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"Obviously any sexual act contains a risk, but in this case the risks can be very high, especially if she already has semen on or in her mouth and that is then transferred to your cock. Similarly any cuts on or in her mouth, become even more risky is she is sucking off other guys at the same time" The risk to the guys is minimal... The risk to the woman much greater.. | |||
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"Obviously any sexual act contains a risk, but in this case the risks can be very high, especially if she already has semen on or in her mouth and that is then transferred to your cock. Similarly any cuts on or in her mouth, become even more risky is she is sucking off other guys at the same time The risk to the guys is minimal... The risk to the woman much greater.. " I think hes asking from the point of view of the male only | |||
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"Obviously any sexual act contains a risk, but in this case the risks can be very high, especially if she already has semen on or in her mouth and that is then transferred to your cock. Similarly any cuts on or in her mouth, become even more risky is she is sucking off other guys at the same time The risk to the guys is minimal... The risk to the woman much greater.. I think hes asking from the point of view of the male only" Which is why I pointed out that many of the comments about risk were about risks to the woman. For the guy the risks are not so high. I have to say I've never yet seen a bukkake session where anyone has used a condom | |||
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"Obviously any sexual act contains a risk, but in this case the risks can be very high, especially if she already has semen on or in her mouth and that is then transferred to your cock. Similarly any cuts on or in her mouth, become even more risky is she is sucking off other guys at the same time The risk to the guys is minimal... The risk to the woman much greater.. I think hes asking from the point of view of the male only Which is why I pointed out that many of the comments about risk were about risks to the woman. For the guy the risks are not so high. I have to say I've never yet seen a bukkake session where anyone has used a condom " What comments were about risks to the woman?? Theres none on this thread I wouldnt be seen dead at a bukkake i have to say, far too much risk of transference of semen from male to male. | |||
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"Obviously any sexual act contains a risk, but in this case the risks can be very high, especially if she already has semen on or in her mouth and that is then transferred to your cock. Similarly any cuts on or in her mouth, become even more risky is she is sucking off other guys at the same time The risk to the guys is minimal... The risk to the woman much greater.. I think hes asking from the point of view of the male only Which is why I pointed out that many of the comments about risk were about risks to the woman. For the guy the risks are not so high. I have to say I've never yet seen a bukkake session where anyone has used a condom " That's it, just from my point of view. And I agree with you, I couldn't imagine standing there with a rubber on, it would seem a bit rude | |||
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" What comments were about risks to the woman?? Theres none on this thread I wouldnt be seen dead at a bukkake i have to say, far too much risk of transference of semen from male to male." you are still going to need a woman to transfer it from man to man they are not my thing.... but the risk of transferring is not different than a woman have lots of seperate single meets.... | |||
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"The risks I quoted. And done this for many years and had more than a few bukkake sessions and not caught anything. " Sorry, im totally lost here...what risks did you quote? | |||
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" What comments were about risks to the woman?? Theres none on this thread I wouldnt be seen dead at a bukkake i have to say, far too much risk of transference of semen from male to male. you are still going to need a woman to transfer it from man to man they are not my thing.... but the risk of transferring is not different than a woman have lots of seperate single meets.... " Are u sure about that?? The last time i met a woman for a meet, she didnt have cum dripping off her lips! There has to be more of a risk, thats a no brainer | |||
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"I thought bukkake was where the men wanked over the woman only. She doesn't touch the men. " That would eliminate the risks for the men, but youll rarely see that. Shes usually sucking too | |||
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"The risks I quoted. And done this for many years and had more than a few bukkake sessions and not caught anything. Sorry, im totally lost here...what risks did you quote?" The ones you stated about cuts on the mouth.. more towards the risks to the woman. There is a risk in all we do... | |||
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"I thought bukkake was where the men wanked over the woman only. She doesn't touch the men. " That's true, but I believe there can be bj's too | |||
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"I thought bukkake was where the men wanked over the woman only. She doesn't touch the men. " I thought this too | |||
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"I thought bukkake was where the men wanked over the woman only. She doesn't touch the men. That's true, but I believe there can be bj's too" I would call that an oral only gang bang. Bukkake is specific. | |||
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" What comments were about risks to the woman?? Theres none on this thread I wouldnt be seen dead at a bukkake i have to say, far too much risk of transference of semen from male to male. you are still going to need a woman to transfer it from man to man they are not my thing.... but the risk of transferring is not different than a woman have lots of seperate single meets.... Are u sure about that?? The last time i met a woman for a meet, she didnt have cum dripping off her lips! There has to be more of a risk, thats a no brainer" Unless you're meeting virgins how do you know when she last had cum in her lips? That morning, yesterday, the day before that, last week? And if she did? Then the risk of that cum containing something nasty doesn't go away the second the meet is over! So if she met 20 guys over the previous month or 20 the day before - the risks are the same. A | |||
