FabSwingers.com forum: Help with profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi there,

I have been here awhile and find it really hard to get people to look at my profile and then if they do they move on. I was wondering how i could get people interested in chatting to me.

Thanks for your help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hairy,3 cock pics and you carnt accommodate... That will limit your search down straight away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, too many cock pics. Try a better variety of pics, bum, torso, suited etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great thanks i will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi there,

I have been here awhile and find it really hard to get people to look at my profile and then if they do they move on. I was wondering how i could get people interested in chatting to me.

Thanks for your help"

Try actually saying something about yourself. Use a spelling and grammar checker. As the poster above said, take some decent pictures. At the moment, it is instantly forgettable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your help

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Updated some images and text please let me know your thoughts

Thanks

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Updated some images and text please let me know your thoughts

Thanks"

if that is the update on your profile text... no offence, i hate to see what version 1 was like.........

but if you think 3 whole lines reflects and sells you to your best ability.... do not change a single thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Fabio said.

Three sentences is not an epic effort.

Presumably, you have a personality. None of it comes through.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers, i am not great at writing these types of things. Will have to sit down and write something out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hairy,3 cock pics and you carnt accommodate... That will limit your search down straight away."

How come you can accomodate now?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Things have changed since i joined. I did not change it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile says what every other rubbish profile says. Its like you all copy and paste generic sayings......"Hi thanks for reading" "naughty guy looking for no strings fun" "want to know more, message me" etc. Who'd want to know more, there's nothing there to intrigue someone enough to find out. There's no profile if you take away these useless lines. Sorry op!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profile says what every other rubbish profile says. Its like you all copy and paste generic sayings......"Hi thanks for reading" "naughty guy looking for no strings fun" "want to know more, message me" etc. Who'd want to know more, there's nothing there to intrigue someone enough to find out. There's no profile if you take away these useless lines. Sorry op! "
Not every profile mentions haribos in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it in yours? Well that's your USP lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it in yours? Well that's your USP lmao

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YEs it does and as well mentions that the cola bottles are my favs lol, whats USP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should I add haribos to my profile Shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should I add haribos to my profile Shag?"
Yes I think you should, give it a try some for some time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Epic profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should I add haribos to my profile Shag?Yes I think you should, give it a try some for some time

Good advice

*empties inbox in preparation for the influx of messages*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it in yours? Well that's your USP lmao

YEs it does and as well mentions that the cola bottles are my favs lol, whats USP?

USP is unique selling point. I love haribos too, I like the ones with the white foam on the bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shag! You genius! Your secret weapon works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it in yours? Well that's your USP lmao

YEs it does and as well mentions that the cola bottles are my favs lol, whats USP?

USP is unique selling point. I love haribos too, I like the ones with the white foam on the bottom

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Ah yes, now I get it, and that's right as you will have something in common, I like the foamy ones as well mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should I add haribos to my profile Shag?Yes I think you should, give it a try some for some time

Good advice

*empties inbox in preparation for the influx of messages*

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Yes yw, you will get replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shag! You genius! Your secret weapon works

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lol ty and its a trick I got there, always have a haribo bag laying around in the flat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we get a mod to delete our comments to keep the secret safe????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shag! You genius! Your secret weapon works

Your profile is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we get a mod to delete our comments to keep the secret safe????"
Yes good idea there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shag! You genius! Your secret weapon works

Your profile is amazing

xx"

Result!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feed my haribos as I lie on the bed in between sips of wine and ill say anything

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

saying something original might help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proffesional what??? We've never understood the term "professional" on profiles

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By *rSwaggerMan
over a year ago

Northants

"Hairy,3 cock pics and you carnt accommodate... That will limit your search down straight away."

Can understand about the photos and you and others have advised him otherwise but what has him being hairy got to do with anything.. isn't that your personal preference coming into it.

He cant help what he is as a whole person like oh sorry didn't mean to be to hairy I will wax it.. Pictures can be changed but body structure and what your built as is not something your doing wrong but a natural occurrence.

TO OP... Keep the hair so many woman are all for it these days you will make someone happy somewhere.. And don't take comments to personal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks, for comments. Driveshaft thanks i am not going to change the hair, its me but i will be looking to rewrite my p

e soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks, for comments. Driveshaft thanks i am not going to change the hair, its me but i will be looking to rewrite my p

e soon"

Still no changes, then? Go on, igonore all the advice freely given.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Thanks, for comments. Driveshaft thanks i am not going to change the hair, its me but i will be looking to rewrite my p

e soon

Still no changes, then? Go on, igonore all the advice freely given."

I think it may well have been attention rather than advice he was after given that so little has changed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you can please everyone with your profile. Take mine. It was too short, so I expanded it and included answers to all the regular questions I was getting.

Now I'd told it's far too long.

