FabSwingers.com forum: cant get a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can anyone help pleade

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By *earlyNipsCouple
over a year ago

St Neots

Two things:

1) for guys, it's a numbers game. For every couple/lady, there are 100 guys. The odds are never in your favour.

2) too many bad quality and/or dick pics. Get some good pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, its a cock fest for women lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Only been here 8 weeks.....be patient and make sure you've put the most total top effort you can into your profile: content, pics, spelling, grammar etc. It helps.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, its a cock fest for women lol

And gay men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, its a cock fest for women lol

And gay men. "
Yes or you have to be bi as well lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Change your expectations. "

I can't get a meet here I just go to clubs , funnily enough I do ok

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Can't get a meet?

With five meet listings for today?

There must be a fault with the site, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Change your expectations. "
That's what I have done, I just use the forums now lol

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

From my experience of the forums i can tell you Most women delete and block guys that have a cock for a profile pic, let alone having a gallery of cock shots one of them being a cum shot (that arent overly popular either), especially while all the other photos are out of focus.

Women generally need to be turned on mentally before being able to do so physically so pics that are teasing and thought provoking seem the best. women that want a cock photo will ask for it

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Can't get a meet?

With five meet listings for today?

There must be a fault with the site, surely?

Just seen that

Desperation isnt a good quality op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, its a cock fest for women lol

And gay men. Yes or you have to be bi as well lol."

Or bbc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, its a cock fest for women lol

And gay men. Yes or you have to be bi as well lol.

Or bbc"
Yes or that, mind you its their loss in away lol

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I wonder if this is going to be yet another thread where plenty of good solid helpful advice is given but none is taken or acted upon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh well..get to a club.

Her

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"From my experience of the forums i can tell you Most women delete and block guys that have a cock for a profile pic, let alone having a gallery of cock shots one of them being a cum shot (that arent overly popular either), especially while all the other photos are out of focus.

Women generally need to be turned on mentally before being able to do so physically so pics that are teasing and thought provoking seem the best. women that want a cock photo will ask for it "

Pic quality/content might be an issue here!

Fuzzy/blurry? Not great.

Cock pics? Unless tasteful and artistic? Not great - especially when the cock seems to go from being cut to uncut! Interchangeable cocks, whilst potentially advantageous to meet a woman's preferences, are as far as I know, currently unavailable as an option for guys!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, its a cock fest for women lol

And gay men. Yes or you have to be bi as well lol.

Or bbc"

Oh just noticed your still here you were leaving the site last time i checked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, its a cock fest for women lol

And gay men. Yes or you have to be bi as well lol.

Or bbc

Oh just noticed your still here you were leaving the site last time i checked

I thought that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women generally need to be turned on mentally before being able to do so physically so pics that are teasing and thought provoking seem the best. women that want a cock photo will ask for it

Pic quality/content might be an issue here!

Fuzzy/blurry? Not great.

Interchangeable hahaha love that.

Well the last time I checked I was cut. I might wear my uncut tomorrow. Weather depending

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Always useful to bring a spare cock along to a meet to see which one the lady fancies....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, its a cock fest for women lol

And gay men. Yes or you have to be bi as well lol.

Or bbc

Oh just noticed your still here you were leaving the site last time i checked

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Who you on about? lol.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, its a cock fest for women lol

And gay men. Yes or you have to be bi as well lol.

Or bbc

Oh just noticed your still here you were leaving the site last time i checked

Who you on about? lol."

Not you shag and amen to you not leaving you give me some on my besy giggles on here

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By *elkel1979Woman
over a year ago

Cumbria

Remove your cock profile picture its an instant turn off for most people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was on about me. I did leave for a while and then gave in trying to stay away missed the banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remove your cock profile picture its an instant turn off for most people. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, its a cock fest for women lol

And gay men. Yes or you have to be bi as well lol.

Or bbc

Oh just noticed your still here you were leaving the site last time i checked

Who you on about? lol.

Not you shag and amen to you not leaving you give me some on my besy giggles on here "
Thanks mama and yes I like the site, the forum is really fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She was on about me. I did leave for a while and then gave in trying to stay away missed the banter "
Yes that's good, the forum is kinda addicted

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, its a cock fest for women lol

And gay men. Yes or you have to be bi as well lol."

I wouldn't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, its a cock fest for women lol

Yay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It helps if you can spell what is pleade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It helps if you can spell what is pleade"

A cross between pleading and please???

