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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

DON'T KNOW WHAT I'M DOIN WRONG NEW TO THIS AND TRYING TO FIND MEETS FOR CLUBS AS NEVER BEEN ONE AND WOULD LIKE TO GO WUTH SOME ONE WHO ALL READY INTO IT ALL .... AND EVEN TRIED MESSAGEING GIRLS WHO DON'T DO CLUBS FOR MEETS AND NO INTRESSED ?? IS THERE SOMET AMISS WITH MY PROFILE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself on the status shuffle thread….you're sure to get some replies then

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

All caps makes it look like you're SHOUTING

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the shouting puts women off !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

HAHAHA will change that now any more advice ladys ?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"DON'T KNOW WHAT I'M DOIN WRONG NEW TO THIS AND TRYING TO FIND MEETS FOR CLUBS AS NEVER BEEN ONE AND WOULD LIKE TO GO WUTH SOME ONE WHO ALL READY INTO IT ALL .... AND EVEN TRIED MESSAGEING GIRLS WHO DON'T DO CLUBS FOR MEETS AND NO INTRESSED ?? IS THERE SOMET AMISS WITH MY PROFILE "

Your post here is longer than your profile. Theres loads of advice threads in the forum archive.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

Yep, the shouting capitals is a put off,

For me, your profile tells me nothing about you, I see profiles as shop wwindows, if you like what you see you'll go in and have a better look

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"DON'T KNOW WHAT I'M DOIN WRONG NEW TO THIS AND TRYING TO FIND MEETS FOR CLUBS AS NEVER BEEN ONE AND WOULD LIKE TO GO WUTH SOME ONE WHO ALL READY INTO IT ALL .... AND EVEN TRIED MESSAGEING GIRLS WHO DON'T DO CLUBS FOR MEETS AND NO INTRESSED ?? IS THERE SOMET AMISS WITH MY PROFILE "

You could stop leaning on the CAPS LOCK button for a start.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with comments there seems to be no happy medium cloths of cloths on no cock pictures then cock pictures etc ect .

Lol guess deal with women I been shopping with them this site is the same too many choices they buy then take bacl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 27/03/15 22:11:28]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you think a stranger would want to go to a club with you? There is very little if anything in it for them

Just man up and go on your own

And if your profile and post here reflect the effort you put in, it's no wonder you get nothing back. You are one of 1000's and need to stand out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats what i was asking advice got nothing constructive don't say out at all the

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess advice if fill your profile with bullshit how wonderful you are .

Lol so when you meet pull stomach in stand tall and speak French .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was aimed at crystal alek no you your advice was ok cheers pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was aimed at crystal alek no you your advice was ok cheers pal "

Mya advice was that you almost certainly won't find someone to go clubbing with so don;t look and just go on your own. And make an effort with your profile and messages to stand out.

Not sure why you pick that out as unconstructive when most other posts have not commented on anything beyond your use of capitals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cheers , my understand and comment i have read the clubs a full of single guys and few women ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats why i want someone to go along with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've taken off the caps lock which is a good start. Messaging someone is no different to talking to them in person, if you are genuinely interested in who they are and what they have to say you'll get some chat going. You can't expect someone you have built up no rapport with to go with you to a club.

Be thoughtful, be polite and be interested would be my advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

D ont expect that a few soical meets first would be good after hanging for a while my problem was no one is even reading my messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hanging not hanging sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Chatting sorry predictive ooops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree with you comment regarding being polite , but when womens profile is she wants beasted and wants cock pictures before face pictures , i struggle think Mills and Boon ant going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats why i want someone to go along with "

Meet them FIRST. Get to know them....then suggest a club. Or go on your own and meet someone there.....

You are on a real looser trying to get a random woman to go to a club with you.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not trying to get a ramdom woman to go to a club not bothered if she doesn't do clubs looking for some one to share my sex drive is that what this site is all about

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Proof read your profile, the first sentence of your second paragraph doesn't make sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to get a ramdom woman to go to a club not bothered if she doesn't do clubs looking for some one to share my sex drive is that what this site is all about "

A blow up doll might be your answer

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

You have been on here 6 weeks, and you thought that you would get a meet straight away.

