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By *iceshorts OP   Man
over a year ago

South East

I require a spreader bar. Do you like yours?

I have looked on the Simply Pleasures website. Are there better ones available? This one seems to perhaps not have enough restraint but be versatile. Are there better places to buy one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its easy to make your own, if you can weld or know someone who can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got mine from love honey. its material so folds and stores easily yet is still really sturdy and does nt move when in place. what I love about it is that it has extra 'loops' in the centre for the wrists so bending over can be quite fun and hog tying takes on a while new level!

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By *iceshorts OP   Man
over a year ago

South East


"I got mine from love honey. its material so folds and stores easily yet is still really sturdy and does nt move when in place. what I love about it is that it has extra 'loops' in the centre for the wrists so bending over can be quite fun and hog tying takes on a while new level!

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Fun. So can to close your legs then if it is material?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We made our own. We have a few of differing lengths.

Easy Peasy to do

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Yes I like mine...I have had it ages so can't remember where I got it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope cant close legs at all. Im not surewhat mateial it is kinda canvas with velcro.Cant get out of it at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We also made our own out of wooden poles x I tend to bend and snap any previously bought xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got a metal one from eBay, it has fake leather cuffs on each end and you can adjust the telescopic pole to how wide you want it to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We got a metal one from eBay, it has fake leather cuffs on each end and you can adjust the telescopic pole to how wide you want it to be. "

Another vote for telescopic bars here ebay does have some interesting "fancy dress" items

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

can easily make your own from lengths of tubing and expanding eye bolts from B&Q (bondage quatermasters )

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

We bought a metal bar and managed to break it...lol

So I bought a wooden pole, cut it to length, sanded it and screwed eye bolts into the ends... Now we have 3 of different lenghts for a lot less than the metal one cost...

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land


"I got mine from love honey. its material so folds and stores easily yet is still really sturdy and does nt move when in place. what I love about it is that it has extra 'loops' in the centre for the wrists so bending over can be quite fun and hog tying takes on a while new level!

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Plus you get 10% off love honey if you use the fab link

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

learn how to tie a rolling hitch easy knot then you have adjustable bar on any tubing rod etc there a mjch better way pf spreafing though as bar between legs tend to be dam hard to kneel on and get in the d way

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By *iceshorts OP   Man
over a year ago

South East


"can easily make your own from lengths of tubing and expanding eye bolts from B&Q (bondage quatermasters )"

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

It's not a spreader bar but I purchased a heavy duty leg raiser harness from bondagecorner, principally as I wanted some thigh cuffs and at the time they had these for the less than anyone else was selling the cuffs. If your after bondage gear it may be worth having a rummage around their site as some of the items are very cheap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I require a spreader bar. Do you like yours?

I have looked on the Simply Pleasures website. Are there better ones available? This one seems to perhaps not have enough restraint but be versatile. Are there better places to buy one?"

Broom handle or thick doweling cut to size and screws with 'eyes' on the end.

Some padlocks, cuffs or rope.

Why make it any more complicated than it needs to be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I require a spreader bar. Do you like yours?

I have looked on the Simply Pleasures website. Are there better ones available? This one seems to perhaps not have enough restraint but be versatile. Are there better places to buy one?

Broom handle or thick doweling cut to size and screws with 'eyes' on the end.

Some padlocks, cuffs or rope.

Why make it any more complicated than it needs to be?"

Perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to work for simply pleasures when it was simply pirate books . There company name is also a.b.s ( adult book stores) .

Quality was always good because it was bought in for us by a guy who made what we asked for .

Some of the body belts & chains were really good . Cuffs are always leather & the rod is not flimsy. Not sure if they were lined on the inside or just leather finish both sides .

Cheapest site out there too if you compare to everyone else .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my old mistress made hers from broom sticks with hooks in at varying lengths cuffs went to where she needed me to be xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cost me £7 to make my own broom handle and some eye hooks... took 10 minutes if that

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire


"We bought a metal bar and managed to break it...lol

So I bought a wooden pole, cut it to length, sanded it and screwed eye bolts into the ends... Now we have 3 of different lenghts for a lot less than the metal one cost..."

That's exactly what I did x

My sub " loves" it!!!

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By *ill4cherMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"That's exactly what I did x

My sub " loves" it!!!"

... and don't forget to guarantee that her legs stay open, the cuffs must go above her knees, which needs larger size cuffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone got any pictures of their home made ones??

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By *leur de lisWoman
over a year ago

Buxton


"I require a spreader bar. Do you like yours?

I have looked on the Simply Pleasures website. Are there better ones available? This one seems to perhaps not have enough restraint but be versatile. Are there better places to buy one?"

You can always get better ones but then individual choice in style comes into it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv just purchased one e.b.a.y

Under a tenner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I require a spreader bar. Do you like yours?

I have looked on the Simply Pleasures website. Are there better ones available? This one seems to perhaps not have enough restraint but be versatile. Are there better places to buy one?

Broom handle or thick doweling cut to size and screws with 'eyes' on the end.

Some padlocks, cuffs or rope.

Why make it any more complicated than it needs to be?"

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey


"I require a spreader bar. Do you like yours?

I have looked on the Simply Pleasures website. Are there better ones available? This one seems to perhaps not have enough restraint but be versatile. Are there better places to buy one?

Broom handle or thick doweling cut to size and screws with 'eyes' on the end.

Some padlocks, cuffs or rope.

Why make it any more complicated than it needs to be?"

Simple as this really, thats how I made ours

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