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Only been here 8 weeks.....be patient and make sure you've put the most total top effort you can into your profile: content, pics, spelling, grammar etc. It helps. "

Agree with this, but you should also be respectful - read their profiles and don't think that ignoring what it says and "giving it a try" will work. Happens to us a lot and is really annoying. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To reiterate... Cock shots, total turn off, I block instantly if I get messaged by somebody with 1 never mind 3+!!!

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Had a quick skim on the profile, and to me your profile comes off as a list of demands or rules. What would you be offering your prospective partner(s)? A list of what you want is good, but supplement it with what you can also offer

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

My god.....another one!! Surely people could just look at the other 100's of threads like this.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"My god.....another one!! Surely people could just look at the other 100's of threads like this.

I think half of it is in hope a single lady they haven't noticed will come running to their profile and meet them within the hour

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

Well, goggle reverse search shows your first 2 cock pics to be possible fakes....so that's an instant block for me without looking at any thing else

Don't add anything fake to your profile is a big way of getting meets on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, goggle reverse search shows your first 2 cock pics to be possible fakes....so that's an instant block for me without looking at any thing else

Don't add anything fake to your profile is a big way of getting meets on here

I got that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah 2 of ur cock pics are fake... Google image search is my best friend your the 4th tonight I've seen

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By *arewithmeMan
over a year ago

Craven Arms

Your the same as all the other blokes desperate for a meet and you think by putting it in writing will help,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,wrong it only shows how you cant do a good profile and how desperate you are.......................and makes it worse for us genuine guys

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By *ornybi1965Couple
over a year ago

Guildford

"Yeah 2 of ur cock pics are fake... Google image search is my best friend your the 4th tonight I've seen "

Agree. What a loser the guy is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your the same as all the other blokes desperate for a meet and you think by putting it in writing will help,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,wrong it only shows how you cant do a good profile and how desperate you are.......................and makes it worse for us genuine guys"

This guy or no other have any bearing on my success on here. Just saying.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

and the profiles now hidden what a shock, problem is hes already been caught out and now its here in Black and white for anyone to see and doubt hes a credible meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no one makes it worse for you than yourself, stop blaming other guys for your lack of meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ditch the cock pic as your main profile pic, if a woman or couole want to see yoyr dick they will ask directly or on their profile.

Try to be genuine. I havent had a load of meets myself and being honest i wouldnt want too,

I believe the majority of women dislike guys that literally fuck anyone or appear desperate.

Lastly go to a local club or munch and let thr people you meet discover the kind of guy you are.

A little pantience really goes a long way.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive fail!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

UNLOS imminent?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Be careful outing people about possible fake pics on the forums peeps I got a ban when I did it and was told it's not allowed.. Just a heads up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and the profiles now hidden what a shock, problem is hes already been caught out and now its here in Black and white for anyone to see and doubt hes a credible meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the bear pit.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

How do you do a reverse image Google search? Mainly using the site from android phones if that helps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remove your cock... "

And that will improve your chances considerably

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

"How do you do a reverse image Google search? Mainly using the site from android phones if that helps? "

I find tineye works better from my phone. Save the pic then select it from the search on the site.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"How do you do a reverse image Google search? Mainly using the site from android phones if that helps?

I find tineye works better from my phone. Save the pic then select it from the search on the site. "

Thanks! Will prove helpful I hope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you do a reverse image Google search? Mainly using the site from android phones if that helps?

I find tineye works better from my phone. Save the pic then select it from the search on the site.

Thanks! Will prove helpful I hope!

Trust me it does

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I only meet guys with decent cocks; so I am glad most of the ladies (here) don't care much abt cockshots. I can tell you re missing out on some great cock by insisting on looks looks looks sentimentality and other features not/mostly not connected to carnal pleasure. Get real dears you re on a fab/fun sex site and once the sex is done and dusted, one just moves on to the next cock. I have dozens of regulars - mostly married/bi guys who are amazing people (even when there s only 1 word/sentence on their profile); I pick and choose and don t care a hoot about whether they return or not or whether they care abt my inner feelings. All I want is decent cock inside my two holes (and nobody ever touches me between my legs, just in case you're wondering). I don t care what some of you will say - this is a site for fun sex with NSA (I repeat NSA) not for tea and cake (although I do like that post coitally). Thanks for a fab site whoever s running it!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I only meet guys with decent cocks; so I am glad most of the ladies (here) don't care much abt cockshots. I can tell you re missing out on some great cock by insisting on looks looks looks sentimentality and other features not/mostly not connected to carnal pleasure. Get real dears you re on a fab/fun sex site and once the sex is done and dusted, one just moves on to the next cock. I have dozens of regulars - mostly married/bi guys who are amazing people (even when there s only 1 word/sentence on their profile); I pick and choose and don t care a hoot about whether they return or not or whether they care abt my inner feelings. All I want is decent cock inside my two holes (and nobody ever touches me between my legs, just in case you're wondering). I don t care what some of you will say - this is a site for fun sex with NSA (I repeat NSA) not for tea and cake (although I do like that post coitally). Thanks for a fab site whoever s running it!

