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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

I've asked my girl friend if she would going in to swinging as a joke and she said no. She is a naughty and horny girl and very loyal... I was wondering if I should maybe try bring it up again but how? Has any one else been in this situation and what did you do?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

If she said no and was serious, you should respect her decision

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"If she said no and was serious, you should respect her decision "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing she doesn't know you have a profile on here ?

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By *ifeRockChickWoman
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I notice you've not mentioned your gf on your profile

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Have you done one of these posts on every forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you done one of these posts on every forum? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I've asked my girl friend if she would going in to swinging as a joke and she said no. She is a naughty and horny girl and very loyal... I was wondering if I should maybe try bring it up again but how? Has any one else been in this situation and what did you do?"

Yep me..Ted was into swinging but I'd never thought of it..ever!. Didn't tell me he was into it until a few months down the line..I was 'omg seriously?' at first but after I'd thought about it for a few days I said maybe we should goto a club so I can see what it's all about. I always thought it was seedy and throw your keys in an ashtray type thing lol. I was absolutely petrified the first time I went..hated it, didn't do anything apart from people watching behind my glass lol. I did go again because I wanted to know if it was fear that made me feel the way I did or if it really wasn't my thing..liked it the next time, so I realised it was just the unknown that I hated. I still wouldn't call myself a true swinger..I'm gradually climbing higher up the ladder but I'm doing it in my own time, in my own comfort zone. Maybe you could suggest going to a club with your girlfriend..that way you could just go in a room on your own and play together..then she may want to go a little further each time..but don't push her into anything that she's not comfortable with doing..and don't keep badgering her about it. Darcy x

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