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By *indmill and weetabix OP Couple
over a year ago

Kettering

We are back after weetabix has had a superpubic catheter fitted.

this is due to compression of nerves in her spine causing bladder retention.

would anyone be put off meeting us due to this ?

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

Hi welcome back. Why would this put people of meeting u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think they might. People looking for NSA sex are probably a bit more superficial than people looking for relationships? Last year I had a massive outbreak of PLE (polymorphic light eruption, sensitivity to sunlight) this caused me to be smothered in a blistered rash from neck down to toes with my face clear. I got chatted up in clubs and on here but as soon as they saw a glimpse of my rash they were gone, it wasn't pussing or scabbing but they thought they might catch it like the "ghey". It made me miserable for months until it cleared.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think if you let them know in advance, some might cancel and that is their choice

others may meet and have a great time

Just don't take anything to heart.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We are back after weetabix has had a superpubic catheter fitted.

this is due to compression of nerves in her spine causing bladder retention.

would anyone be put off meeting us due to this ?

Some will and some won't. You couldn't have made it more clear on your profile so nobody will be surprised by it.

Good luck

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By *indmill and weetabix OP Couple
over a year ago

Kettering

Having a rubber tube hanging out of myself about 4 inches above my pubic bone kind of makes me a wary of what others may think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad to heat that you are better. If it puts anyone off you are better off without them. Good luck.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Having a rubber tube hanging out of myself about 4 inches above my pubic bone kind of makes me a wary of what others may think "

can you not wear something that allows sex but covers it up if you are worried.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"We are back after weetabix has had a superpubic catheter fitted.

this is due to compression of nerves in her spine causing bladder retention.

would anyone be put off meeting us due to this ?

Just googled what a superpubic catheter is.

Of course it will put some people off, don't think it would me, but would understand if it did others.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Having a rubber tube hanging out of myself about 4 inches above my pubic bone kind of makes me a wary of what others may think "

Of course it does. I admire you for being so open about it.

I think it's something that you will find coping strategies for as time goes by. I'm not suggesting that you should hide it but would YOU feel more comfortable if you had a sexy little number on like a baby doll or similar to cover it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having a rubber tube hanging out of myself about 4 inches above my pubic bone kind of makes me a wary of what others may think "

I just read your profile and looked at your pics. I dont meet couples but if I did, it wouldnt put me off. You have been honest regarding your proceedure and thats all you can do. Their loss, I would say. Good luck x

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Ive seen the pic of it on your profile i it wouldnt put me off at all but if you want to cover it up weetabix then do but dont think you have too xxx If others cant accept things like that then thats there problem not yours xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it does put some people off then that is their loss not yours, well done for being open about it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people will be put off sure, but a lot won't. You could always wear something sexy to hide it?

Nerve damage is a bitch, something I know about all to well. Enjoy the spc, they make life so much easier, I know a few people who have them and all of them praise them!!! Also be careful when playing as you don't want to tug/pull on it.

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

It's the old adage, some will, some won't, so what.....next! Certainly wouldn't put either of us off, it is just being confident and open as you have been. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything with the word super in it sounds cool to me!

I'd feel like i was playing with a bionic person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think they might. People looking for NSA sex are probably a bit more superficial than people looking for relationships? Last year I had a massive outbreak of PLE (polymorphic light eruption, sensitivity to sunlight) this caused me to be smothered in a blistered rash from neck down to toes with my face clear. I got chatted up in clubs and on here but as soon as they saw a glimpse of my rash they were gone, it wasn't pussing or scabbing but they thought they might catch it like the "ghey". It made me miserable for months until it cleared.

You state on your profile you don't want to meet anyone who is bald and/or fat but got upset when guys did a runner when they saw your rash.

Your preferences are fine but those of others are not if they apply to you?

Oh dear you do have an issue with me don't you? Where did I say they didn't apply to me? I was illustrating the superficiality of NSA sex including my preferences and thereby answering the OPs question. How has your post added to everyone else's replies to them? I did not ask for a profile critique and certainly not for a personal attack from someone I have blocked

I don't have an issue with you, I don't recall having responded to any post you've made on any other thread, I don't even recognise your profile.

I wasn't launching a personal attack, I just find it amusing you got upset because you were rejected over your physical appearance when you do the same to others.

