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By *byss OP   Man
over a year ago

north wales

Hi I know it hard for single guys to get meets but is there something wrong with my profile? Any advice welcome thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loose the 'rant' at the beginning and the warning at the end, both are completely useless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a away the rants and the pointless legal guff and there's not much profile left to go on. Maybe try there, it's a bit generic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty your profile starts of negative you have no public photos I understand about not having your face but surely you could have other photos, then you say about your preferences that you've got listed and you list swapping and separate room swapping but your a single male !!

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By *byss OP   Man
over a year ago

north wales

Ok thanks

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

You've written exactly the same as your profile description. Nothing appealing in your write up I'm afraid

A pic of your ass or chest would be good and shouldn't identify who you are.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hi I know it hard for single guys to get meets but is there something wrong with my profile? Any advice welcome thanks"

Nothing wrong per se it's simply bland and generic with no public photos to differentiate you from the million similar profiles on here.

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By *byss OP   Man
over a year ago

north wales

Ok thanks you will see what I can sort out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It starts unnecessarily negative. You aren't great looking and are hiding your pictures - why would anyone read further?

Your profile is your shop window - you need to sell yourself not highlight your shortcomings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I know it hard for single guys to get meets but is there something wrong with my profile? Any advice welcome thanks"

YES!!!!!

It's a single mans profile so everything is wrong with it...

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Would you really have sex with a 99 year old, you have repeated your interests, a bit unnecessary, and no public pics, as you say its harder for a single male due to demand so you need to do what you can to stand out, effort in = rewards out, also you have only been here a week, your gonna have to learn patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What am I doing wrong I can't seem to attract anyone and I seem to be able to kill a thread in this forum no matter what I say

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What am I doing wrong I can't seem to attract anyone and I seem to be able to kill a thread in this forum no matter what I say"

Off putting username.

Off putting status.

No information.

Absolutely no effort at all.

No patience: seriously what we're your expectations?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"What am I doing wrong I can't seem to attract anyone and I seem to be able to kill a thread in this forum no matter what I say

Off putting username.

Off putting status.

No information.

Absolutely no effort at all.

No patience: seriously what we're your expectations?"

As above

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By *byss OP   Man
over a year ago

north wales

Ok thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What am I doing wrong I can't seem to attract anyone and I seem to be able to kill a thread in this forum no matter what I say

Off putting username.

Off putting status.

No information.

Absolutely no effort at all.

No patience: seriously what we're your expectations?

What would u look for in a Male profile? I've added tiny bit more

As above"

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By *eshzMan
over a year ago

0151

Derby there is nothing in your profile... and I think I am 99.99% sure everyone knows what a cock loos like... taking pictures from different angel doesn't change it's a cock... hopefully yours...

Imagine yourself as a product and you want someone to be interested in the product...write the profile in that mentality... and don't say something along these lines.... oh like to fuck..I am a good fuck... i can go for long periods of times... woman and couples only.... you have to write more than that.

I apologise if I am coming across as hostile that is not my intention, many just ask for advice and never change a single thing and then wonder why they don't get a hello back from a message they send.

Also consider going to socials for that...socialising... if you get a meet great... go with the mindset of making friends and you will be fine. A visit to your local or nearest swingers club is good as well.

Hope this helps bud. All the best.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Ok thanks"

Profile seems good to me just be patient OP, generally takes on average 3-6 months for a single guy to secure their first meet on fab.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"What am I doing wrong I can't seem to attract anyone and I seem to be able to kill a thread in this forum no matter what I say

Off putting username.

Off putting status.

No information.

Absolutely no effort at all.

No patience: seriously what we're your expectations?

What would u look for in a Male profile? I've added tiny bit more

As above"

If i told you what i looked for then your writing a profile to reflect what I want, not what you do and what you have to offer! Im only one woman what I want will be different to others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cant change fate, some are lucky, some not. Good luck.

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By *byss OP   Man
over a year ago

north wales

Thanks for your advice everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

change the wording list above for list below - sorry to be picky

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Thanks for your advice everyone"

So..are you going to act in any of it?

Start with a change your status..

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"You cant change fate, some are lucky, some not. Good luck."

or, get out there and make your own luck, have a look at some of the many successful mens profiles on here and take some hints, use other options, clubs, socials, dont just sit there thinking joining a website makes you a swinger, effort in = rewards out.

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By *byss OP   Man
over a year ago

north wales

I have now edited the profile text and will sort other stuff soon I thank you all for your comments and advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid to say OP that you need to exert a little more effort into your profile.

While I understand why one might add words to the effect of 'if there's anything you'd like to know, please ask', it comes across as lazy.

From your point of view, you're trying to avoid missing something at your attempt to cover all the bases, but you have to realise that single men vastly outnumber single ladies on fab and they are usually inundated with messages from guys and spend a lot of time going through these messages. On the rare occasions that they may get to do some searching, if they come across a profile that says little about the person it's about, they will simply click onto the next one. They're really not going to bother sending you a message to find out about what you couldn't be bothered to spend five minutes typing into your profile - certainly not when there are many other guys that have put in the effort.

Effort in = rewards out.

Change your approach or change your expectations.

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