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"I like the profiles that threaten you with a block like it will dramatically change your life and everything will come crumbling down " Slightly off-topic.. nice profile pic you have there | |||
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"It might be that they are not into tattoos so rather than see your profile every time they search, they just block you because they know they are never going to want to play with you. I have blocked loads of profiles that I believe to be fake, but there is nothing on your profile that would makes yours fall into that category." Only have one tattoo but each to their own. | |||
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"I like the profiles that threaten you with a block like it will dramatically change your life and everything will come crumbling down Slightly off-topic.. nice profile pic you have there " That's awfully kind of you, your more than welcome to let me know directly...i'm pretty sure I haven't blocked you for putting your middle finger up at me | |||
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"we have been blocked by several people on here that we haven't had any interaction with which we find strange but obviously it's there choice. We were just wondering has any one found this happen to them or done this to people on here themselves. Mostly found this on forums by the way relating to club posts" Your profile is long and veri specific in its requirements. We would block you because you do not fit with us. Blocking, in the absence of a "not interested" button, is the only way to indicate a profile does not suit. | |||
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"I do sometime block without any contact....people who constantly look at the profile but don't like tattoos or chubby girls - I am saving them from being offended People who do mad status name and shame things - never going to meet you just in case Overly aggressive profiles with loads of rules and thinly veiled hatred - again never going to meet you..... Sometimes spontaneous blocking a of people who look repeatedly but have been on over a year and not meet verified - they are never going to meet me because they don't meet anyone " | |||
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"A block is not an insult. It is just a useful tool." We never take it as an insult it just piqued our curiosity as to reasons | |||
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"we have been blocked by several people on here that we haven't had any interaction with which we find strange but obviously it's there choice. We were just wondering has any one found this happen to them or done this to people on here themselves. Mostly found this on forums by the way relating to club posts" Nothing strange about it really, after reading your profile and finding your only interest is females and nothing else, there seems little point in couples of single guys bumping into you again on the site therefor the easiest thing by far is to block you. | |||
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"we have been blocked by several people on here that we haven't had any interaction with which we find strange but obviously it's there choice. We were just wondering has any one found this happen to them or done this to people on here themselves. Mostly found this on forums by the way relating to club posts" I often block couples where they're just looking for threesomes with women. I wouldn't worry about it, it's just so that you don't keep coming up in searches etc. | |||
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"we have been blocked by several people on here that we haven't had any interaction with which we find strange but obviously it's there choice. We were just wondering has any one found this happen to them or done this to people on here themselves. Mostly found this on forums by the way relating to club posts" I know people have blocked us but I have no idea who and how many. I guess it's for various reasons but thinking too much about all this isn't a good idea. | |||
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"we have been blocked by several people on here that we haven't had any interaction with which we find strange but obviously it's there choice. We were just wondering has any one found this happen to them or done this to people on here themselves. Mostly found this on forums by the way relating to club posts" Blocked for no apparent reason? Then blocks all men | |||
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"we have been blocked by several people on here that we haven't had any interaction with which we find strange but obviously it's there choice. We were just wondering has any one found this happen to them or done this to people on here themselves. Mostly found this on forums by the way relating to club posts Blocked for no apparent reason? Then blocks all men " But there is an obvious reason for that...They don't want to meet them...so your point is..? | |||
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"There is always a reason people are blocked. You just won't know what it is unless the blocker gives you advanced notice. Our list is huge and incorporates many people for many reasons. And yes, we sometimes pre-emptively block if there's not the slightest chance we'll ever be interested in someone that repeatedly _iews us. Wondering why is as pointless as a blunt pencil. A" Exactly this...The reason won't be apparent to you but to the blocker it's clear. | |||
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"How do you know if someone has blocked you? Xx" Try and _iew their profile. You'll soon know! A | |||
