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By *entkev OP   Man
over a year ago

Dover

As a male on fabs I wonder if I'm now to old.

Although I still feel like a 25 y.o and I believe I'm a decent guy I truly think that there's to much competition.

I see time after time restrictions and posts as the target audience for women and couples are young hunks. I can't compete with this and more often then not I'm blocked an unable to compete anyway. Lol

This isn't posted out of sour grapes as I love this site and use it to keep in touch with my club friends. But I think I'm better off sticking to just that rather then face rejection.

So unlike life where 50 is the new 40 here it feels like 50 is the new 65...retire.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'm definitely not looking for young hunks...

There will be people out there who are interested in you. Focus on them and not the ones that aren't.

FWIW the married part would put me off not the age.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"As a male on fabs I wonder if I'm now to old.

Although I still feel like a 25 y.o and I believe I'm a decent guy I truly think that there's to much competition.

I see time after time restrictions and posts as the target audience for women and couples are young hunks. I can't compete with this and more often then not I'm blocked an unable to compete anyway. Lol

This isn't posted out of sour grapes as I love this site and use it to keep in touch with my club friends. But I think I'm better off sticking to just that rather then face rejection.

So unlike life where 50 is the new 40 here it feels like 50 is the new 65...retire. "

Don't be ridiculous - you are far from being too old!! There are many women, like me, who much prefer an older man - someone who really does know what he's doing and not just talking the talk.

Keep swinging and be happy!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

One of the most active guys I know on here is in his 60s. He's always posting new pics of his latest meets, and seems to do just fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 53 and I am lucky enough to still be meeting lovely ladies so no Yer not to old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a male on fabs I wonder if I'm now to old.

Although I still feel like a 25 y.o and I believe I'm a decent guy I truly think that there's to much competition.

I see time after time restrictions and posts as the target audience for women and couples are young hunks. I can't compete with this and more often then not I'm blocked an unable to compete anyway. Lol

This isn't posted out of sour grapes as I love this site and use it to keep in touch with my club friends. But I think I'm better off sticking to just that rather then face rejection.

So unlike life where 50 is the new 40 here it feels like 50 is the new 65...retire. "

Well, as your own upper age limit is 54, I guess that you yourself feel that much over 50 is just too old.,.....

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By *ODNEY999Man
over a year ago

Stockport

i agree. it does seem like when you are 50, on here, you are deemed as "past it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer my age and older. I've meet a.few men in their 50,s yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me and hubby are 53 and 58.we get very little attention.guess we are fugly then.lol

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By *ngel delight 69Woman
over a year ago

Torquay

Not surprised look at your butt mmmm xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 76 and I get invites from women and couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5o the new 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a male on fabs I wonder if I'm now to old.

Although I still feel like a 25 y.o and I believe I'm a decent guy I truly think that there's to much competition.

I see time after time restrictions and posts as the target audience for women and couples are young hunks. I can't compete with this and more often then not I'm blocked an unable to compete anyway. Lol

This isn't posted out of sour grapes as I love this site and use it to keep in touch with my club friends. But I think I'm better off sticking to just that rather then face rejection.

So unlike life where 50 is the new 40 here it feels like 50 is the new 65...retire. "

You had a meet not that long ago, so it doesnt seem like you have a problem

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

God you think your passed it at 50yr.Im 64yrs old and find that a few ladies are still interested an meet up.Shame there are a few women who think its great to take the piss,but hey I don't care,I have lots of lady friends of all ages here who are true,So don't give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am to young at 32 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God you think your passed it at 50yr.Im 64yrs old and find that a few ladies are still interested an meet up.Shame there are a few women who think its great to take the piss,but hey I don't care,I have lots of lady friends of all ages here who are true,So don't give up."

Good for you and looking amazing granddad for 64 keep the fire burning. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never too old - carry on as long as you want to there will always be people who want to meet no matter what age you are

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I am over 60 and meeting women on here, some of whom are just over half my age, having the time of my life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly not too old to do what you enjoy might be the married part that would put some people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope I'm feeling 25 when i get to 50!!

