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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi All

Thank you firstly for looking at my post.

I'm a single guy and work along with family commitments at weekends.

I don't have time for a relationship not would it be fair as I travel a lot. Sadly this is the same for many people out there ( probably most of the singles on here lol )

Anyway I still have needs and I'm very interested in the swinging scene but I'm unsure how to start? Now I know everyone on here will say "hey goto a party" seriously I would love to but I'm nervous if I'm honest.

So my question is really how would you suggest getting started?

P.S anyone's experiences on how they got started is great fully received.

Thanks in advanced and happy swinging! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just like to say damn iPhone autocorrect!

Note I can spell lol

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

As a single man your chances of getting one-on-one meets are slim. Your chances of getting invited to house parties as an unknown are also slim. So if you are really interested in the scene, then the best option for you would be to start meeting people at Swing clubs. Most have at least one night a week where single men are allowed. Don't be scared, they are friendly enough and most people are happy to chat to you, even if they don't want to play with you.

If you are really interested in the lifestyle itself, and not just NSA sex, then get yourself a free education by listening to the "Life on the Swing Set" podcast. It will certainly make your long commutes more interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a single man your chances of getting one-on-one meets are slim. Your chances of getting invited to house parties as an unknown are also slim. So if you are really interested in the scene, then the best option for you would be to start meeting people at Swing clubs. Most have at least one night a week where single men are allowed. Don't be scared, they are friendly enough and most people are happy to chat to you, even if they don't want to play with you.

If you are really interested in the lifestyle itself, and not just NSA sex, then get yourself a free education by listening to the "Life on the Swing Set" podcast. It will certainly make your long commutes more interesting "

Thank you for that information I'll certainly take a look at the life on the swing set

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By *nne CallanWoman
over a year ago

Nothing to see here. Please move along.

There is a big social event I Colchester end of may. Look it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your also probablly gonna be competing with all the soldiers in colchester too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all really appreciate your comments

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Did you check out Life on the Swing Set? What did you think of it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I did thankyou I have been listening to it haven't finished yet but very helpful thankyou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started by going to a club on a single guys night figured we wanted to start at the deep end. We saw hard fun and how easy it was and never looked back. Granted its a lot harder on your own but bite the bullet and go. Once your through the door within half an hour you won't know what you were worried about.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Yeah I did thankyou I have been listening to it haven't finished yet but very helpful thankyou x"

Well there are more than 200, hour long podcasts so it might take a while!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social event...or hold your own party?

I was on another site prior to moving to Malvern when I joined fab. I was lucky to get a couple of single 1 to 1 meets in first couple of weeks. However things really took off when I held a little party..... Not sure if you can...but maybe think of giving it a go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really pleasing to see some great advice and comments on this thread as a single guy I know how had it is I have not had one single meet in over the three years of being on this site but it has given me the opportunity to go to parties and I know attend South London swingers in Sutton as often as I can, so keep persevering and it may well happen am hoping that by posting on here it may help to good luck and all the best Play

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou all so very much for your comments these are greatfully recieved

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