Some guys take 6 months to get a meet, some even more.

Get to a club on your own if your that desperate.

Attend socials, read the forums about not getting replies.

There are minimum of 100 guys to 1 woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers sorted it CLCC X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to get a ramdom woman to go to a club not bothered if she doesn't do clubs looking for some one to share my sex drive is that what this site is all about "
no it is not! This is a swing site for those interested not a sex site!

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

To some degree use forums make comments maybe get some banter and chat going let people see a bit more of your personality and humour then see if you take any bodies fancy even if it doesn't work directly at least you'll be more entertained than sending messages and just crossing your fingers in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have been on here 6 weeks, and you thought that you would get a meet straight away.

Some guys take 6 months to get a meet, some even more.

Get to a club on your own if your that desperate.

Attend socials, read the forums about not getting replies.

There are minimum of 100 guys to 1 woman."

I was reading through the thread and was about to write something similar.

On the site for 6 weeks and already bemoaning lack of meets - many many guys (as you say) wait a LOT longer than that to get their first meet on here, you're a mere pup OP in terms of your time on Fab, keep positive, take on the advice given and hopefully the fun will begin soon!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not trying to get a ramdom woman to go to a club not bothered if she doesn't do clubs looking for some one to share my sex drive is that what this site is all about no it is not! This is a swing site for those interested not a sex site!"
Why do half the girls say don't do clubs on there profiles then brainbox ?

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton


"Not trying to get a ramdom woman to go to a club not bothered if she doesn't do clubs looking for some one to share my sex drive is that what this site is all about no it is not! This is a swing site for those interested not a sex site!"

Nice to see the reply coming from a man and not a woman saying not a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have been on here 6 weeks, and you thought that you would get a meet straight away.

Some guys take 6 months to get a meet, some even more.

Get to a club on your own if your that desperate.

Attend socials, read the forums about not getting replies.

There are minimum of 100 guys to 1 woman.

I was reading through the thread and was about to write something similar.

On the site for 6 weeks and already bemoaning lack of meets - many many guys (as you say) wait a LOT longer than that to get their first meet on here, you're a mere pup OP in terms of your time on Fab, keep positive, take on the advice given and hopefully the fun will begin soon! "

Is it really that ratio on here 100-1.?

If so that makes me a little sad for the guys seems a bit harsh on them.

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton


"Not trying to get a ramdom woman to go to a club not bothered if she doesn't do clubs looking for some one to share my sex drive is that what this site is all about no it is not! This is a swing site for those interested not a sex site! Why do half the girls say don't do clubs on there profiles then brainbox ?"

Because it can be a cattle market, because they want to meet in a house and be treated nice. Because they do not like clubs. You really need to get the right attitude. Please tell me why you think that you have the right to assume that women are on her for sex? this is a swinging site, not a sex site and that is a lot of difference.

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By *ornybi1965Couple
over a year ago

Guildford

This is one of many guys who thinks that he only needs to join a swingers site and he will get loads of women wanting him to fuck them ...dream on sunshine ...its not going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no need to shout, we're not deaf!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not trying to get a ramdom woman to go to a club not bothered if she doesn't do clubs looking for some one to share my sex drive is that what this site is all about no it is not! This is a swing site for those interested not a sex site! Why do half the girls say don't do clubs on there profiles then brainbox ?

Because it can be a cattle market, because they want to meet in a house and be treated nice. Because they do not like clubs. You really need to get the right attitude. Please tell me why you think that you have the right to assume that women are on her for sex? this is a swinging site, not a sex site and that is a lot of difference."
I have the right attitude who are you to judge me ? was looking for advice not the 3rd degree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You all have me all wrong was looking for advice and some people have been nice to help and its working the rest of you go and hide back in the your holes

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By *inecrestMan
over a year ago

West Yorks

Most single females on here say they are looking for a guy who is experienced, not someone to "show the ropes" to. Why should they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to get a ramdom woman to go to a club not bothered if she doesn't do clubs looking for some one to share my sex drive is that what this site is all about no it is not! This is a swing site for those interested not a sex site! Why do half the girls say don't do clubs on there profiles then brainbox ?"

what does not wanting to do clubs got to do with anything? sod all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You all have me all wrong was looking for advice and some people have been nice to help and its working the rest of you go and hide back in the your holes "

It's a public forum, people can say what they want, even if you don't agree, you can't tell them to go hide in their holes.

