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Club for first time - Help please!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My partner and I, a couple we've met on here and some couples they know are all going to a club for the first time in a couple of weeks.

I am nervous but excited, but my main worry is what to wear? I have been browsing lots of sexy lingerie but i'm unsure what to go for....what do most ladies wear in clubs underwear wise? Seen some beautiful corsets but they're not very good for easy access are they?

And at what point are we expected to change into underwear? I just want to fit in! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The answers to your questions depend on which club you are going to as different clubs have different dress codes. Which club is it ?

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By *ytraCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

As JedandSasha said all clubs have different dress codes, take a peek at the clubs website and it should tell you what the dress code is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Infusion in Blackpool x

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By *ytraCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

This is a sample from their website..

Q: What is the dress code?

A: The dress is smart casual or dress to impress. We do not allow scruffy clothing, trainers, or sportswear. As the night progresses most women change into something more sexy while gentlemen wear a towel or their favourite underwear. However, there is no hard fast rule other then wear whatever you feel comfortable in. We ask that in the playroom(s) area that you dress down accordingly as it is only polite while watching or interacting i.e. underwear etc, since it is very off putting for others who are undressed.

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By *eviousLiasonsCouple
over a year ago

Travelling

First time clubbing....

1) get a feel for the balance of the club

2) dont grip too tightly, it will make your hand ache

3) dont over reach

4) aim for the base of the skull

5) a medium tap will be as effective as a full power blow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look on the website and find out if they have lockers which im sure they would have and take a couple of outfits with you ,atleast that way you can check out what evryone is wearing when you get there and and choose an outfit that you feel comfortable in

have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sodding internet on phones, have already typed this and deleted by mistake. Most clubs allow sexy lingerie. Part of the swinging experience for me is dress up. I love corsets so usually am laced into a tight one and wear a ballerina tutu, or i wear a peep hole bra babydoll or tís week i wore a leather kilt with knee hi schoolgirl socks, whatever your fantasy is then wear it. I dont care what others are wearing, if im happy then i feel confident. My partner and i have a rule whereby ill wear my finery for the first half of the night, then change into a towel and go into jacuzzi which we both love

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

I usually start off in lingerie but end up nude as the evening goes on. If I haven't been undressed or have taken it off myself, it comes off when we go to the jacuzzi and i don't bother to put it back on after.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies

Think I will take a couple of outfits then I can change if I feel the need to. From what you all say seems like anything goes. I've got my eye on a gorgeous purple babydoll, might treat myself! xx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

It's usually really hot at Infusions - I tend to take a couple of skimpy outfits with me - you'll have a great time there, really good friendly place. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a club virgin who popped his cherry 2weeks ago & again last Saturday, is it me or do most of the blokes always wrap a towel round themselves so it goes from waist to ankles?

If the girls reveal loads surely us guys need to fold the towel & make it smaller hehehe

Sorry that was me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I noticed that too lol!

And I made sure that mine was folded to half thigh length as I fancied looking more like a gladiator than some bloke in a sarong....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well didnt want to admit it but I to am Sparticus!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol thanks again guys, i've heard its really hot in the club but pool is freezing, think I'll just stick to hot tub! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the replies

Think I will take a couple of outfits then I can change if I feel the need to. From what you all say seems like anything goes. I've got my eye on a gorgeous purple babydoll, might treat myself! xx"

If youve got your eye on that outfit then you know youd feel a million dollars in it and thats the most important thing, go for it, knock em dead and have a lovely night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18646 Would this be suitable? xx

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine


"

I am nervous but excited, but my main worry is what to wear? "
ust a smile......honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I just go commando from the jacuzzi onwards!

Infusion is quite warm, first time we went I had a towel and the Mrs a sexy knickers and wonder bra, since then she has tried tiny mini lace skirts, corsets (like you say not so easy to get out of!) and a thong (this weekend 25/09).

The truth is it doesn't matter one bit, wear what you are comfortable and feeling sexy in and you will be fine, you can change upstairs if you want so it really doesn't matter that much. It is much more important to be comfortable and feeling sexy in yourself. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a club virgin who popped his cherry 2weeks ago & again last Saturday, is it me or do most of the blokes always wrap a towel round themselves so it goes from waist to ankles?

If the girls reveal loads surely us guys need to fold the towel & make it smaller hehehe

Sorry that was me!!"

I'd like to see guys make more effort in clubs. I've been to lots of clubs in europe where they insist men wear sexy gear. After a fabulous session with a naked guy we went off for a drink at the bar. I was amused to see him pulling on fishnet pants and nearly peed myself laughing when I saw the matching tee. However, I week later at a lingerie night in Edinburgh I was revolted to see an abundance of humorous xmas knickers. The women were gorgeous and sexy, the men were in homer simpson kex or bobbly taz pants. Yuck. Pissed me off that I'd spent hours (and a small fortune) to look delicious and here was a baldy man in scooby doo pants trying to get me to go fuck. I thought back to fishnet boy and appreciated his efforts a hell of a lot more after that. I can't promise never to laugh at another sexy outfit but I can promise to appreciate they tried to look sexy and alluring

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By *raceyntonyCouple
over a year ago

london


"Being a club virgin who popped his cherry 2weeks ago & again last Saturday, is it me or do most of the blokes always wrap a towel round themselves so it goes from waist to ankles?