Well good for you if thats how you choose to use they site. But when meeting, its certainly not my view of Fab and how i solely use it. For me a like to have a social connection as well as a sexual one, so a guy needs to be a lot more than just a cock to fill my holes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're on a swingers site, its not all about sex, you might not care about looks but us women certainly do coz we have to be attracted to them before we shag them, I'm not interested in what their cock looks like coz I'm more interested in having a conversation with them before I even think about having sex with them

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

And another thing - I ve lost count of guys who just can t get a first meet; they ve been up for a meet and never asked for a verification either (for reasons we know); In fact they ve been the most amazing meets and I never request veris from them either. So ladies - you re doing me a favour so do keep insisting on correct spelling - LOVE it!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And another thing - I ve lost count of guys who just can t get a first meet; they ve been up for a meet and never asked for a verification either (for reasons we know); In fact they ve been the most amazing meets and I never request veris from them either. So ladies - you re doing me a favour so do keep insisting on correct spelling - LOVE it!!!!"

You certainly like quantity over quality. I've been seeing the same guy for 15 months, I don't need anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You certainly like quantity over quality. I've been seeing the same guy for 15 months, I don't need anyone else"

ouch lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You certainly like quantity over quality. I've been seeing the same guy for 15 months, I don't need anyone else

ouch lol"

Oops lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone help pleade"

Not really possible since you've hidden your profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You certainly like quantity over quality. I've been seeing the same guy for 15 months, I don't need anyone else

ouch lol

Oops lol

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Can anyone help pleade

Not really possible since you've hidden your profile..."

Read the whole thread youll know why its hidden now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone help pleade

Not really possible since you've hidden your profile...

Read the whole thread youll know why its hidden now "

the fakepics will be back i have a feeling lol

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I think this thread could be closed down now. It has run its course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone help pleade"

Won't meet anyone with hidden profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just got upto speed on this one haha is all I can say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone help pleade"

How have I met so many women off her ... And continue to want to ...

These threads make me doubt myself

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I think this thread could be closed down now. It has run its course"

Im surprised it hasnt already

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Just before thread closes wanted to say have 2 meets arranged (separately) with 2 guys who (unfortunately for them) cannot get a veri. It s quite a harsh system for single males (bi/straight/other) but I, for one, would not want it to change (ever)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone help pleade

Not really possible since you've hidden your profile...

Read the whole thread youll know why its hidden now "

I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doesent work pal theres so many ignorant people on this site,you send them a message no sleaze or pestering,just a nice message with face pic attached,then you see its been deleted right away,savility costs nothing a polite no thanx would be nice at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you do a reverse image Google search? Mainly using the site from android phones if that helps? "

On your fone click for a bit on he pic and the menu will come up and go to search google for image

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"doesent work pal theres so many ignorant people on this site,you send them a message no sleaze or pestering,just a nice message with face pic attached,then you see its been deleted right away,savility costs nothing a polite no thanx would be nice at times"

Do you know how many messages women and couples get?? If I had to reply a polite no thanks to everyone id be there all night and then I'd have to deal with all the ones moaning who can't take no for an answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A no reply is a no thanks. The problem is a small minority of people who think its acceptable to send abusive replies when you bother to send a polite no thanks message. Being called a fat slag or similar in response to a polite no is not acceptable and the reason many women find it easier to not reply. Also, a lot of women and couples can get 50 plus messages a day which is really not easy to reply to. Another reason for not replying is sometimes the constant pestering as to why I'm not interested trying to change my mind so don't call people ignorant, blame the small minority on here who spoil it for the genuine ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly that ! Even with a polite no thank you, it's then 'can you tell me why '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A deleted message is a "no thanks"

Do you reply to all the junk mail you get and tell them "no thanks"? No, so why expect it on here? People aren't being ignorant they're just not interested

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Fab FAQ states that it's not rude not to reply. As above, a no reply is a polite 'no thank you'.

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

OP winked us yesterday, so along with all the other good advice on here I would suggest reading profiles and find out what people are looking for and expect, don't think people are gonna jump at the opportunity to meet you just because you sent a wink.

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