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

What nonsense..too old at 50...

As for rejection.everyone has to deal with that,its a huge part of sites such as this..dont take it too personal and move on

Thank goodness people want different things.some people reject around age/size/marital status etc..have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 52 I don't feel to old! Age is just a number, just enjoy x H

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The young men in their twenties complain that they're too young.....what's to be done?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had more fun in the last two years than ive had all my life - not intending stopping either Sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am 43 and deffo do not meet younger men as my thing is for the more mature gent, up to 65 is ok as some older men are super fit and handsome with the grey hair look going on.....yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i agree. it does seem like when you are 50, on here, you are deemed as "past it""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most defo not old.

Were prime rump steak

Lush and lusty

Not rusty!!!

Well oiled and raring to go

Have a FAB time

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

We don't stop playing because we get old.

We get old when we stop playing!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"We don't stop playing because we get old.

We get old when we stop playing! "
perfectly put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't stop playing because we get old.

We get old when we stop playing! perfectly put "

Yes.

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By *entkev OP   Man
over a year ago

Dover

Lots of positive comments.

Thank you all. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"me and hubby are 53 and 58.we get very little attention.guess we are fugly then.lol"

You will only meet in your home town that's why little attention I suspect. I think you got a cracking bod.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 76 and I get invites from women and couples"

Legend!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as ur enjoying it, carry on, like we do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the instability to be able to work out uv it's to or too that puts me off

Slept with several guys around 70. My Domme is 68. Age is irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the occasional thought about am I to old, usually when I'm thinking if I could join a club like Chams or Xtasia, that's what's put me of trying yet. But when I look round I think I'm in better shape than some of the younger guys so perhaps it's all in my head.

At 50 or whatever age, if your healthy then your never to old if you enjoy it.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

It is fashionable on Fab to block any guy over 50 for some strange reason but to each their own, at 53 I still do as good as any younger guy on here so it evens itself out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number. Myself and Mr D are doing just fine.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"As a male on fabs I wonder if I'm now to old.

Although I still feel like a 25 y.o and I believe I'm a decent guy I truly think that there's to much competition.

I see time after time restrictions and posts as the target audience for women and couples are young hunks. I can't compete with this and more often then not I'm blocked an unable to compete anyway. Lol

This isn't posted out of sour grapes as I love this site and use it to keep in touch with my club friends. But I think I'm better off sticking to just that rather then face rejection.

So unlike life where 50 is the new 40 here it feels like 50 is the new 65...retire. "

So hold on a minute: YOU have an upper limit of 54, yet are bemoaning the fact others have age limits too?!!

A married man with a sense of entitlement...quelle surprise!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"As a male on fabs I wonder if I'm now to old.

Although I still feel like a 25 y.o and I believe I'm a decent guy I truly think that there's to much competition.

I see time after time restrictions and posts as the target audience for women and couples are young hunks. I can't compete with this and more often then not I'm blocked an unable to compete anyway. Lol

This isn't posted out of sour grapes as I love this site and use it to keep in touch with my club friends. But I think I'm better off sticking to just that rather then face rejection.

So unlike life where 50 is the new 40 here it feels like 50 is the new 65...retire.

Well, as your own upper age limit is 54, I guess that you yourself feel that much over 50 is just too old.,.....

"

Ironic huh?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're never too old!

And that's coming from a 19 year old

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By *ntriguedx2Couple
over a year ago

wigan

My regular playmate is 52 and I wouldn't have it any other way , he better than any twenty something's !!!!

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By *ntriguedx2Couple
over a year ago

wigan

My regular playmate is 52 and I wouldn't have it any other way , he better than any twenty something's !!!!

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"As a male on fabs I wonder if I'm now to old.

Although I still feel like a 25 y.o and I believe I'm a decent guy I truly think that there's to much competition.

