FabSwingers.com forum: Looking for advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have been meeting with couples, but seem to be they split up after we meet them?? Does this happen a lot? Do you think the guys are jealous? Or the girls? Can't seem why though? Any thoughts??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been meeting with couples, but seem to be they split up after we meet them?? Does this happen a lot? Do you think the guys are jealous? Or the girls? Can't seem why though? Any thoughts??"

I was in a couple...we had a few social meets...he would want to play and I wouldn't as I had different standards (he was happy to play with BBW..well anything with a pulse lol)...and so we realised we had different tastes...simple as that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been meeting with couples, but seem to be they split up after we meet them?? Does this happen a lot? Do you think the guys are jealous? Or the girls? Can't seem why though? Any thoughts??

We are now good vanilla friends and don't play together

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Probably not jealousy.

Many couples get into swinging for the wrong reasons, to try and keep a dead or dying relationship alive.

A big mistake. This only works if you are a strong couple, if you trust and respect each other. Honesty above all else.

It is a bit like 'let's have a baby, it will repair our marriage'.

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Another good reason for a well-written profile and good verifications plus check the profiles of the people doing the verifiying.

I can understand though why some people in a stable relationship such as ours say "No FB's, no drama" as we've seen a bit of that second hand.

Him

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Swinging will make an already strong relationship stronger, it will also blow any cracks ina relationship wide open. Those relationships tend not to last much longer after trying swinging.

Other people's relationships are their concern just enjoy your fun and let them get on with it...

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One reason I won't meet new couples. Way too much drama for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging's not something that just one party drags the other one in for kicks with. Too many times I've seen blokes get their missus to join them in swinging mainly as a free pass to aim for other ladies simply because "they're a couple"! Doesn't work that way. If there's no well-established trust between a couple even in their normal lives with vanilla play then quite naturally things would hit a brick wall once they start swinging.

As a personal rule I always keep my eyes open when meeting couples. Anytime I feel that the man's just using his missus to get himself off through swinging I'm out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are now playing together again...ha ha friendships are funny lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a spell of this thought we were a jinx but it's just like real life people split up, we do prefer to play with established couples if the chemistry is there it can be fantastic

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By *untime duetCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"Swinging's not something that just one party drags the other one in for kicks with. Too many times I've seen blokes get their missus to join them in swinging mainly as a free pass to aim for other ladies simply because "they're a couple"! Doesn't work that way. If there's no well-established trust between a couple even in their normal lives with vanilla play then quite naturally things would hit a brick wall once they start swinging.

As a personal rule I always keep my eyes open when meeting couples. Anytime I feel that the man's just using his missus to get himself off through swinging I'm out. "

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

"We had a spell of this thought we were a jinx but it's just like real life people split up, we do prefer to play with established couples if the chemistry is there it can be fantastic "

We only meet people in long term relationships after a couple of meets where they just played together. The dynamics are very different

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