FabSwingers.com forum: Advice Request

By *ereager OP Couple
over a year ago

Reading

We were at the swinging seen for a few months. For some reason during a meet wife lost confidence and don't want to meet any more. Any idea how to encourage her joining the seen again

By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Don't force her, respect get wishes, talk to her, explore what it was that caused her to lose confidence.

This is all just a bit of fun, adding spice to a relationship. It's not the end of the world if she doesn't want to swing.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were at the swinging seen for a few months. For some reason during a meet wife lost confidence and don't want to meet any more. Any idea how to encourage her joining the seen again"

"We have been in the swinging scene for a few months." Try talking to your wife "for some reason" Don't push her into anything that she "doesn't want to do"

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The simple answer is you don't! It needs to be mutual or jot at all....it won't work any other way.

By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"We were at the swinging seen for a few months. For some reason during a meet wife lost confidence and don't want to meet any more. Any idea how to encourage her joining the seen again"

So how many people did you guys swing with? Different people ill gain different amounts of experience over a couple of months.

I don't think that you can have too much communication in the lifestyle so the most important thing is to talk to your wife about what went wrong, what went right, what was good, what was bad etc. She is only one with answers, not strangers on a forum.

But if you are struggling with the communications there are tools out there you can use like the wonderful podcast and website "Life on the Swing Set" and books such as Opening Up by Tristan Taormino