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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any advice on the best way to try out clubs/saunas/parties/groups for the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just pitch up with a good attitude, not expecting to play, treat it the same as you would going to the pub, without getting smashed.

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By *ollipop77Couple
over a year ago

Sunny Manchester

Maybe try a social evening first.

Don't have any expectations of sex, just go with the view of having a good chat with some sexy people.

Don't get d*unk!

Talk to people x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just pitch up with a good attitude, not expecting to play, treat it the same as you would going to the pub, without getting smashed."

Cheers mate any advice to stop the nervs haha

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Just pitch up with a good attitude, not expecting to play, treat it the same as you would going to the pub, without getting smashed.

Cheers mate any advice to stop the nervs haha "

Get smashed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just pitch up with a good attitude, not expecting to play, treat it the same as you would going to the pub, without getting smashed.

Cheers mate any advice to stop the nervs haha "

Have A DRINK, one drink, before you go in, don't get smashed coz that will end up with you being thrown out and possibly banned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just pitch up with a good attitude, not expecting to play, treat it the same as you would going to the pub, without getting smashed.

Cheers mate any advice to stop the nervs haha "

Just step through the door bud, as I said, just the same as the pub. Once in you'll notice their was nothing to be nervous about.

Once you get past that threshold, you'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True !! Thanks everyone think would be easier if I new someone going then I wouldn't walk in and be stood around on my own haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True !! Thanks everyone think would be easier if I new someone going then I wouldn't walk in and be stood around on my own haha "

That ain't gonna happen, well very unlikely....put your big boy pants on and, just do it!!!!

Have fun bud, all will be good, a respectful attitude goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha your rite mate no good over thinking it just got to do it and hopefully never look back and eventually have some fun

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Look in the Meets, Events and Parties Section for a event local to you tgen contact the host to try and get on the guest list. You will see many people post on those threads that are attending so you could perhaps contact them to say hello and break the ice before you go, might help ease the nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go an do it , my advice is not have anything to drink .

If you can take your own drinks , take soft drinks .

It's pretty daunting the first time. but then I would rather go to a club than sit In a m25 traffic jam with my nan and my mum discussing east Enders

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