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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

If a woman is looking for a man for a friends with benefits long term relationship would they want romance as well? Also after getting to know each other over time going to sex shops and ann summers etc? Have put these things in my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because a woman being blindfolded and triple ended for her birthday is so romantic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of course they'd want romance in a relationship! friend with benefits, maybe not

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

To me;

Friends with benefits implies theres a social environment where fun is the outcome as well as a good giggle.

A Relationship is friends with benefits combined with romance added.

Exploring with sex toys and possibly still swinging grows with the trust gained from being a good partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

read your profile and there is a lot of '' i like' in it as in more about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people would like that yes. I've been round sex shops as a 'date' and it was good fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because a woman being blindfolded and triple ended for her birthday is so romantic "

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I do have a lot of things i like to do with a lady in my profile. But I do also state in my profile that I am willing to adapt to what she wants and whether she wants to be romantic.

_rivate room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do have a lot of things i like to do with a lady in my profile. But I do also state in my profile that I am willing to adapt to what she wants and whether she wants to be romantic.

_rivate room"

You're still doing it.

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

Doing what? A profile is about yourself and what you like and don't like. However I state that I am willing to adapt when I meet someone to what she wants as well.

Private room

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By *ngel delight 69Woman
over a year ago

Torquay

Bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doing what? A profile is about yourself and what you like and don't like. However I state that I am willing to adapt when I meet someone to what she wants as well.

Private room"

I state that I want to find a woman to hang me upsidedown & scrub me bits but it doesn't 'appen coz I start sentences with I and women see it as being self centered

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

Have changed my profile again for the 10th time and thanks for the advice.

Private room

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By *eaningofLifeCouple
over a year ago

York


"Because a woman being blindfolded and triple ended for her birthday is so romantic "

Pahahahaha that does sound like a fun birthday though. K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because a woman being blindfolded and triple ended for her birthday is so romantic

Pahahahaha that does sound like a fun birthday though. K"

I Give & I Give & I Give. That's how you use I in a sentence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because a woman being blindfolded and triple ended for her birthday is so romantic

Pahahahaha that does sound like a fun birthday though. K

I Give & I Give & I Give. That's how you use I in a sentence "

haha ur responses are legendary lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is romance somewhere in a fb or fwb relationship, you dont kiss or have sex with people if you like them, so for me thats a little bit romantic. And Id love to go round the shops with him, not necessarily sex shops but thats another thing that isnt possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a friend with benifits . She wanted a relationship at time I'd just split from someone else and didn't go for it one big regret I didn't now ! .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me;

Friends with benefits implies theres a social environment where fun is the outcome as well as a good giggle.

A Relationship is friends with benefits combined with romance added.

Exploring with sex toys and possibly still swinging grows with the trust gained from being a good partner "

That clarifies things for me then. I have a fwb very clearly. Social aspect as in go out for drinks etc. she has a caravan for "fun" weekends. We have been to sex shops and the GUM clinic together.....but we are NOT romantically involved and our fab swinging is entirely separate and individual. So yes you have defined it well.

My other regular (Sunday's usually) is just a regular fuck....as she is married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because a woman being blindfolded and triple ended for her birthday is so romantic

Pahahahaha that does sound like a fun birthday though. K

I Give & I Give & I Give. That's how you use I in a sentence

haha ur responses are legendary lol x"

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By *irentwoCouple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"but it doesn't 'appen coz I start sentences with I and women see it as being self centered "

What crap. How else can you start a sentence In a single's profile???

(Female half)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me;

Friends with benefits implies theres a social environment where fun is the outcome as well as a good giggle.

A Relationship is friends with benefits combined with romance added.

Exploring with sex toys and possibly still swinging grows with the trust gained from being a good partner "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bored "

Ahreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to your question, I don't think there is one answer, all women are different and don't always want the same thing. I think once you find a fwb then you should ask them what they want or don't want. You might find things naturally progress to romance, sometimes you have to go with the flow and see what happens!

Ignore all the snipey comments about your profile, it should be about you and what you are looking for and it helps others decide if they want to meet you or not.

Good Luck

(Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but it doesn't 'appen coz I start sentences with I and women see it as being self centered

What crap. How else can you start a sentence In a single's profile???

(Female half)

"

Of course it's crap because you've taken half of what was said out of context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like romance. I don't expect it on here though

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

A lot of women like to be kissed or snogged at swinging clubs as I have done it when playing.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I think there is a big jump from a kiss to romance.

I am definitely not looking for romance on fab, but not as detached not to kiss either.

I don't believe in love and find romance is fake... maybe I'm just a cynic tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of women like to be kissed or snogged at swinging clubs as I have done it when playing. "

Kissing doesn't meant romance lol

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"A lot of women like to be kissed or snogged at swinging clubs as I have done it when playing. "

I think you are confusing romance and passion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe update your profile pics, the double breasted suit looks dated, the camera round your neck makes you look like Roy Cropper, lol and you don't drink but your in a pub holding a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can see that you've put thought into your profile. Hope that you find what you're looking for.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Mr and I often snuggle up together, it's not something I'm comfortable doing with anyone else.

We're very tactile with each other, sometimes he can be romantic but not often, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may have missed it but the OP didn't ask for a profile critique did he? You'll all end up on the naughty step if you're not careful

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Saffy here...

If I read your profile whilst browsing I'd think you incredibly creepy.

You sound more like a profile listing on a bad dating site...

Sorry, we would instantly block you. Generally swingers don't meet to find romance, they meet to swing.

If you meet couples, are you hoping the Mrs will suddenly crave romance from you and leave the Mr?

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