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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just out off interest how do u get started into it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join a fetish site, go to bdsm clubs, workshops, munches etc

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Find a partner with the same wants and needs and experiment together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always been there, just developed over the years!

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

It's not all it's whipped up to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I like to be tied down to a long term commitment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll need a provisional license at least before starting your lessons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

watch 50 Shades 3 times this week and ill get bck to you ok?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got whipped once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just out off interest how do u get started into it ? "

Join a BDSM site, go to a fetish club.

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Done both !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell you, but I'm a bit tied up at the moment....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Research your local munch and what bdsm nights are in your area.

We go to the fet nights at Townhouse and have met some great people over the past couple of years, people usually happy to chat with people new to the scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manchester has quite a bit on in that respect.

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

stick to vanilla leave it those eith s bit more imagination and nouse

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

I would definitely start off by going to a munch...not necessarily a club. A club can be a huge step if you haven't dabbled in fetish at all!

If you go to your local munch (the name given for a local social gathering of likeminded fetishists) then you can chat to people, get to know what it's all about and meet friends who may go to organised events. Then when you do want to go to an event, you can go with people that you know and you are less likely to feel overwhelmed. There are also a few 'play munches' out there where socialising and mild BDSM activity are combined. There is a very well known BDSM/Fetish website out there which I am not allowed to give you here, but if you type in Fetish Website into your browser, they usually come up top. Join this and spend a few days finding your feet. Then join groups that are local to you and figure out where your local munches are. You have loads around your area!

Good luck ! xx

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