FabSwingers.com forum: how to get girlfriend to join in

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

how do i get my girlfriend to join in would love to see her getting fucked

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Do you want to make an event of this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her you are on fab swingers and say I want to see you fucked... job's a goodun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would love to she is hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to her instead if asking a bunch of strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her your profile

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

You can't get someone to join in unless they want to.

have you discussed any of this with her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk about it while having sex....follow it up with rational conversation after...

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"You can't get someone to join in unless they want to.

have you discussed any of this with her? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes i have but she is only willing to do it with women

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Here's a crazy idea respect her wishes. Or maybe let her watch you being fucked by a man first.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"Here's a crazy idea respect her wishes. Or maybe let her watch you being fucked by a man first.

Double thumbs up.

also remember that some people talk about things when they are all warmed up that have no interest for them after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes i have but she is only willing to do it with women"

There is your answer

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"yes i have but she is only willing to do it with women"

in which case may i suggest that you lisen to her.... otherwise you may well truely end up being a single "Single" man.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

put up flyers, sell tickets and tell her you will take her on the trip of her lifetime with the profits - or see of she would even consider it first - whichever you think might leave you with a gf

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Try playing rodeo sex...that is, ask her while you're having sex and see how long you stay on...should give you a good indication of the possibilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's a crazy idea respect her wishes. Or maybe let her watch you being fucked by a man first.

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By *lutmeup500Woman
over a year ago

London

you can't really force her...

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

" how do i get my girlfriend to join in would love to see her getting fucked

Simple answer - you don't. If it doesn't come naturally to her forget it. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" how do i get my girlfriend to join in would love to see her getting fucked

Shag her next to a full length mirror!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Tell her you are on fab swingers and say I want to see you fucked... job's a goodun "

he might be fucked if he tells her he is on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's a crazy idea respect her wishes. Or maybe let her watch you being fucked by a man first.

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask her

my bf asked me and i said yeah.

simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's a crazy idea respect her wishes. Or maybe let her watch you being fucked by a man first.

This!

It worked for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's some very harsh answers on here, or that's how it comes across. The guy is just asking for a bit of advice. I guess he didn't expect the spanish inquisition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell her you are on fab swingers and say I want to see you fucked... job's a goodun

he might be fucked if he tells her he is on fab"

He might be fucked when he changes profile to couple an she works out the dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's some very harsh answers on here, or that's how it comes across. The guy is just asking for a bit of advice. I guess he didn't expect the spanish inquisition. "
lol welcome the fabswingers forum its full of people that have nothing nice or constructive to say.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I don't see harshness. I see some humour and some advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's some very harsh answers on here, or that's how it comes across. The guy is just asking for a bit of advice. I guess he didn't expect the spanish inquisition. "

Nobody Expects the Spanish inquisition. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see harshness. I see some humour and some advice. "
A guess we all see thing different *shrugs*

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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago

portrush

"ask her

my bf asked me and i said yeah.

simples"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hoped someone would say " Nobody expects the spanish inquisition "

Break out the comfy chair and the soft cushions.

Am I showing my age here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a bit scary asking your mrs if she fancies a threesome. My Ex wife went a bit apeshit on me and called me a filthy, pervert. A bit harsh I thought at the time. it's why we're not together any more.

Luckily Mrs N took it a bit more sympathetically and said. mmmmmm let's have some of that. life's too short and monogomy hasn't worked for me.

Phew !!!!!. hope you get a similar reaction.

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By *urious fem ddWoman
over a year ago

dublin

"I hoped someone would say " Nobody expects the spanish inquisition "

Break out the comfy chair and the soft cushions.

Am I showing my age here

Lol... u thought the very same....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell her you are on fab swingers and say I want to see you fucked... job's a goodun "

So simple that it could possibly, maybe work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hoped someone would say " Nobody expects the spanish inquisition "

Break out the comfy chair and the soft cushions.

Am I showing my age here

Maybe you are, but by god thank you for reminding me of that line

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By *eaningofLifeCouple
over a year ago

York

"Talk to her instead if asking a bunch of strangers. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take her wishes seriously.. if she only wants to sleep with other women do that! You never know where that may lead and in time through her own choice she may progress (if thats the right way to put it) to men too but whatever you do let it be her choice not yours.

My opinion only. (Male half)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's some very harsh answers on here, or that's how it comes across. The guy is just asking for a bit of advice. I guess he didn't expect the spanish inquisition. lol welcome the fabswingers forum its full of people that have nothing nice or constructive to say.

bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's some very harsh answers on here, or that's how it comes across. The guy is just asking for a bit of advice. I guess he didn't expect the spanish inquisition. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bollocks"

I dont think it's bollocks..people can come across as bitchy and preaching on these forums

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

I would enjoy watching it too and asking to take part. I also like watching cpls getting intimate close up.

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

Nice curvey body, adventureous and likes lingerie?

