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"You have a verification dated today...." I met that lady about a year ago. Lol | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok "Done Al those things and the body is slowly improving. Thanks for you advice, albeit slightly personal, presumptuous and mildly offensive! | |||
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"You have a verification dated today.... I met that lady about a year ago. Lol" Slow at typing?  | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Done Al those things and the body is slowly improving. Thanks for you advice, albeit slightly personal, presumptuous and mildly offensive! "If your offended then why ask for advice, all he did was give you what you asked for and I would tend to agree with him, it might 'up your chances' | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Done Al those things and the body is slowly improving. Thanks for you advice, albeit slightly personal, presumptuous and mildly offensive!
If your offended then why ask for advice, all he did was give you what you asked for and I would tend to agree with him, it might 'up your chances'"I said mildly offensive and it'll take more than that to properly offend me. I'm far from the fattest man on the site! My body isn't that bad. Lol. I appreciate that a lot of woman seem to like a man that can grate cheese on his abs, but surely not every woman is into that?! | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Done Al those things and the body is slowly improving. Thanks for you advice, albeit slightly personal, presumptuous and mildly offensive!
If your offended then why ask for advice, all he did was give you what
you asked for and I would tend to agree
with him, it might 'up your chances'
I said mildly offensive and it'll take more
than that to properly offend me. I'm far
from the fattest man on the site! My
body isn't that bad. Lol. I appreciate that
a lot of woman seem to like a man that
can grate cheese on his abs, but surely
not every woman is into that?!"Hope not cos I'm not ripped.  | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok "Are you doing that too then?? | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Done Al those things and the body is slowly improving. Thanks for you advice, albeit slightly personal, presumptuous and mildly offensive!
If your offended then why ask for advice, all he did was give you what you asked for and I would tend to agree with him, it might 'up your chances'"And the offensive bit was be asked of his assumptions on kfc, laziness and eating after 10pm. I work very hard at the gym, follow a decent diet and haven't been near kfc in years! Perhaps a rewording of his "advice" might get his point across better. | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Done Al those things and the body is slowly improving. Thanks for you advice, albeit slightly personal, presumptuous and mildly offensive!
If your offended then why ask for advice, all he did was give you what you asked for and I would tend to agree with him, it might 'up your chances'
I said mildly offensive and it'll take more than that to properly offend me. I'm far from the fattest man on the site! My body isn't that bad. Lol. I appreciate that a lot of woman seem to like a man that can grate cheese on his abs, but surely not every woman is into that?!"No you are right that was pretty rude! He's hardly van damme... | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Done Al those things and the body is slowly improving. Thanks for you advice, albeit slightly personal, presumptuous and mildly offensive!
If your offended then why ask for advice, all he did was give you what you asked for and I would tend to agree with him, it might 'up your chances'
I said mildly offensive and it'll take more than that to properly offend me. I'm far from the fattest man on the site! My body isn't that bad. Lol. I appreciate that a lot of woman seem to like a man that can grate cheese on his abs, but surely not every woman is into that?!"Its the male responding to you not the female. No one said you were the fattest but I think there is no point offering advice, good luck. | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Are you doing that too then?? "Hahaha. Nope. A stone lost in the last month or so and the next stone will be gone soon too. Trust me, I'm determined to get a decent body. | |||
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"Hi, can anyone offer any advice please? I'm not terrible looking (I think). I'm not bad at sex (apparently). I'm a site sponsor and verified. Despite all this, I get next to no meets, it's been maybe 6 or 8 months since I've met anyone from here. Does anyone have any suggestions please? I'm completely genuine and please don't think I'm just another whinger, as I'm not. I'd just like to up my chances a bit. Thanks for any advice. " Socials are a great way to meet people especially since you are looking to establish something regular. Keep an eye on the meets section. Good luck. | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Done Al those things and the body is slowly improving. Thanks for you advice, albeit slightly personal, presumptuous and mildly offensive!
