FabSwingers.com forum: New to the game

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, i am really new to the swinging scene and really want to get into it, the problem is that no one seems to give two shits about a single male with an average cock haha, aside from clubs (im really shy) what can i do? any fems or mf couples willing show me the ropes? i can travel and occasionally accom, just need to be given the chance haha

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Profile settings say you're not looking to meet MF couples, you might want to include them; There are plenty who will be willing to meet you, but without doubt get yourself to either of the local clubs on a night when single gents are allowed too. That way you can get some verifications, have a good chat with plenty of people (experienced and otherwise) and maybe even get chance to play too

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not bothered... not fussy... your profile reads like you don't care as long as you get somewhere to stick it.

doesn't say whay you actually like.

but well done for not having a multitude of pics of your cock from every angle!

you are very young, a lot wont meet people same age as their children.

patience, be polite and don't whine/sound desperate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ahh brilliant advice to be honest, i am always polite and i think i best reword my profile. its just so hard to get noticed haha, most messages are just unread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ahh brilliant advice to be honest, i am always polite and i think i best reword my profile. its just so hard to get noticed haha, most messages are just unread"

read profiles, only message those whose criteria you meet, send a smiley face pic with 1st message, and ignore the sent message function, once you have sent it, it doesn't matter what they do, if you get a reply then great, but checking if they've read it wont make a reply happen.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ye i know what you mean, truth be told i do tend to check for replies a little too often, although i will say i think my opening messages are usually quite nice, not short 'fuck me now' messages, i do take the time to read all of the users profile and make sure my message relates to that. And i do make sure i meet the other persons criteria too, it would be rude not to do that.

I have just reworded my profile, can you take a look to see if its better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ye i know what you mean, truth be told i do tend to check for replies a little too often, although i will say i think my opening messages are usually quite nice, not short 'fuck me now' messages, i do take the time to read all of the users profile and make sure my message relates to that. And i do make sure i meet the other persons criteria too, it would be rude not to do that.

I have just reworded my profile, can you take a look to see if its better?"

yeah, sounds cheerful, well done, if you put profile help into the forum search, there will be plenty of other tips too.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ahh brill, thank you for all the sound advice haha, its so damn hard to get into this site without the clubs

you've been a really big help tho i appreciate it, one last question tho haha, are the pics alright? any things which people or you personally would prefer to see than what i have?

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