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

If I met a girl I wouldnt tell her anything about swinging. I would probably stop having anyting to do with it. Certainly would not ask her to join me. Probably would lose her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bollocks

I dont think it's bollocks..people can come across as bitchy and preaching on these forums"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bollocks

I dont think it's bollocks..people can come across as bitchy and preaching on these forums

i dont disagree a all t- its just not full of them - there are a lot of people that are funny friendly and helpful

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By *orfun8181Man
over a year ago

Bedford

As she is open to the idear of a women joining you guys you are on the right path go with it and see what happens, most people change and grow sexuly once thay enter this lifestyle. 6months down the road she may have her own profile on here as single "looking for gangbangs" lol. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bollocks

I dont think it's bollocks..people can come across as bitchy and preaching on these forums

i dont disagree a all t- its just not full of them - there are a lot of people that are funny friendly and helpful "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's some very harsh answers on here, or that's how it comes across. The guy is just asking for a bit of advice. I guess he didn't expect the spanish inquisition. "

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" how do i get my girlfriend to join in would love to see her getting fucked

Cable ties, Gaffa tape??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks for all the advice some of it is very harsh i spoke to her last night

and she says she has a fantasy to be with a woman so that's a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hoped someone would say " Nobody expects the spanish inquisition "

Break out the comfy chair and the soft cushions.

Am I showing my age here

Maybe you are, but by god thank you for reminding me of that line

Sorry all you guys, it just had to be said after it had been mentioned.

I can't take any of the credit for it......just put it down to watching to many python films I guess (I must get out more)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talk about it while having sex....follow it up with rational conversation after..."

Pillow talk worked for us , lots of it x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"It is a bit scary asking your mrs if she fancies a threesome. My Ex wife went a bit apeshit on me and called me a filthy, pervert. A bit harsh I thought at the time. it's why we're not together any more.

Luckily Mrs N took it a bit more sympathetically and said. mmmmmm let's have some of that. life's too short and monogomy hasn't worked for me.

Phew !!!!!. hope you get a similar reaction."

the problem is only he knows his girlfriend and whether the result is going to be option 1.... or option 2

if she has said she only wants women... then at this point why try to push and push and push.....

if all of this pushing is worth the risk and the result of possibly going from have 1 girlfriend to having 0 girlfriend... I don't that says a whole lot about the state of the relationship....

I know that if I was pushed and pushed and pushed into doing something I didn't want to do... I would tell them exactly where they can go....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily Mrs N took it a bit more sympathetically and said. mmmmmm let's have some of that. life's too short and monogomy hasn't worked for me.

Phew !!!!!. hope you get a similar reaction.

the problem is only he knows his girlfriend and whether the result is going to be option 1.... or option 2

if she has said she only wants women... then at this point why try to push and push and push.....

if all of this pushing is worth the risk and the result of possibly going from have 1 girlfriend to having 0 girlfriend... I don't that says a whole lot about the state of the relationship....

I know that if I was pushed and pushed and pushed into doing something I didn't want to do... I would tell them exactly where they can go.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try playing rodeo sex...that is, ask her while you're having sex and see how long you stay on...should give you a good indication of the possibilities

Hahahaaa...brings back so many fond memories...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like the story about the guy who met his wife on 'swinging heaven'

She was looking for a man, he was looking for someone with a pulse, they then swapped pics and realised they were already married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"put up flyers, sell tickets and tell her you will take her on the trip of her lifetime with the profits - or see of she would even consider it first - whichever you think might leave you with a gf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily Mrs N took it a bit more sympathetically and said. mmmmmm let's have some of that. life's too short and monogomy hasn't worked for me.

Phew !!!!!. hope you get a similar reaction.

the problem is only he knows his girlfriend and whether the result is going to be option 1.... or option 2

if she has said she only wants women... then at this point why try to push and push and push.....

if all of this pushing is worth the risk and the result of possibly going from have 1 girlfriend to having 0 girlfriend... I don't that says a whole lot about the state of the relationship....

I know that if I was pushed and pushed and pushed into doing something I didn't want to do... I would tell them exactly where they can go.... "

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

how's about this for a idea , let her have her own secret fab swingers account . So she can go fuck guys on the quite ,then let her bring up the subject over dinner and then you can go crazy and ask her what the fuck she is doing on this site while she as a partner ,and why would she want to fuck other guys behind your back

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

It is scary but it's the honest thing to do. When my wife asked me how I would feel if she had a male lover she was really worried how I would react. In fact my reaction was a stiff cock!

Some months later after several hot MMF threesomes I brought up the subject of me seeing other women and we talked about how we could do that and keep everyone feeling comfortable and secure.

You know what? It worked. 11 years on we still love each other, have a great sex life within the marriage and also see other people and go to clubs.

if you don't ask, you don't get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start by visiting naturist beaches when on holiday and they see where the naked conversations lead.

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