If your offended then why ask for advice, all he did was give you what you asked for and I would tend to agree with him, it might 'up your chances'
I said mildly offensive and it'll take more than that to properly offend me. I'm far from the fattest man on the site! My body isn't that bad. Lol. I appreciate that a lot of woman seem to like a man that can grate cheese on his abs, but surely not every woman is into that?!
Its the male responding to you not the female. No one said you were the fattest but I think there is no point offering advice, good luck."Please don't think I'm overly sensitive. I know I'm not everyone's type. If you have anything constructive to offer then please do,i would honestly value it. | |||
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"Hi, can anyone offer any advice please? I'm not terrible looking (I think). I'm not bad at sex (apparently). I'm a site sponsor and verified. Despite all this, I get next to no meets, it's been maybe 6 or 8 months since I've met anyone from here. Does anyone have any suggestions please? I'm completely genuine and please don't think I'm just another whinger, as I'm not. I'd just like to up my chances a bit. Thanks for any advice. Socials are a great way to meet people especially since you are looking to establish something regular. Keep an eye on the meets section. Good luck. " Thank you. | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Are you doing that too then??
Hahaha. Nope. A stone lost in the last month or so and the next stone will be gone soon too. Trust me, I'm determined to get a decent body. "Sorry my reply there wasn't aimed at you it was aimed at the 'hunk'  who commented... | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Done Al those things and the body is slowly improving. Thanks for you advice, albeit slightly personal, presumptuous and mildly offensive!
If your offended then why ask for advice, all he did was give you what you asked for and I would tend to agree with him, it might 'up your chances'
I said mildly offensive and it'll take more than that to properly offend me. I'm far from the fattest man on the site! My body isn't that bad. Lol. I appreciate that a lot of woman seem to like a man that can grate cheese on his abs, but surely not every woman is into that?!"No they aren't although lots of men assume they are. | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Are you doing that too then??
Hahaha. Nope. A stone lost in the last month or so and the next stone will be gone soon too. Trust me, I'm determined to get a decent body.
Sorry my reply there wasn't aimed at you it was aimed at the 'hunk' who commented... "Don't worry I got that... Lol. Thanks for replying.  | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Done Al those things and the body is slowly improving. Thanks for you advice, albeit slightly personal, presumptuous and mildly offensive!
If your offended then why ask for advice, all he did was give you what you asked for and I would tend to agree with him, it might 'up your chances'
I said mildly offensive and it'll take more than that to properly offend me. I'm far from the fattest man on the site! My body isn't that bad. Lol. I appreciate that a lot of woman seem to like a man that can grate cheese on his abs, but surely not every woman is into that?!
No they aren't although lots of men assume they are.
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Done Al those things and the body is slowly improving. Thanks for you advice, albeit slightly personal, presumptuous and mildly offensive!
If your offended then why ask for advice, all he did was give you what you asked for and I would tend to agree with him, it might 'up your chances'
I said mildly offensive and it'll take more than that to properly offend me. I'm far from the fattest man on the site! My body isn't that bad. Lol. I appreciate that a lot of woman seem to like a man that can grate cheese on his abs, but surely not every woman is into that?!
No they aren't although lots of men assume they are.
But it wouldn't hurt it I lost a few more pounds though...! Lol. "Probably not but do it for yourself not to get meets on here. | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Done Al those things and the body is slowly improving. Thanks for you advice, albeit slightly personal, presumptuous and mildly offensive! "I don't think poster was being presumptuous, came across as tongue in cheek to me. He's obviously hit a raw nerve though. For the record I wouldn't describe you as fat | |||
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"OP: how many meets were you expecting? Some guys go a long time with no meets at all. There's a thread from a guy who says he hasn't had sex for 10 years! "10 years.....! Blimey. Honest expectations, maybe once every month or so. If I managed to find a regular playmate then that would be different. Is that unrealistic? | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Done Al those things and the body is slowly improving. Thanks for you advice, albeit slightly personal, presumptuous and mildly offensive!
