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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on here a while a now and don't do too bad for a single bloke as far as chatting and the odd meet goes. One thing I do get a lot of is messages from blokes and there pretty to the point "fancy a no strings blow" "I'm in your area let me drain you" etc. I always answer with a thanks but not for me. So do any other blokes get this and why? My profile doesn't give the impression that that's what I'm into. Or at least I don't think it does?. And when I reply so just go on and on. Advice? Ta in advance folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got them until i blocked men altogether, it's kind of flattering until it gets annoying & i just see them as chancers. If anything it could be because of an experience they've had with maybe someone similar looking so they try their luck? Just one of many...

If it does get to the point of annoyance fuck it & take them up on the offer, they prob won't show up anyway, all the blokes are timewasters on here remember!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got them until i blocked men altogether, it's kind of flattering until it gets annoying & i just see them as chancers. If anything it could be because of an experience they've had with maybe someone similar looking so they try their luck? Just one of many...

If it does get to the point of annoyance fuck it & take them up on the offer, they prob won't show up anyway, all the blokes are timewasters on here remember! "

Ha so I hear most are!. I don't want to go down the road of blocking single blokes because like me I'm sure some have fuckbuddies that would be up for a little play. Most the messages make me laugh at how blunt and blatant they are!. I might take a leaf and see if it does work ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't reply to them to even say no thanks. Some guys take a no thanks as some kind of strange way of starting a conversation.

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I drain ya op?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I drain ya op? "

I stand corrected! The ladies are as bad, although if I'm honest that's the first time I've had that lol.

In answer to your question. Can you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I drain ya op?

I stand corrected! The ladies are as bad, although if I'm honest that's the first time I've had that lol.

In answer to your question. Can you? "

See my veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I drain ya op?

I stand corrected! The ladies are as bad, although if I'm honest that's the first time I've had that lol.

In answer to your question. Can you?

See my veris "
like a dyson!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take em with a pinch of salt besides you may need one for clean up duties!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should see what us girls get sent because apparently there's a higher chance we might want to. All these poor men promised an instant horny women in their area too... lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You should see what us girls get sent because apparently there's a higher chance we might want to. All these poor men promised an instant horny women in their area too... lol"

You mean it's a lie? There are no ravenous women willing to jump on me at a moments notice? Gutted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get quite a lot of those messages haven't and won't be meeting any if them. I suppose it's just gay guys hedging their bets. As for those ravenous women don't mind that at all they're one or two that come to mind.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I've been on here a while a now and don't do too bad for a single bloke as far as chatting and the odd meet goes. One thing I do get a lot of is messages from blokes and there pretty to the point "fancy a no strings blow" "I'm in your area let me drain you" etc. I always answer with a thanks but not for me. So do any other blokes get this and why? My profile doesn't give the impression that that's what I'm into. Or at least I don't think it does?. And when I reply so just go on and on. Advice? Ta in advance folks "

I get it all the time from gay blokes.

They say bi or bi-curious but looking at their list of veri's/friends/'will meet' it's all guys/TV's (aren't TV's still guys but with different preferences anyway? And before the TV's blunder in with their high heels on...

Definition:

Noun

A person, typically a man, who derives pleasure from dressing in clothes appropriate to the opposite sex.)

Block/ignore/'thanks but no thanks' or 'I only play with guys when their Mrs plays too' is what I tell 'em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women have the right idea. Use your filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got them until i blocked men altogether, it's kind of flattering until it gets annoying & i just see them as chancers. If anything it could be because of an experience they've had with maybe someone similar looking so they try their luck? Just one of many...

If it does get to the point of annoyance fuck it & take them up on the offer, they prob won't show up anyway, all the blokes are timewasters on here remember!

Ha so I hear most are!. I don't want to go down the road of blocking single blokes because like me I'm sure some have fuckbuddies that would be up for a little play. Most the messages make me laugh at how blunt and blatant they are!. I might take a leaf and see if it does work ha "

I don't understand your logic that these desparate single fellas will have a FB that you maybe able to play with. If it is annoying you that much that you start a thread about it just block all single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have the right idea....

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Woohoo!!! Gonna have this laminated....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got them until i blocked men altogether, it's kind of flattering until it gets annoying & i just see them as chancers. If anything it could be because of an experience they've had with maybe someone similar looking so they try their luck? Just one of many...

If it does get to the point of annoyance fuck it & take them up on the offer, they prob won't show up anyway, all the blokes are timewasters on here remember!

Ha so I hear most are!. I don't want to go down the road of blocking single blokes because like me I'm sure some have fuckbuddies that would be up for a little play. Most the messages make me laugh at how blunt and blatant they are!. I might take a leaf and see if it does work ha

I don't understand your logic that these desparate single fellas will have a FB that you maybe able to play with. If it is annoying you that much that you start a thread about it just block all single men."

I never said it annoyed me at all, in fact it amuses me most of the time, I was asking about other folks experiences, hope that clears it up

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