FabSwingers.com forum: newbie questions

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Never ever tried this want to see my missus have some fun. Not after playing myself. Shes very shy but sexual. Now up for the idea of extra marital cock but we're both a little daunted.

Just wondering how your first times were any jealousy how it happened and any advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not try a club to see what it is like without trying anything and you will get great advice from couples there too .

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

If trying a club, guess you would not want to start at one too close to home. Can I suggest you consider The Vanilla Alternative just outside Bedford. It's an ideal place for first timers. Plenty of socialising space in the bar and lounge where you can chat with like minded people. No pressure at all to do anything. The family run, upmarket club has a massive hot tub and 12 on-site hotel rooms - ideal if you fancy a few drinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or come to a dedicated newbie night at Tease eh?

Next one 27/3

Additional staff and hosts for this dedicated newbie night xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to a club for our first experience, just turned up and didn't expect to play really just wanted to make sure it was what we thought it would be like! It was even better than we expected and found a gorgeous guy to play with.

We then arranged to meet a guy from here at a hotel for our 1st 'full' swinging experience and it was amazing.

Just take it slow and make sure you both keep talking about any little things you do or don't like

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We've thought about clubs. Agreed with not going close to home. As i think bumping into people we knew would put us right off.

A few silly questions about them as dont really know what to expect.

Are they mostly off the beaten track?

Dont you guys mind us gawping ? Obviously wouldn't be that rude but..

Whats the etiquette to play? Guess its just like dating. Hi etc wanna play?

Pushy people and rules?

My mrs would be the one to play only, does this annoy people?

How are these plaves laid out? Ie are there non sex areas

Any good documentaries or more info sources ?

Do any of you couples only do one partner play?

Sorry for the exhaustive list

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"We've thought about clubs. Agreed with not going close to home. As i think bumping into people we knew would put us right off.

A few silly questions about them as dont really know what to expect.

Are they mostly off the beaten track?

Dont you guys mind us gawping ? Obviously wouldn't be that rude but..

Whats the etiquette to play? Guess its just like dating. Hi etc wanna play?

Pushy people and rules?

My mrs would be the one to play only, does this annoy people?

How are these plaves laid out? Ie are there non sex areas

Any good documentaries or more info sources ?

Do any of you couples only do one partner play?

Sorry for the exhaustive list"

People go to clubs for all sorts of reasons, some just to watch people and others like to be watched.

Some soft swap, some full swap, same room, separate room.

Both of the couple play, only one plays and the other watches.

The basic rules in a club are - no means no and ask before you touch. There is no pressure to play, go at your own pace. If you just want to dip your toe in and see what it is all about, then I would 100% suggest a club

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We hold newbie nights on the first Friday of every month here, we have plenty of great people who will show you around and introduce you to people if you want to be. We also hold a Social newbie night on a Tuesday night with karaoke and its a very good price too. Any night though is a good night to come along for newbies as everyone is so friendly and we have a great party atmosphere that gets everyone going, but with no need to have to swing..

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