I don't think poster was being presumptuous, came across as tongue in cheek to me.
He's obviously hit a raw nerve though.
For the record I wouldn't describe you as fat"Thank you,means a lot. Yes he did a nerve to be honest and I'm killing myself at the gym 4 or 5 times a week. To hear someone tell you to lay off the KFC is hard to put up with! It was badly worded by him, that's all. Apologies if I've over reacted. | |||
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"OP: how many meets were you expecting? Some guys go a long time with no meets at all. There's a thread from a guy who says he hasn't had sex for 10 years!
10 years.....! Blimey. Honest expectations, maybe once every month or so. If I managed to find a regular playmate then that would be different. Is
that unrealistic? "Nope. Mine are every month on average. | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Done Al those things and the body is slowly improving. Thanks for you advice, albeit slightly personal, presumptuous and mildly offensive!
I don't think poster was being presumptuous, came across as tongue in cheek to me.
He's obviously hit a raw nerve though.
For the record I wouldn't describe you as fat
Thank you,means a lot. Yes he did a nerve to be honest and I'm killing myself at the gym 4 or 5 times a week. To hear someone tell you to lay off the KFC is hard to put up with! It was badly worded by him, that's all. Apologies if I've over reacted. "Apologies aren't required, I just think some people need to take a deep breath, re-read a few times before commenting, I don't think he was attacking you personally, and equally attacks on him uncalled for. Yes I agree in hindsight his wording could have been better also, just think some people quick to go in all guns blazing | |||
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"OP: how many meets were you expecting? Some guys go a long time with no meets at all. There's a thread from a guy who says he hasn't had sex for 10 years!
10 years.....! Blimey. Honest expectations, maybe once every month or so. If I managed to find a regular playmate then that would be different. Is
that unrealistic?
Nope. Mine are every month on average. "When we having the midland coffee meet steve lol | |||
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"OP: how many meets were you expecting? Some guys go a long time with no meets at all. There's a thread from a guy who says he hasn't had sex for 10 years!
10 years.....! Blimey. Honest expectations, maybe once every month or so. If I managed to find a regular playmate then that would be different. Is
that unrealistic?
Nope. Mine are every month on
average.
When we having the midland coffee
meet steve lol"I don't know you! but I bet you have lovely eyes  | |||
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"You know I have lovely eyes" I know. Maybe the OP can get himself up north to your party  | |||
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"I'd love to. Invite hasn't been extended my way though..! Lol" Ah....there you go then. If you're willing to travel, have a year long adventure to go to all the adult clubs listed in the club section. | |||
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"I'd love to. Invite hasn't been extended my way though..! Lol" Maybe because the single male allocation is currently full, as stated on profile text next to party listing lol | |||
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"I'd love to. Invite hasn't been extended my way though..! Lol Maybe because the single male allocation is currently full, as stated on profile text next to party listing lol" Yep, that'll probably be why! Lol | |||
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"Honestly, not every lady is obsessed with a gym perfect male body. I am most definitely not... but nor would I be interested in your profile, so it would be a no to meeting. 2/3 of your pictures are your cock. To have so limited an amount of pictures and to choose 2 of your cock to me signifies what you think the site is about. The line about not messing people about - always reassuring - do you think people will believe a single word of it? Its like saying "I'm not a time waster"... means naff all. You have had 3 meets over 5 months... thats above average for some guys on here." OK thanks for your input. The meets were literally years ago in some cases. I don't think I've met anyone in 8 months or more. I will take on board your advise about the pics and take some more tomorrow. Thank you. | |||
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"Lol we not had a play meet sines end September last year as keep getting let down lol so your not alone op " Insane isn't it!? Lol | |||
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" OK thanks for your input. The meets were literally years ago in some cases. I don't think I've met anyone in 8 months or more. I will take on board your advise about the pics and take some more tomorrow. Thank you. " Yet your account says joined 5 months ago...? | |||
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" OK thanks for your input. The meets were literally years ago in some cases. I don't think I've met anyone in 8 months or more. I will take on board your advise about the pics and take some more tomorrow. Thank you. Yet your account says joined 5 months ago...?" I had a previous profile | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Done Al those things and the body is slowly improving. Thanks for you advice, albeit slightly personal, presumptuous and mildly offensive!
