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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been told my profile is shit. Fair enough. I haven't had sex for 10 years. What the fuck do I know?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you asking for advice on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for letting us know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must have patience of a saint to not have any for 10 years. Think the skin would be coming off my hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's unfortunate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's alright, bit concise but nothing wrong with that. I like the new pic you uploaded as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U asked me for advice and u changed it

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"It's alright, bit concise but nothing wrong with that. I like the new pic you uploaded as well."

Seems to have a completely different body shape to the one that's only three months older though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol.....that just made me laugh like f**k! Sorry op.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's alright, bit concise but nothing wrong with that. I like the new pic you uploaded as well.

Seems to have a completely different body shape to the one that's only three months older though!

Lolz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't drink

You don't smoke

What do'ya do ..........

Oh wait, you don't do that either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years!!!!...I bet youve forgotten where to stick it!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"It's alright, bit concise but nothing wrong with that. I like the new pic you uploaded as well.

Seems to have a completely different body shape to the one that's only three months older though!

Lolz"

Haha well thats what you get when you over indulge over xmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's alright, bit concise but nothing wrong with that. I like the new pic you uploaded as well.

Seems to have a completely different body shape to the one that's only three months older though!

Heavy sigh... OP please...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's alright, bit concise but nothing wrong with that. I like the new pic you uploaded as well.

Seems to have a completely different body shape to the one that's only three months older though!

Both are mirror shots from different angles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As much as it pains to bare ones soul on the internet. I had a non sexual relationship from 2005 to 2012 and have been single since. At least I'm clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you find what you are looking for x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep heard that ten year one before

Her

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

I am also looking for a female for long term fun and possibly romance. My profile is described in more detail with more pictures. At least you have friends on the site though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am also looking for a female for long term fun and possibly romance. My profile is described in more detail with more pictures. At least you have friends on the site though."

Start your own thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hope you find what you are looking for x"

Thank you x

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"It's alright, bit concise but nothing wrong with that. I like the new pic you uploaded as well.

Seems to have a completely different body shape to the one that's only three months older though!

Both are mirror shots from different angles. "

Really?

Now I'll confess to being good at taking flattering pics using decent angles - but where did you get the mirror in the first shot?

I put a little weight on over xmas and could do with a magic mirror such as yours to lose a few kilos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's alright, bit concise but nothing wrong with that. I like the new pic you uploaded as well.

Seems to have a completely different body shape to the one that's only three months older though!

Both are mirror shots from different angles.

Really?

Now I'll confess to being good at taking flattering pics using decent angles - but where did you get the mirror in the first shot?

I put a little weight on over xmas and could do with a magic mirror such as yours to lose a few kilos!

The jacket he's wearing isn't fitted, and looks slightly too big for him. Looks like it's got shoulder pads as well. I'm very observant me.

No offence OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's alright, bit concise but nothing wrong with that. I like the new pic you uploaded as well.

Seems to have a completely different body shape to the one that's only three months older though!

Both are mirror shots from different angles.

Really?

Now I'll confess to being good at taking flattering pics using decent angles - but where did you get the mirror in the first shot?

I put a little weight on over xmas and could do with a magic mirror such as yours to lose a few kilos!

The jacket he's wearing isn't fitted, and looks slightly too big for him. Looks like it's got shoulder pads as well. I'm very observant me.

No offence OP."

The mirror is from the 70's/80's and my coat is an overcoat from Moss Bros. I did go through a period ( no pun intended) of wearing it all the time, even during summer. Issues about being skinny and what to do with all the extra pockets. Then I started going to the gym.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

personally id keep the pic in the overcoat as youve said youve put on weight so thats the one giving the truest reflection of how you look now, otherwise its gonna have people questioning you as it as already done in this thread. That ot upload another new pic not wearing the overcoat to clarify matters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"personally id keep the pic in the overcoat as youve said youve put on weight so thats the one giving the truest reflection of how you look now, otherwise its gonna have people questioning you as it as already done in this thread. That ot upload another new pic not wearing the overcoat to clarify matters "

I'm still a skinny guy. Haven't been to the gym for a while for various reasons. Thank you for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still a skinny guy. Haven't been to the gym for a while for various reasons. Thank you for the advice "

If you are skinny ditch the overcoat picture. You look huge in that pic. You have phone, take some more representative pics and post them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm still a skinny guy. Haven't been to the gym for a while for various reasons. Thank you for the advice

If you are skinny ditch the overcoat picture. You look huge in that pic. You have phone, take some more representative pics and post them.

New photo as requested. One without clothes is coming. My phone is an xperia u. Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your first pic looks like you've just seen the most offensive image ever!! Try smiling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

New profile picture was taken this morning. Hope you're all having a good weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do indeed look like you just woke up, good pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really sorry I thought the profile was a 'wind up'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm really sorry I thought the profile was a 'wind up'"

That's okay. I'm here because of looking for sex with women but due to most of my messages being deleted, listening to different people's opinions about what makes a good profile, you can only be yourself. I'm a nice guy who doesn't get sex. Beginning to feel that this is the wrong place for me, but that's more about my confidence issues with women. Thank you for looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds u will fuck anything with "its easier to meet men than women"

Sounds desperate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds u will fuck anything with "its easier to meet men than women"

Sounds desperate"

Agreed. That's why I changed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems u are lost.

Do you know what bdsm is or you just thought be good on your profile?

Sorry but the one u had fri was far far better than any others

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've seen worse profiles from men who thought they were good profiles. It's a good start. I'd probably lose the bsdm bit myself at this stage and add it after a few meets. The reason is that bsdm takes trust and confidence and this comes with experience.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"As much as it pains to bare ones soul on the internet. I had a non sexual relationship from 2005 to 2012 and have been single since. At least I'm clean. "

WTF! Why?

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

It's all a bit vague and doesn't really say who or what you are. You definitely need more pics including some in friends only (adds an air of mystery and expectation).

However, regardless of how good your profile is you're still unlikely to much positive response from unsolicited messages to women. If you really want things to move up a gear for you them get involved in forum discussions, try the chat rooms and, most importantly and most likely to get you results, go to clubs and social nights.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It seems u are lost.

Do you know what bdsm is or you just thought be good on your profile?

Sorry but the one u had fri was far far better than any others"

I am lost. Glad people notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have confidence issues and you haven't had Sex for 10 Years, My question is what is it that you think you have to offer the opposite Sex?.

Let's face it if you haven't pulled in the real world in 10 years then your chances on here are even less.

Mr Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As much as it pains to bare ones soul on the internet. I had a non sexual relationship from 2005 to 2012 and have been single since. At least I'm clean.

WTF! Why?"

Have been hurt by women, mostly by the majority saying that I'm skinny, lack of confidence ensues. Wanted a relationship but the girlfriend I had wasn't interested in sex. I could live with that because was in love. I'm a nice guy that usually ends up as the friend. Maybe jumping into swinging culture is a bit extreme for somebody who hasn't had sex for so long.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have confidence issues and you haven't had Sex for 10 Years, My question is what is it that you think you have to offer the opposite Sex?.

Let's face it if you haven't pulled in the real world in 10 years then your chances on here are even less.

Mr Gimp"

Love. Intimacy. Sex. Having sex builds confidence but need confidence to get sex, the irony is seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be you.

Take time to look at going to a forum social

This site can knock the most confident people at times.

I wouldn't put inexperienced in your profile as you aren't just been in a relationship that wasn't working

Just have fun if sex happens bonus

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