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meet problem here but not out in public or elsewhere!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find it hard to get a meet on here talking behind a screen

But when out in public or pub or bar

never have a problem takes minutes to work my magic

Met a girl in town she deleted messages or never replied on here and when i met her it was instant click.. lots of fun and even had a threesome

But cant get much here

how is this possible and why???

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I always look at the profile before I even open the message, and I would just delete without reading it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negative profile and no public pics. You are one if 1000's . If you can get what you are looking for in the outside world why are you here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always look at the profile before I even open the message, and I would just delete without reading it "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I find it hard to get a meet on here talking behind a screen

But when out in public or pub or bar

never have a problem takes minutes to work my magic

Met a girl in town she deleted messages or never replied on here and when i met her it was instant click.. lots of fun and even had a threesome

But cant get much here

how is this possible and why???

"

after looking at your profile I have absolutely no idea why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because i'd read your profile and think no!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

I find it hard to get a meet on here talking behind a screen

But when out in public or pub or bar

never have a problem takes minutes to work my magic

Met a girl in town she deleted messages or never replied on here and when i met her it was instant click.. lots of fun and even had a threesome

But cant get much here

how is this possible and why???

"

It's clearly possible because it's happening but i don't know why really unless your messages are similar to your profile.

You sound as if you don't really need fab to meet anyway.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Profile was not always like this

and used to have loads of pics

i am here because i still have fun

i get some just not as much as i want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have no problem in a bar and it takes minutes to work your magic as you put it, why are you on here? Just go to more bars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shadow man avatar

No public photos

Profile text is a little off putting.

Not sure what your messages are like but those two above would be enough for me to delete without reading.

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By *lassyandadventurousMan
over a year ago

England and Wales

The plus side of meeting on fab is its more discreet ..

I dont want the whole world kbowing about my sex life.

Pull a lady at my local and the whole world gossips..

Pull on fab and its my business.

Have i pulled lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The plus side of meeting on fab is its more discreet ..

I dont want the whole world kbowing about my sex life.

Pull a lady at my local and the whole world gossips..

Pull on fab and its my business.

Have i pulled lol"

The whole world goes to your local?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The plus side of meeting on fab is its more discreet ..

I dont want the whole world kbowing about my sex life.

Pull a lady at my local and the whole world gossips..

Pull on fab and its my business.

Have i pulled lol

The whole world goes to your local?

"

There's a hell of a queue at the bar.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

That profile op lol, try using some of your magic to rework it, like altogether, and put some pictures on, and maybe get the threesome girl to verify you to help you out on here aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's true

When someone is town you know they are there to chat etc etc you

When on line they could be doing

Kids

Dinner

Working

The list of reasons is endless

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

you get one chance to make a great first impression....

people are here looking for fun....

if the first thing i read is a ton of negativity, it doesn't really scream "thats a fun person!!".........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd leave if I were in your shoes...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Profiles has one possitive sentence in it!

I struggled to get that far reading it because of all the negativity that came before. Then it ends negatively with a line where, you bascially tell people how to conduct themselves, by saying because you accept something they should too.

Honestly, do you think that you are making a good first impression?

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By *tloversCouple
over a year ago

Warrington

No profile photo. .no public pics. .no interest..delete without reading. .next!!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'll say the the same to anyone who says they do better in the real world/on POF/on other sites.

Use what works then and stop worrying about how hard you find life on Fab.

It's not compulsory to use the site so stuck to what works best.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I find it hard to get a meet on here talking behind a screen

But when out in public or pub or bar

never have a problem takes minutes to work my magic

Met a girl in town she deleted messages or never replied on here and when i met her it was instant click.. lots of fun and even had a threesome

But cant get much here

how is this possible and why???

"

The "cant spell" reduces your chance straight away, Shaz can't spell great but it has never affected us in the 10+ year we been swinging as people don't normally give her a spelling test 1/2 way though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

through*

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I always look at the profile before I even open the message, and I would just delete without reading it "

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