FabSwingers.com forum: starting a conversation

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi,

I'm wondering if I could get some advice, I'm struggling with the above.

I understand and avoid just outright asking for a shag,but with some profiles there isn't enough detail to just strike up a talk. How do I get passed this barrier?

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Hi,

I'm wondering if I could get some advice, I'm struggling with the above.

I understand and avoid just outright asking for a shag,but with some profiles there isn't enough detail to just strike up a talk. How do I get passed this barrier?

If a profile doesn't give you enough info to make a decision as to whether you may be interested in them - then why look to message them?

Why not concentrate on those where you can at least identify common interests and tastes?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The problem is the ones that do are usually older and not looking for someone my age, so I have to make the best out of the situation.

Thank you for the advice though

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

I'm wondering if I could get some advice, I'm struggling with the above.

I understand and avoid just outright asking for a shag,but with some profiles there isn't enough detail to just strike up a talk. How do I get passed this barrier?

Being honest though, your profile doesn't exactly have much someone else could use to "strike up talk"