or just a gallery of cock shots I again delete the message without reading it.

3: the text if its as generic as yours so shows no personality I again delete the message without reading

4: If 1-3 are ok i read the message if it doesnt spark my interest or show an attempt to.have read my profile I again delete without reply.

If your curious about why id call your profile generic its because of mainly two things, the first is everyone is "here for fun" and two use of the word genuine, as it means nothing! your only genuine once at the meet itself.

Another thing to.consider is would you really do ANYTHING? If I asked you to vome over while I took a shit in your mouth and watched you eat it, would you? or If i asked you to dress and be a baby all night long would you? as both qre very real fetishes that come within the realms of you doing 'anything'"

I howled - esp about the last section ; thank you!

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"willing to try anything" he says.

except writing a proper fucking profile, I say.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"For me I have a fairly quick filter process and this is before even reading the message;

1: if the profile avatar is the set to the shaowman, a cock or too dark so barely visible (like yours) I instantly delete without reading or caring further

2: If the avatar looks good I open the profile, if theres no pics or just a gallery of cock shots I again delete the message without reading it.

3: the text if its as generic as yours so shows no personality I again delete the message without reading

4: If 1-3 are ok i read the message if it doesnt spark my interest or show an attempt to.have read my profile I again delete without reply.

If your curious about why id call your profile generic its because of mainly two things, the first is everyone is "here for fun" and two use of the word genuine, as it means nothing! your only genuine once at the meet itself.

Another thing to.consider is would you really do ANYTHING? If I asked you to vome over while I took a shit in your mouth and watched you eat it, would you? or If i asked you to dress and be a baby all night long would you? as both qre very real fetishes that come within the realms of you doing 'anything'

I howled - esp about the last section ; thank you! "

Ill be here all week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on this site ages and have never had a meet, can someone tell me why? Or help me get moving? Haha xx"

Sort your profile out, it's shit!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

last time i checked fabswingers hasn't started charging by the word on profiles quite yet.... so may i suggest you use a few more.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience young glasshoppa. I had a bit of Skype fun with a girl, that gave a few the trust in me to commit to a meet. Then it's all down to timing. Took 3 attempts to fix a date with my first meet. Got another lined up for Wednesday plus a couple more in the pipeline, just down to good old timing. Don't force it, let it happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me I have a fairly quick filter process and this is before even reading the message;

1: if the profile avatar is the set to the shaowman, a cock or too dark so barely visible (like yours) I instantly delete without reading or caring further

2: If the avatar looks good I open the profile, if theres no pics or just a gallery of cock shots I again delete the message without reading it.

3: the text if its as generic as yours so shows no personality I again delete the message without reading

4: If 1-3 are ok i read the message if it doesnt spark my interest or show an attempt to.have read my profile I again delete without reply.

If your curious about why id call your profile generic its because of mainly two things, the first is everyone is "here for fun" and two use of the word genuine, as it means nothing! your only genuine once at the meet itself.

Another thing to.consider is would you really do ANYTHING? If I asked you to vome over while I took a shit in your mouth and watched you eat it, would you? or If i asked you to dress and be a baby all night long would you? as both qre very real fetishes that come within the realms of you doing 'anything'"

This lady needs to write a book on this.

"The dummies guide to getting laid on Fab - the no nonsense approach!"

Great stuff.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Considering the OP posted this then went offline and hour later after posting a status about him going to the gym has no.ones wanting to meet him, and hasnt been back online since. I guess it was more off a please look at me and give me a sympathy shag thread as opposed to a please help.me improve my profile thread, so quite glad i took the no nonesense approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Considering the OP posted this then went offline and hour later after posting a status about him going to the gym has no.ones wanting to meet him, and hasnt been back online since. I guess it was more off a please look at me and give me a sympathy shag thread as opposed to a please help.me improve my profile thread, so quite glad i took the no nonesense approach

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Not sure how much impact it would of got cos only 1 % of the site uses the forum.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Considering the OP posted this then went offline and hour later after posting a status about him going to the gym has no.ones wanting to meet him, and hasnt been back online since. I guess it was more off a please look at me and give me a sympathy shag thread as opposed to a please help.me improve my profile thread, so quite glad i took the no nonesense approach

Not sure how much impact it would of got cos only 1 % of the site uses the forum."

Well ive already impacted someone as their profile pic as changed from a cock to a torso. so ive helped a out fellow 1% er. My job here is done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My job here is done "

No. It's not. Teach them. They need to be shown!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Considering the OP posted this then went offline and hour later after posting a status about him going to the gym has no.ones wanting to meet him, and hasnt been back online since. I guess it was more off a please look at me and give me a sympathy shag thread as opposed to a please help.me improve my profile thread, so quite glad i took the no nonesense approach

Not sure how much impact it would of got cos only 1 % of the site uses the forum.

Well ive already impacted someone as their profile pic as changed from a cock to a torso. so ive helped a out fellow 1% er. My job here is done "
That's a good thing you did there and a torso is a better one as well

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