FabSwingers.com forum: Need some advice

By *teveeb46 OP Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

I could do with a bit of advice. I meet a lady on Fab Swingers about 2 weeks ago. We got on very well and exchanged messages and loads of text messages. Told me she had a partner but did not live with him and also sex with him never happened and so was looking just for a fuck buddy. With not living far from me ....about 10 mins away it just sounded like what we both wanted. We did meet up at mine and within a few minutes we were ripping each others clothes off and had a fantastic hour of hot steaming sex. I thought all was well and we would meet up again. At 1 am in the morning I got a text from her partner he had found out what was going on and was hoping mad about it all he had found all our hot texts on her phone when he pick it up while she was asleep. The next thing I know is I got a threating message on Fad Swingers and then got blocked. I don't know if this lady is still or has left. But I know she was a or is a gold member. I can not name her or slag her off or I will be in trouble but how can I warn other members about it. Thanks for reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can;t warn other members about her. Naming and shaming isn;t allowed and rightfully so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of many reasons I stay away from attached people, too much hassle if it goes wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is one of many reasons I stay away from attached people, too much hassle if it goes wrong. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it happens stevee mate just put it down as one of those things. ive been in a similar situstion but when i seen the guy whos partner id been with in a pub he told me she had done the same thing many times before

some get a kick out of it just move on

hope the sex was good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it is their kink. She cuckolds him, he fights for her. He chastises you to win her back. They get horny with lots of make up sex. You had sex then get blocked. You got the sex.

Any lady in that situation would be more careful with their phone than to have it "found".

You don't know the dynamic of the relationship. It might be their thing.

Now if it escalates beyond that, call the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is one of many reasons I stay away from attached people, too much hassle if it goes wrong.

This"
double this

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Maybe it is their kink. She cuckolds him, he fights for her. He chastises you to win her back. They get horny with lots of make up sex. You had sex then get blocked. You got the sex.

Any lady in that situation would be more careful with their phone than to have it "found".

You don't know the dynamic of the relationship. It might be their thing.

Now if it escalates beyond that, call the police."

I'd agree with this.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

All actions have their consequences

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"All actions have their consequences

this.... if you knew she was married going in and still decided to play... you are as complicit in any consequence as they are....

if you see a sign that says wet paint... and then you decide to touch... you can't complain about the paint on your fingers.......

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"I could do with a bit of advice. I meet a lady on Fab Swingers about 2 weeks ago. We got on very well and exchanged messages and loads of text messages. Told me she had a partner but did not live with him and also sex with him never happened and so was looking just for a fuck buddy. With not living far from me ....about 10 mins away it just sounded like what we both wanted. We did meet up at mine and within a few minutes we were ripping each others clothes off and had a fantastic hour of hot steaming sex. I thought all was well and we would meet up again. At 1 am in the morning I got a text from her partner he had found out what was going on and was hoping mad about it all he had found all our hot texts on her phone when he pick it up while she was asleep. The next thing I know is I got a threating message on Fad Swingers and then got blocked. I don't know if this lady is still or has left. But I know she was a or is a gold member. I can not name her or slag her off or I will be in trouble but how can I warn other members about it. Thanks for reading. "

This is another reason why we don't arrange meets off the site and only play with others when we go to a club... this is meant to be fun...not aggravation....

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"This is one of many reasons I stay away from attached people, too much hassle if it goes wrong. "

agreed

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"This is one of many reasons I stay away from attached people, too much hassle if it goes wrong. "

Also this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drama stress and agrivation not my idea of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't seem to get a meet can anyone help please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just par for the course dude. I do have a couple of regular ladies who have partners...their partners know all about it and all about me.

One comes on her own to visit about once a fortnight. I have been and picked her up...her hubby waves us off.

The other her hubby brings her....sometimes leaves her, sometimes stays in another room and has a brew.

Always best to make sure the OH knows if possible. Although I do have another friend whose hubby doesn't know lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

loads of single profiles where they are actually attached - and naming and shaming her wouldnt solve anything (if it was allowed) as it was probably her other half not her good self that messaged you -

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

She was stupid. That's what PIN numbers are for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't seem to get a meet can anyone help please "

Start your own thread maybe and unhide your profile, might help!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I can't seem to get a meet can anyone help please

Start your own thread maybe and unhide your profile, might help!"

He did start his own thread and the profiles been hidden as some members google reverse searched is images and most were fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't seem to get a meet can anyone help please

Start your own thread maybe and unhide your profile, might help!

He did start his own thread and the profiles been hidden as some members google reverse searched is images and most were fake "

Yeah I just saw that after I posted, whoops!

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