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"we have been blocked by several people on here that we haven't had any interaction with which we find strange but obviously it's there choice. We were just wondering has any one found this happen to them or done this to people on here themselves. Mostly found this on forums by the way relating to club posts Blocked for no apparent reason? Then blocks all men But there is an obvious reason for that...They don't want to meet them...so your point is..?" That maybe that's the reason why some people are blocking you. They don't want to meet you. | |||
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"How do you know if someone has blocked you? Xx Try and _iew their profile. You'll soon know! A" Phew you haven't lol | |||
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"Uch aye! Seem to have loads of random blocks but to be honest I never give it the slightest thought lol. I found I get a fair few more whenever I voice an opinion lol " This Found another one just now - never interacted in here or in search and not even local so god knows! | |||
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"I rarely block. I do believe a few may have blocked us, can't for the life of me think why? I wouldnt stress it OP. " we are not stressing about it was more a post to find out reasons that's all. everyone has their reasons and are all valid. never thought it would spark a debate but that's great | |||
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"The block button is a tool not a weapon." Well that rather depends on how frail your ego is. | |||
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"If I find I'm blocked by a profile I consider all rational reasons and then normally settle on "I was out of their league.. " " | |||
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"A block is not an insult. It is just a useful tool." Some people see it as a slight, bless their fragile egos. | |||
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"A block is not an insult. It is just a useful tool. Some people see it as a slight, bless their fragile egos." In the wrong place then | |||
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"Dumb question..but how do you know you've been blocked??" When you click on their profile and you get the message: "this profile is not available for you to _iew. this may be because....." | |||
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"Dumb question..but how do you know you've been blocked?? When you click on their profile and you get the message: "this profile is not available for you to _iew. this may be because....."" Thanks. I've never had that before….and don't you dare haha! I'm sure I'll be blocked to buggery now! | |||
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"But, you've blocked all single guys! " How can you block all single guys ? | |||
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"Dumb question..but how do you know you've been blocked??" When you look at a profile "You can't _iew this profile This can be one of three things: User's account is suspended by admin, user has blocked you or you have blocked user." recently I had someone check something for me, turns out the account was suspended I wasn't blocked. So you can't always be !00% sure | |||
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"Dumb question..but how do you know you've been blocked?? When you click on their profile and you get the message: "this profile is not available for you to _iew. this may be because....." Thanks. I've never had that before….and don't you dare haha! I'm sure I'll be blocked to buggery now! " I can see why you've never been blocked, people would be made to do it x | |||
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"Dumb question..but how do you know you've been blocked?? When you look at a profile "You can't _iew this profile This can be one of three things: User's account is suspended by admin, user has blocked you or you have blocked user." recently I had someone check something for me, turns out the account was suspended I wasn't blocked. So you can't always be !00% sure " Thanks | |||
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"Dumb question..but how do you know you've been blocked?? When you click on their profile and you get the message: "this profile is not available for you to _iew. this may be because....." Thanks. I've never had that before….and don't you dare haha! I'm sure I'll be blocked to buggery now! " Better than being blocked by buggery | |||
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"But, you've blocked all single guys! " Who has ? We haven't in our block list it's just one pushy male | |||
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"I've been blocked a few times just for fabbing peoples pics, got a msg from them saying your not our thing and your blocked!! Some people are just rude" theres nothing rude about that, they are letting you no they arent interested in you, effectively saving your time, and using the block button as a tool as it should be, this isnt facebook. | |||
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"we have been blocked by several people on here that we haven't had any interaction with which we find strange but obviously it's there choice. We were just wondering has any one found this happen to them or done this to people on here themselves. Mostly found this on forums by the way relating to club posts" there is always a reason people are blocked.... its just that the reason may not be apparent to you...... and here endeth the sermon.... | |||
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"You go in the chatrooms like I do that gets me blocked. It's some of the other single women that get fed up with reading me chatting to everyone. Also maybe they don't like me _iewing them. I find it a bit sad as I love chatting to other single women and having a laugh. I've also been blocked for fabbing women's pics as I don't always check if they're bi. As far as im concerned a good pic is worth fabbing whatever. Im not unduly bothered by any of it. " | |||
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" Sometimes spontaneous blocking a of people who look repeatedly but have been on over a year and not meet verified - they are never going to meet me because they don't meet anyone " We do this | |||