I'm sure in a few days I'll go to look at your profile again and be puzzled as to why I've been blocked

I wasn't upset, why do you insist on saying that? The rash made me miserable because it hurt. I accept people are superficial and was trying to illustrate that. Reject on physical appearance??? My goodness people will be wanting face pics before meeting next!!! Of course we all reject on physical appearance, which is what I was illustrating with my post (how many times do I need to say this?). How was your post adding to the OPs quest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and for all those who like to chime in with 'its their loss' or 'youre better off without them'...no its not, and no they're not. Theyre exercising a personal preference just like the lady above who wont meet bald or fat guys and dont deserve to be thrown in the 'its their loss' pile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything with the word super in it sounds cool to me!

I'd feel like i was playing with a bionic person

Its actually called a "suprapubic" not superpubic.

Sorry had to clear that up, I'm sure it was a typo on the OP's behalf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and for all those who like to chime in with 'its their loss' or 'youre better off without them'...no its not, and no they're not. Theyre exercising a personal preference just like the lady above who wont meet bald or fat guys and dont deserve to be thrown in the 'its their loss' pile."

Ok I'll change my comment to add the bit at the begining IMO ..... etc etc

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

You state on your profile you don't want to meet anyone who is bald and/or fat but got upset when guys did a runner when they saw your rash.

Your preferences are fine but those of others are not if they apply to you?

I don't have an issue with you, I don't recall having responded to any post you've made on any other thread, I don't even recognise your profile.

I wasn't launching a personal attack, I just find it amusing you got upset because you were rejected over your physical appearance when you do the same to others.

I'm sure in a few days I'll go to look at your profile again and be puzzled as to why I've been blocked

Clearly you both have different opinions of each other but is it fair to hijack a post about a very sensitive subject. Had some thought for the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything with the word super in it sounds cool to me!

I'd feel like i was playing with a bionic person

Its actually called a "suprapubic" not superpubic.

Sorry had to clear that up, I'm sure it was a typo on the OP's behalf.

Close enough still!

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By *indmill and weetabix OP Couple
over a year ago

Kettering

"Anything with the word super in it sounds cool to me!

I'd feel like i was playing with a bionic person

Its actually called a "suprapubic" not superpubic.

Sorry had to clear that up, I'm sure it was a typo on the OP's behalf.

Yes it was ducking auto correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything with the word super in it sounds cool to me!

I'd feel like i was playing with a bionic person

Its actually called a "suprapubic" not superpubic.

Sorry had to clear that up, I'm sure it was a typo on the OP's behalf.

Yes it was ducking auto correct

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By *eshzMan
over a year ago

0151

OP can you not wear a lingerie thathas the waist belt? It could help cover it... personally I think people might fear wrongly moving around the area that has the catheter which might cause you discomfort or pain... I know that would be my worry... but I believe you being open and honest about such a private matter will make many understand and be ok with it... just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You state on your profile you don't want to meet anyone who is bald and/or fat but got upset when guys did a runner when they saw your rash.

Your preferences are fine but those of others are not if they apply to you?

I don't have an issue with you, I don't recall having responded to any post you've made on any other thread, I don't even recognise your profile.

I wasn't launching a personal attack, I just find it amusing you got upset because you were rejected over your physical appearance when you do the same to others.

I'm sure in a few days I'll go to look at your profile again and be puzzled as to why I've been blocked

Clearly you both have different opinions of each other but is it fair to hijack a post about a very sensitive subject. Had some thought for the OP"

Ummm, I didn't hijack it, I gave the OP my opinion that people are superficial. I had no opinion on the other poster until he dissected my post and my profile with no regard for the subject of the original post. I will not post anymore as I made my point in my first post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would a crotchless teddy be an option for you op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything with the word super in it sounds cool to me!

I'd feel like i was playing with a bionic person

Its actually called a "suprapubic" not superpubic.

Sorry had to clear that up, I'm sure it was a typo on the OP's behalf.

Yes it was ducking auto correct

A lot to answer for that bloody autocarrot.....

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By *indmill and weetabix OP Couple
over a year ago

Kettering

Thanks for all the support guys

it means a lot

xxx

louise and ian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck guys. It wouldn't put me off, as I've seen them before, but not with playmates. Some maybe a bit wary, build up some local friendships, people should be accepting. Do be careful that it doesn't get pulled in the throws of passion. Happy swinging

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