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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking to update any suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not too bad but it does not express any personality. It is bland.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is not too bad but it does not express any personality. It is bland."

Yeah I got that feeling to sadly not very good at selling my self never know what to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is not too bad but it does not express any personality. It is bland.

Yeah I got that feeling to sadly not very good at selling my self never know what to say "

Do something about it, then. No one will write it for you. Or are you just another fellow who gets advice and ignores it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No not at all IM just looking genral ideas as fully well plan to update and take all advice on board. As just not good at selling my self or making my self stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not at all IM just looking genral ideas as fully well plan to update and take all advice on board. As just not good at selling my self or making my self stand out."

It takes 10 minutes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im aware of that just want to do it right

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I've tweaked my profile text over the time I've been on here but the main part got written pretty quickly. The longer you leave it, the more people will just pass you by...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im aware of that just want to do it right "

There is no "right." Different people look for different things. But everyone looks for effort.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Looking to update any suggestions?"

Be honest, be informative, be humourous, be concise and for fucks sake be quick or they'll all have gone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair enough then I shalll.try my best to put the effort in to it thank you actually nice to get a useful chat on here instead of useless and rude ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking to update any suggestions?

Be honest, be informative, be humourous, be concise and for fucks sake be quick or they'll all have gone. "

Bobby knows!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have updated it just hope its still not boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have updated it just hope its still not boring "

Nah, sorry, and try using a grammar and spell-checker. You have added paragraphs but they ate just generic boring stuff.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Have updated it just hope its still not boring "

This sentence needs sorting:

"im happy to chat to anyone as long as there not rude. And even if we never actually meet its alway noce to have a chat"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok fair enough and sorry about the grammer using my phone and forgot to re read it before uploading it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add in a few "hooks" little lines that can be used as ice breakers and conversation starters they don't have to be anything about shining just literally set ups for people to make a little joke about in their first message to start the conversation off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have updated it just hope its still not boring

This sentence needs sorting:

"im happy to chat to anyone as long as there not rude. And even if we never actually meet its alway noce to have a chat""

Will sort it shortly and sorry that its not interesting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Add in a few "hooks" little lines that can be used as ice breakers and conversation starters they don't have to be anything about shining just literally set ups for people to make a little joke about in their first message to start the conversation off."

Thank you will have to put some thought into it think I will write it down before changing it on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remove the last sentence, rude people won't give a shit if you block them and its negative!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Remove the last sentence, rude people won't give a shit if you block them and its negative!"

Ok point taken and excusing grammer but what do you think of the rest of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remove the last sentence, rude people won't give a shit if you block them and its negative!

Ok point taken and excusing grammer but what do you think of the rest of it"

Take some time out. Write it on paper first. Make it personal and you. There is no personality there. Why would anyone choose you? Enough from me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Remove the last sentence, rude people won't give a shit if you block them and its negative!

Ok point taken and excusing grammer but what do you think of the rest of it

Take some time out. Write it on paper first. Make it personal and you. There is no personality there. Why would anyone choose you? Enough from me."

Fair comment im sorry im just no good at this never have been good with writing about my self.

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By *eshzMan
over a year ago

0151

OP I hope you don't mind me giving some suggestion, to help you get started:

I am sure you as a person in a face-to-face interaction are an interesting person, just write how you would introduce yourself to a person... start there and from there build on it... add in some humor about what you like or dislike (does not have to be about sex) Sex is the outcome not the journey... write to make friends... personally you just have to build on your current write-up like many others have mentioned it's not bad but it can get better...there is no right or wrong.

Why don't you take some time just looking at the profile of others and get some ideas from there if they make you think... geez these people are interesting. I want to get to know them.

OP there are some guys on here who have amazing physique and pictures but their profile is so poorly written that from the look of the veris they are not doing well.

Just keep improving slowly all the best buddy.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Ask yourself What works for you in the real world, then apply that to your profile itll hopefully naturally read with more personality then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP I hope you don't mind me giving some suggestion, to help you get started:

I am sure you as a person in a face-to-face interaction are an interesting person, just write how you would introduce yourself to a person... start there and from there build on it... add in some humor about what you like or dislike (does not have to be about sex) Sex is the outcome not the journey... write to make friends... personally you just have to build on your current write-up like many others have mentioned it's not bad but it can get better...there is no right or wrong.

Why don't you take some time just looking at the profile of others and get some ideas from there if they make you think... geez these people are interesting. I want to get to know them.

OP there are some guys on here who have amazing physique and pictures but their profile is so poorly written that from the look of the veris they are not doing well.

Just keep improving slowly all the best buddy."

Thank you alot of good advice in there

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