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"Its really tough on here for you guys sometimes,I think my confidence would be crushed in a day if I was on here as a man OP im sure you're lots of peoples types but the numbers of men to women means you're swimming against a tide of 1000s of men all wanting the same " There's no way I would still be on this site if I was a guy - I couldn't take the constant rejection. | |||
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"Its really tough on here for you guys sometimes,I think my confidence would be crushed in a day if I was on here as a man OP im sure you're lots of peoples types but the numbers of men to women means you're swimming against a tide of 1000s of men all wanting the same There's no way I would still be on this site if I was a guy - I couldn't take the constant rejection." you can see it its their loss instead lol | |||
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"You get a reply. That's mostly more than me. And if I do get a reply it's most often a simple sorry not my type. That's cool, I know I'm not going to be everyone's type. Some on the replies I've had have gone into detail to tell me everything they think is wrong with me. " I probably get roughly the same amount of response as you In know full well I'm not going to be for everyone and know I'm not gods gift lol Just wondering if I'm as ugly of a git as I'm starting to feel lol | |||
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"Just an easy sentence to copy and paste, don't read into it. We often say "thanks, but not what we are looking for" to many people. It's not "directed" at them in particular, it's just a reasonable way to so "no"" we do the same | |||
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"Saying not my type is fair enough. But going into detail as to why and even critiquing people's looks is a bit much. " thats right and those who does it generaly dont got a pic in my experience. | |||
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"Saying not my type is fair enough. But going into detail as to why and even critiquing people's looks is a bit much. " I was once told that because I don't have tattoos they won't meet and demanded I got one lol | |||
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"You get a reply. That's mostly more than me. And if I do get a reply it's most often a simple sorry not my type. That's cool, I know I'm not going to be everyone's type. Some on the replies I've had have gone into detail to tell me everything they think is wrong with me. " Thats just completely needless | |||
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"Nothing seems wrong with the profile or pics, barring a few spelling errors etc but it isn't like it's in text speak. You have put in more effort than a lot do. Congrats. I must admit, I thought about coming here as a single male before meeting N. Took me about 2 seconds to decide against it lol. B" Cheers mate, if I had a lady friend to be on here would don't think it would be much thought needed lol | |||
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"Lol I get the same op, women think I spend to much in the gym lol " Do you go to the gym Shag..you've never said | |||
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"You look ok to me, bit too young though x" Thanks, shame I like older women x | |||
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"Lol I get the same op, women think I spend to much in the gym lol Do you go to the gym Shag..you've never said " Yes I do. I think I said it few times lol | |||
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"Lol I get the same op, women think I spend to much in the gym lol Do you go to the gym Shag..you've never said Yes I do. I think I said it few times lol " Must have missed those posts | |||
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"You've got veri's so your obviously someone's type. . Patience " Is this a cry for attention or fishing for compliments by any chance? | |||
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"You've got veri's so your obviously someone's type. . Patience Is this a cry for attention or fishing for compliments by any chance?" Not at all if you look through the whole feed you'd see that I have explained that I have 14 verifications but none in the past year, apart from one social | |||
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""not my type" isn't based on just looks" I agree but in the first message you don't get much more then a pic and my profile to gauge ever or not to reply I'd like to think I have a half decent profile, so only leaves the pic lol | |||
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"Think yourself lucky you get that. Nine times out of ten I don't even get a reply. Yes I know that goes with the territory of being a single bloke and no I'm not complaining - just saying " Again I explained that I only get about 10% of my messages replied to and I always get the same " not my type" | |||
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"Think yourself lucky you get that. Nine times out of ten I don't even get a reply. Yes I know that goes with the territory of being a single bloke and no I'm not complaining - just saying Again I explained that I only get about 10% of my messages replied to and I always get the same " not my type" " Out of that 10% you've still had 14 meets which in the great 'single guy' scheme of things is a fairly respectable number | |||
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"Think yourself lucky you get that. Nine times out of ten I don't even get a reply. Yes I know that goes with the territory of being a single bloke and no I'm not complaining - just saying Again I explained that I only get about 10% of my messages replied to and I always get the same " not my type" Out of that 10% you've still had 14 meets which in the great 'single guy' scheme of things is a fairly respectable number " Please look 5 posts up ?? | |||
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"Your profile looks alright. "Not my type" well... it's just down to the patience game really. When the going gets tough the tough gets going! Rock on happy swinging I'm sure your perseverance will pay off for the next couple or woman who looks you up! " Thanks mate | |||
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"Lol I get the same op, women think I spend to much in the gym lol Do you go to the gym Shag..you've never said Yes I do. I think I said it few times lol Must have missed those posts " Yes you must of lol | |||
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"You look just my type Shame you're so far away " Nooooooo then they offer to drive to you!!!! | |||
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