I see time after time restrictions and posts as the target audience for women and couples are young hunks. I can't compete with this and more often then not I'm blocked an unable to compete anyway. Lol

This isn't posted out of sour grapes as I love this site and use it to keep in touch with my club friends. But I think I'm better off sticking to just that rather then face rejection.

So unlike life where 50 is the new 40 here it feels like 50 is the new 65...retire.

So hold on a minute: YOU have an upper limit of 54, yet are bemoaning the fact others have age limits too?!!

A married man with a sense of entitlement...quelle surprise! "

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Have to say - the OP and the other guy over 50 saying age is a problem have very sparse, short profiles that don't give women any insight into the person at all.

I think that's a big part of the problem. Easy to hit on age as an issue, but you've got to put some effort in guys.

I'm not that much younger really - I think there's ways to capitalise on the fact you're 50+ but, to be honest, I'm sure you're old enough and wise enough to figure them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I'm far too old for you I'm probably not qualified to comment, so I shall reserve my pearls of wisdom on this one then

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By *errygTV/TS
over a year ago

denton

people differ with age,ive seen many heavy drinkers smokers who age before their time, madonna has kept herself in good shape, people can be like cars some keep better than others its how they looked after

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"i agree. it does seem like when you are 50, on here, you are deemed as "past it" "

Far from it...just getting into my stride on the site!

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"i agree. it does seem like when you are 50, on here, you are deemed as "past it"

Far from it...just getting into my stride on the site! "

I have similar concerns about turning 60 2 weeks ago. However I don't look my age, we have lots of swinging friends and people don't ask your age in clubs. I don't expect to be getting together with people in their twenties but the swinging world is full of very sexy middle-aged couples and we love it.

Would love to be 50 again (would have started back at the gym sooner) but am making the most of what I have now.

Him

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By *lackbirdtimestwoWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Hell no,, 50 is a great age xxxx

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By *lackbirdtimestwoWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Completely agree mines 58 and my best lover to date

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By *egsandPearlyCouple
over a year ago

Shaftesbury

Never to old

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By *entkev OP   Man
over a year ago

Dover

I'll take all the positive and helpful replies with a huge thank you to you all for your efforts & wisdom.

Obviously I'll disregard the comments looking for a reaction.

You have all restored my faith in fabs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 51 and having a great time, don't think age is an issue, more to do with the ratio of men to women. Do yourself a favour, don't take it too seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 48 best before January 2017

Her

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By *--Cinders---Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

No way am I ready to give up swinging yet, am having a fantastic time...might be getting on in years but minds still young ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No way am I ready to give up swinging yet, am having a fantastic time...might be getting on in years but minds still young .. "

You GO gurl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love men much older then me so no such thing as too old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm over 50, meeting but not off here, and having great sex, best I ever had. So over 50 isn't too old, although I'd have to agree with the OP it does seem that way here

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Completely agree mines 58 and my best lover to date "
that's a good age to be a lover

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We met when we were both over 50 and started swinging soon after. Now many years later it is very much a regular part of our lives - we have regular friends but still need and enjoy those new encounters. In fact we are having as much fun sex as we did when we were promiscuous teens and twenties. You are too old when it's no longer enjoyable or you can't do it and neither of us are anywhere near that stage!

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

Life dont stop at 50 I see guy who 53 so go for it I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 51 and dont feel too old the only time it pissed me off is most women have their age limet at 50 so it narrows it down even more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any problem,at a young 70 +...xx

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Does make me chuckle, the people saying it annoys them being over a certain age who have age filters set themselves...

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By *pock123Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Hope 50 isn't too old, we didn't start till we were 52!

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By *ebedee2009Man
over a year ago

South Croydon

I'm 52 and am having a tip top time!! I think as long as you have a good sense of humour about the whole scene you can't go far wrong.

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By *ridmusCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

I prefer older guys...

Had my eyes opened...lol

Her x

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By *arks_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

Made me think. I'm nearing that big 50. on more serious note many of these folks keep themselves in great shape, great company. Don't mind 50s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lav's still going strong at almost 59!

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