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"If i'm going thru my newsfeed and there's a status i find offensive i'll block the profile. If there's pics and they're not my type i'll block the profile. " Yip likewise | |||
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"If i'm going thru my newsfeed and there's a status i find offensive i'll block the profile. If there's pics and they're not my type i'll block the profile. Yip likewise " I do this regualry. Any guys who put up statuses that slag off women or who are constantly leaving, whingeing about time wasters etc | |||
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"If i'm going thru my newsfeed and there's a status i find offensive i'll block the profile. If there's pics and they're not my type i'll block the profile. Yip likewise I do this regualry. Any guys who put up statuses that slag off women or who are constantly leaving, whingeing about time wasters etc" Agree | |||
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"If i'm going thru my newsfeed and there's a status i find offensive i'll block the profile. If there's pics and they're not my type i'll block the profile. Yip likewise I do this regualry. Any guys who put up statuses that slag off women or who are constantly leaving, whingeing about time wasters etc Agree" +1 | |||
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"we have been blocked by several people on here that we haven't had any interaction with which we find strange but obviously it's there choice. We were just wondering has any one found this happen to them or done this to people on here themselves. Mostly found this on forums by the way relating to club posts" Usualy it's cause you come in thier searches and they arnt attracted to you so they just block you now you arnt int her searches or you've said something they dislike in the forum and want to make sure they don't meet you (ie bareback) | |||
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"The block list is a tool - no more no less. Just like filters. I use mine for people I am not interested in - it may be from a forum post, a status update, something in their profile, or messages, or even a picture. Its not for no apparent reason from my side." This! Don't understand why people get so het up. | |||
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"If i'm going thru my newsfeed and there's a status i find offensive i'll block the profile. If there's pics and they're not my type i'll block the profile. " This | |||
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"The block list is a tool - no more no less. Just like filters. I use mine for people I am not interested in - it may be from a forum post, a status update, something in their profile, or messages, or even a picture. Its not for no apparent reason from my side." Was going to write exactly this | |||
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"I'm trying to tailor the site to my specific requirements so I block every profile that i don't like which comes up in a search I use...it's nothing personal it's just that I know we'll never meet." | |||
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"we have been blocked by several people on here that we haven't had any interaction with which we find strange but obviously it's there choice. We were just wondering has any one found this happen to them or done this to people on here themselves. Mostly found this on forums by the way relating to club posts" They may recognise you...so rather than develop awkwardness they blocked you? I recognised my Aunty...simply blocked her! Simple lol | |||
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"we have been blocked by several people on here that we haven't had any interaction with which we find strange but obviously it's there choice. We were just wondering has any one found this happen to them or done this to people on here themselves. Mostly found this on forums by the way relating to club posts" It happens all the time. Sometimes I will do a search and go to _iew profiles only to find I am blocked. I know I have never had any interaction with the profile owner. | |||
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"I don't get why people worry about it so much you won't always know you've been blocked, you don't have to have talked there's a reason get over it move on to ones that haven't block you." Im not bothered just slightly bemused | |||
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"I only block people that are :- Younger Sexier Richer Bigger dick Six pack Southerners Posh people Welsh The list goes on so that one person who I haven't blocked yet .... Be careful " Amazed to find I've not been blocked yet then! I'm not welsh or sexier but I possibly tick many of your other boxes. | |||
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"we have been blocked by several people on here that we haven't had any interaction with which we find strange but obviously it's there choice. We were just wondering has any one found this happen to them or done this to people on here themselves. Mostly found this on forums by the way relating to club posts" . Yeah a fem blocked my partner on here and I have discovered she blocked me too - no idea why it's not as if I contribute too much to the boards and I make exceptional care not to upset anyone and I know for sure I wouldn't want interaction with that person. I personally find it amusing that I appear to have unknowingly appalled someone so much to block me . Try not to take it personally - there are plenty other folks you/your partner will appeal to. | |||
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"I got blocked by someone who I had been talking to for a while when I suggested meeting xxx" They probably realised you would leave the site soon ! | |||
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