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" What comments were about risks to the woman?? Theres none on this thread I wouldnt be seen dead at a bukkake i have to say, far too much risk of transference of semen from male to male. you are still going to need a woman to transfer it from man to man they are not my thing.... but the risk of transferring is not different than a woman have lots of seperate single meets.... Are u sure about that?? The last time i met a woman for a meet, she didnt have cum dripping off her lips! There has to be more of a risk, thats a no brainer Unless you're meeting virgins how do you know when she last had cum in her lips? That morning, yesterday, the day before that, last week? And if she did? Then the risk of that cum containing something nasty doesn't go away the second the meet is over! So if she met 20 guys over the previous month or 20 the day before - the risks are the same. A" I cant believe i need to clarify this; they are NOT the same...if she has cum on her then i am at direct risk from that cum. If there is no cum on her, there is still a risk i can pick up something from her that she may have picked up from the earlier cum, however i am NOT at direct risk from that earlier cum. Still an overall risk? Yes. The same risk? No. Am i clear with that now? | |||
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"I thought bukkake was where the men wanked over the woman only. She doesn't touch the men. I thought this too" Me too | |||
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"Std can transfer from oral, use a condom" So if you had a meet , you would wear a condom for a blow job ? And .. Presumably , cling film or the like if you reciprocated ? | |||
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"Std can transfer from oral, use a condom So if you had a meet , you would wear a condom for a blow job ? And .. Presumably , cling film or the like if you reciprocated ? " I still have no idea why some people find this so unbelievable. (And dental dams rather than clingfilm if the giver wishes). | |||
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"We've done loads of this type of thing , from sucking multiple guys , to just guys coming on her face etc , in groups . And in 4 years , no sti's for either of us . We get checked every 6 weeks , use corsodyl , wipes etc on meets and maybe we are lucky , but bukkake , group non penetration with condoms is not gonna happen here . Of course there are risks , as with anything , but she loves cock and cum too much , and the taste and texture of condoms is gross . " Good to see someone being honest and upfront about their activities. Know the risks and decide whether it's worth it. | |||
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"Std can transfer from oral, use a condom So if you had a meet , you would wear a condom for a blow job ? And .. Presumably , cling film or the like if you reciprocated ? " Dental dams rather than cling film they are free at my local clinnic and worth trying just for a laugh | |||
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"Std can transfer from oral, use a condom So if you had a meet , you would wear a condom for a blow job ? And .. Presumably , cling film or the like if you reciprocated ? Dental dams rather than cling film they are free at my local clinnic and worth trying just for a laugh " That's what we found... Good for a giggle but utterly pointless for actual play x | |||
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"Std can transfer from oral, use a condom So if you had a meet , you would wear a condom for a blow job ? And .. Presumably , cling film or the like if you reciprocated ? " Have no problems wearing a condom for a blow job, I'd take a view on how comfortable I felt before reciprocating, as it's rude not to. To be fair it's a minefield | |||
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"Std can transfer from oral, use a condom So if you had a meet , you would wear a condom for a blow job ? And .. Presumably , cling film or the like if you reciprocated ? I still have no idea why some people find this so unbelievable. (And dental dams rather than clingfilm if the giver wishes)." I would give this up tomorrow if I could never suck a bare cock again , it's the best thing for me to feel the pulsation , the sensitive twitches , the passion and eroticism of sucking a cock is why I love the scene so much . I have sucked cock with a condom on , it's simply not the same . Her | |||
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"what are the health risks of being given a blowjob from a stranger especially if there are other men in the circle and the girl has been sucking on different cocks and maybe has cum in her mouth or on her lips. I know sexual activity does carry a risk but would you say they are minor in this instance?" Probably quite minor if I'm assuming you mean she sucks your cock after sucking other mens cocks to completion and so might have traces of cum in her mouth from several men when she sucks yours? You could have been first, of course. It's what elbows are for. | |||
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" wash your cock in TCP as soon as she's done you and you'll probably be ok " TCP...... i was going to suggest domestos!!! | |||
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" wash your cock in TCP as soon as she's done you and you'll probably be ok TCP...... i was going to suggest domestos!!! " That's only for bi orgies! | |||
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"I much prefer a girl sucking my cock after a few guys have come in her mouth" There are plenty that do , and to be fair there are those that revel in group play and those that don't . Each to their own I say , and as long as there's no judgement either way it's all good . | |||
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"I was warned against this type of activity by a GUM consultant who told me that the place to pick up infections is groups, clubs and dogging. You don't know where anybody has been. You have to decide whether it's worth the risk. " Of course there going to say its possible to pick up infection. Do you know where anyone has been? Just doing this lifestyle will put you at higher risk just by number of sexual partners. But when we were doing lots of bukkake and group stuff we was honest with the clinic and was told oral only group play was minimal risk and that the biggest risk was from getting it in my eyes.. | |||
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"I was warned against this type of activity by a GUM consultant who told me that the place to pick up infections is groups, clubs and dogging. You don't know where anybody has been. You have to decide whether it's worth the risk. " So if you meet people 1-2-1 who've participated in group fun or been dogging or to a club previously.......? Best give up meeting. Even if you hand out a questionnaire asking for people's last 2 years sexual activity - they'll still forget something or fib. A | |||
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