If your offended then why ask for advice, all he did was give you what you asked for and I would tend to agree with him, it might 'up your chances'
I said mildly offensive and it'll take more than that to properly offend me. I'm far from the fattest man on the site! My body isn't that bad. Lol. I appreciate that a lot of woman seem to like a man that can grate cheese on his abs, but surely not every woman is into that?!"Nope. Broad shoulders, arms, chest and bum is what I look out on a menu, rather than a sculptured 'cheese grater'. | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Done Al those things and the body is slowly improving. Thanks for you advice, albeit slightly personal, presumptuous and mildly offensive!
If your offended then why ask for advice, all he did was give you what you asked for and I would tend to agree with him, it might 'up your chances'
I said mildly offensive and it'll take more than that to properly offend me. I'm far from the fattest man on the site! My body isn't that bad. Lol. I appreciate that a lot of woman seem to like a man that can grate cheese on his abs, but surely not every woman is into that?!
Nope. Broad shoulders, arms, chest and bum is what I look out on a menu, rather than a sculptured 'cheese grater'. "Nice. Will I do? Lol | |||
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"It may be the short notice line in your profile most couples and singles need to plan around there busy lives " OK. Thanks. I'll edit that | |||
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"Have you tried the new club I've seen advertised near you?" Can't say I have. Will look it up. Thanks. | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok "My body was sculpted with Popcorn chicken and zinger burgers. | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Are you doing that too then??
Hahaha. Nope. A stone lost in the last month or so and the next stone will be gone soon too. Trust me, I'm determined to get a decent body. "Congratulations mate keep up the good work and the positive attitude you clearly have. I would say keep doing what your doing and you will reap your rewards. You could try going to one of the many socials that get organized also to get your face known. The best of luck mate. | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
Are you doing that too then??
Hahaha. Nope. A stone lost in the last month or so and the next stone will be gone soon too. Trust me, I'm determined to get a decent body.
Congratulations mate keep up the good work and the positive attitude you clearly have. I would say keep doing what your doing and you will reap your rewards. You could try going to one of the many socials that get organized also to get your face known. The best of luck mate. "Thanks mate. I appreciate your words and advice. | |||
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"Get rid of the pictures of your cock which is clearly in the car. That just screams of 'I can't do this at home in case my wife finds out'." OK thank you. | |||
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"Get rid of the pictures of your cock which is clearly in the car. That just screams of 'I can't do this at home in case my wife finds out'. OK thank you. " Just as well - two of your verifications say you're into outdoor fun. Lots of married guys are into outdoor fun, because they can't have indoor fun. Since you say in your profile that you're into 'normal' sex, these two things seem to be a little at odds. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it, but I'd certainly wonder a bit. | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok "First of all, I advise you to ignore this comment from "hunky" man who isn't so hunky... Secondly, you are already ahead since you have verifications (even if they are old, they help). So use that to your advantage. Lastly, I think as some people have already mentioned, that you would enjoy a club and have a positive experience there. Try this one first and well done on losing a stone! You must be working really hard. | |||
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"Get to the gym...cut the beer out...dont eat after 10pm..eat salad and not kfc.. Then u will be ok
First of all, I advise you to ignore this comment from "hunky" man who isn't so hunky...
Secondly, you are already ahead since you have verifications (even if they are old, they help). So use that to your advantage.
Lastly, I think as some people have already mentioned, that you would enjoy a club and have a positive experience there. Try this one first and well done on losing a stone! You must be working really hard."Thank you. I am looking into local clubs and am also considering visiting Paradise spa in Bournemouth. | |||
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