If the girls reveal loads surely us guys need to fold the towel & make it smaller hehehe

Sorry that was me!!

I'd like to see guys make more effort in clubs. I've been to lots of clubs in europe where they insist men wear sexy gear. After a fabulous session with a naked guy we went off for a drink at the bar. I was amused to see him pulling on fishnet pants and nearly peed myself laughing when I saw the matching tee. However, I week later at a lingerie night in Edinburgh I was revolted to see an abundance of humorous xmas knickers. The women were gorgeous and sexy, the men were in homer simpson kex or bobbly taz pants. Yuck. Pissed me off that I'd spent hours (and a small fortune) to look delicious and here was a baldy man in scooby doo pants trying to get me to go fuck. I thought back to fishnet boy and appreciated his efforts a hell of a lot more after that. I can't promise never to laugh at another sexy outfit but I can promise to appreciate they tried to look sexy and alluring"

so true u dont see many guys looking sexy at clubs ,partys , or even at meets sometimes its a put u off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a club virgin who popped his cherry 2weeks ago & again last Saturday, is it me or do most of the blokes always wrap a towel round themselves so it goes from waist to ankles?

If the girls reveal loads surely us guys need to fold the towel & make it smaller hehehe

Sorry that was me!!

I'd like to see guys make more effort in clubs. I've been to lots of clubs in europe where they insist men wear sexy gear. After a fabulous session with a naked guy we went off for a drink at the bar. I was amused to see him pulling on fishnet pants and nearly peed myself laughing when I saw the matching tee. However, I week later at a lingerie night in Edinburgh I was revolted to see an abundance of humorous xmas knickers. The women were gorgeous and sexy, the men were in homer simpson kex or bobbly taz pants. Yuck. Pissed me off that I'd spent hours (and a small fortune) to look delicious and here was a baldy man in scooby doo pants trying to get me to go fuck. I thought back to fishnet boy and appreciated his efforts a hell of a lot more after that. I can't promise never to laugh at another sexy outfit but I can promise to appreciate they tried to look sexy and alluring"

I think it's all about choice really. I wouldn't mind wearing something like a centurions outfit that left little to the imagination for example. I think as long as I'd wear something that is masculine and flatters my body then I'd be all for it. I love fancy dress occassions personally, your imagination can run riot, which is such a turn on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18646 Would this be suitable? xx"

I think that would go down a treat!

As for us men i can see how boxers arent really putting any effort in, perhaps i should wear the above too for a great first impression... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm I have an idea involving a kilt lol

Klit kings kilt - now that's a mouthful

With or without a sporan? Suppose its somewhere to keep the raincoats too - genius why don't we all wear kilts & a blue face paint & a wee rats tail/ pony tail and a bottle of whisky & irn bru allready mixed och canie brilliant idea hehehe

Sparticus meats Braveheart

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone for the replies, payday today so i've ordered some sexy stuff! Went for the babydoll in the end and a sexy bra set and some stockings. And a new dress for the drinks before the club xx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Thanks to everyone for the replies, payday today so i've ordered some sexy stuff! Went for the babydoll in the end and a sexy bra set and some stockings. And a new dress for the drinks before the club xx"

Sounds fantastic - have a great night! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" First time clubbing....

1) get a feel for the balance of the club

2) dont grip too tightly, it will make your hand ache

3) dont over reach

4) aim for the base of the skull

5) a medium tap will be as effective as a full power blow"

lmao - so laughed hard at this!

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Am sure you will look lovely in the outfit. Get a pic of you wearing it and pop it on your profile too. If you feel fab in it hunny you will look fab in it. Enjoy and smile xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what is Magic Hands wearing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well at first he'll be in jeans, smart shirt and smart shoes, then later on he'l prob just strip to undies or wear a towel. So easy for the men! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to dress up when I go to clubs, but the thing I notice is where something comfortable to you.

I love my corsets but they can get a bit much after a while. However last time we went it was St Trinians night, so that was easy.

I think next time we go I will treat myself to something new... ( not that Master thinks I need anything more ) lol

( I can wear a different set of undies for about half the year without washing any) lol

Just dont worry to much, as everyone else will be new, or was new at some point.

I am sure you will look fabulous.

Katie x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you Katie Outfit all sorted now, its the big night tonight! I opted for a simple little black bodycon dress in the end which i'll wear with stockings and stilettos. Got some nice sexy underwear to change into later on

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how did it go????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was amazing! We loved every second of it and can't wait to go again! We weren't expecting anything to happen on our first visit but ended up in one of the playrooms with three other couples! xx

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