Bi-curious, as with most sexual orientations, can mean as many things as there people who may use these labels.
For example, some see anyone who is interested in someone who's in some way transgendered as meaning that a person must be bicurious or bi. Even if the person only has the physical characteristics of the standard gender that a person likes.
Some guys may be ok touching a guys cock, would be ok with a mixed m/f double blow job, or would suck and be sucked, or fuck or be fucked by a guy. Others may do vaginal DP and enjoy the physical sensations of both the pussy and the cock that are moving against their cocks. But none of these would date a guy.
So it partly depends on what you fancy trying out, the sort of person you may be attracted to exploring things with.
I'm organising some bi-curious guys training, matching and introducing them, potentially some coaching. Some skills, such as cock sucking, are learnable but also improve with practice.
Consider what those things are that you'd like to explore and work out the best way to find them. There are people who've tried stuff - it didn't work for them: but this may be about not having the right partners, or being at the wrong point. Are they bicurious? Not if they don't identify that way. The labeling that society and others induce us to use are just that - they don't reflect the vast array of differences amongst us all.
If you change your profile label, it may attract a flood of interest, as some say. Perhaps just add a note onto it, instead, reflecting what it is that you'd like to explore. Remember, there are many ways to try stuff out, either in groups of various genders, find out what it's like touching a cock with some tgirls etc etc. |