Maybe I'll crack it on version 3

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Lots of the guys I have met tell me they had problems meeting when first joined site but after their first meet/very it gets easier; others here and elsewhere advise going to socials so it's not all about your profile. I feel so sorry for you (honest)and wish you all the best; personally I luuuuv the hairiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of the guys I have met tell me they had problems meeting when first joined site but after their first meet/very it gets easier; others here and elsewhere advise going to socials so it's not all about your profile. I feel so sorry for you (honest)and wish you all the best; personally I luuuuv the hairiness."

I'm getting that. I've had a few people, both ladies and couples say I'm/We're not interested in meeting until you are verified with a meet. Yet how to I get a verification if they will not meet? Chicken and Egg. One-day it'll happen though lol

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"I don't think you can please everyone with your profile. Take mine. It was too short, so I expanded it and included answers to all the regular questions I was getting.

Now I'd told it's far too long.

Maybe I'll crack it on version 3

Well it's not just the length of the profile, it's the quality of its contents, and the extent to which you display an engaging personality and what you have to offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly that...no verification, no meet. To get verified you need to meet..FFS!!

As regards cock pics, most couples want a cock pic when you msg them...

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Exactly that...no verification, no meet. To get verified you need to meet..FFS!!

As regards cock pics, most couples want a cock pic when you msg them...

You can always get verified at a social which breaks that vicious circle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cannot accommodate has never stopped me if I am interested. More pics, cock, straight on frontal, wearing low rider pants or unzipped pants with cock hanging out. Broaden your age range to 99. You can always not respond or say no. Send winks, fab photos and send messages. Tell a woman how hot you think she is and what you like without getting vulgar. Hope this helps. If I was on your side of the pond I would definitely meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could probably get verified at a social..

But that may not be what I want to do.

On the accomodation thing, it seems very few can accomodate...

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

your revised profile is dull and uninspiring ..no wonder u dont get anywhere

exactly the same as 100s of other shit profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cannot accommodate has never stopped me if I am interested. More pics, cock, straight on frontal, wearing low rider pants or unzipped pants with cock hanging out. Broaden your age range to 99. You can always not respond or say no. Send winks, fab photos and send messages. Tell a woman how hot you think she is and what you like without getting vulgar. Hope this helps. If I was on your side of the pond I would definitely meet you.

I've just changed my age range to 99.

Cone at me seniors!!

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

i agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, for your comments and views. No i was asking for help regarding my profile. Writing has never been my strong point. I have been busy and not updated it. I will do soon. Thanks for the kind words from some of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Updated text. Its ok, but then i am not a writer would be rather doing stuff than writing about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Updated text. Its ok, but then i am not a writer would be rather doing stuff than writing about it"

"Tell more about me," just is not going to work. Neither is, "I'm a lover not a writer."

You asked for advice on your profile, of which a major part is the text. You received more advice than anyone can expect. You ignored it all ... Again. Go figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't imagine a single person reading that and feeling intrigued enough to message to find out more. I think "hi" or "fill in later" will work just as well if you are trying to keep people from messaging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you girls and boys think about my profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you girls and boys think about my profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So good you posted it twice

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"What do you girls and boys think about my profile ?"
21 too many cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you girls and boys think about my profile ?"

Ah, I see you have a cock, who'd have guessed?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't even read it, the pics were enough to turn me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you girls and boys think about my profile ?"

Start your own thread man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Updated. Bet there are things to improve?

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By *eshzMan
over a year ago

0151

Hi Mark,

Good evening, hope you don't mind if I shared with some of my view points.

1) Every guy in here with a dick is horny... scrap that... write it in a more refine way.

2) You are more then just a sex machine walking around... like some posters above have wrote... you surely are an interesting person to be with... describe yourself... like what kind of person that you are

3) Just see yourself as a product that you are trying to market out...what benefit will a couple or a female get from choosing you from the rest... what makes you unique... like I said everyone says they are horny... nothing wrong in mentioning that... but doesn't differentiate you from the crowd

4) Try also including pictures of you in clothing... you'd be surprised how many woman actually like to use their imagination rather then seeing cock pics and naked man straight away...

These are just my feedback... if you feel my input is a waste, just neglect them... but hopefully they will be of some use to you. All the best bud.

Resh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for that, i will have a rethink when i get some time.

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

Echo what has already been said, but I didn't see the original profile. All being said, you could have an amazing profile but without an avatar photo alot of people won't even look at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Echo what has already been said, but I didn't see the original profile. All being said, you could have an amazing profile but without an avatar photo alot of people won't even look at it. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone having a bit more luck, could someone verify me on skype please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone having a bit more luck, could someone verify me on skype please x"

why Skype? just go into the chat room and ask to be verified, simples!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I use my mobile and i cant get my cam to work in there so skype if the easiest way

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