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton


"Not trying to get a ramdom woman to go to a club not bothered if she doesn't do clubs looking for some one to share my sex drive is that what this site is all about no it is not! This is a swing site for those interested not a sex site! Why do half the girls say don't do clubs on there profiles then brainbox ?

Because it can be a cattle market, because they want to meet in a house and be treated nice. Because they do not like clubs. You really need to get the right attitude. Please tell me why you think that you have the right to assume that women are on her for sex? this is a swinging site, not a sex site and that is a lot of difference. I have the right attitude who are you to judge me ? was looking for advice not the 3rd degree "

No attitude, so why can you not take the advice, and listen. It is a swinging site, not a sex site and there is a lot of difference. I am not judging you at all. I have been on this site a long time, met someone off here, and also played lots before that. I know what swinging is about, it is about getting to know someone. Read what the guys have said on this thread not just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every one has to start somewhere u div "

calling people divs will drop your chances of getting meets, you div

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By *ornybi1965Couple
over a year ago

Guildford

I expect you won't be on this site in six weeks time, when you realise you can't get an easy shag on here. So suggest you crawl back into your hole.

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton


"I expect you won't be on this site in six weeks time, when you realise you can't get an easy shag on here. So suggest you crawl back into your hole. "

I need a like button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot understand why you are not getting meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow this guy's a charmer, a real keeper. Go go!!

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By *ornybi1965Couple
over a year ago

Guildford

I expect he would. The guy obviously does not take criticism well ..lol. As for his spelling ...don't get me started ...lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'M after more than the one night stands i get every week thats why i come on here if you don't like me i don't care don't comment any more simple find somet else to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'M after more than the one night stands i get every week thats why i come on here if you don't like me i don't care don't comment any more simple find somet else to do "

Maybe a dating site is what you need?

And what does somet mean?

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By *ornybi1965Couple
over a year ago

Guildford


"I'M after more than the one night stands i get every week thats why i come on here if you don't like me i don't care don't comment any more simple find somet else to do "

Did I mention his grammar ...lol

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By *ustyBrunette35Couple
over a year ago

birmingham


"And btw, it's "spare time" not "spear time" "

Maybe he's a hunter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would stick to your one night stands mate. Your posts stay on here so I reckon you will struggle to get meets on here . Why not just listen to the advice given. The guys and ladies who are advising you are guys and ladies who get lots of meets so are worth listening to instead of Abusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And btw, it's "spare time" not "spear time"

Maybe he's a hunter? "

Probably, seeing how he's just shot himself in the foot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

MORONS !! argue between your selfs i'm off to bed there is a big world outside of this site you know

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By *ornybi1965Couple
over a year ago

Guildford


"I expect he would. The guy obviously does not take criticism well ..lol. As for his spelling ...don't get me started ...lol

I think he would be one of those guys that calls women sluts and ugly as fuck when they reject him Listen judge me you don't even know me just wanted some advice cause new to this and never done swinging before wow !!"

And probably not likely to do it again, unless you improve your attitude

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By *issy NickersWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I started swinging by going to a club so my attitude is definite "swing based". The OP has messaged me and much pleasanter messaging but reading this I see he hasn't really got what it's about. Maybe a local club to see that all us ladies aren't sluts or easy lays but people.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every one has to start somewhere u div "
What a knacka lol

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By *ornybi1965Couple
over a year ago

Guildford


"MORONS !! argue between your selfs i'm off to bed there is a big world outside of this site you know "

Its difficult to understand why such a nice guy has not had any meets ...lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

So why do people think they can speak to people like shit and not expect a person to answer back?

To the OP, welcome to the forum, I am sorry about the way you were spoken to when only asking for advice but not all the people who type on the forum are as unfriendly so please don't be put off.

To the people who are not very pleasant on this thread, maybe ignore the advice threads as you are coming across as bored with answering so much so that it is unpleasant.

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