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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I am also looking for social meets that make single men welcome in my area. Had trouble with the Camberley social where the host didn't make new comers welcome by not looking out for any newbies in a crowded pub.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I am also looking for social meets that make single men welcome in my area. Had trouble with the Camberley social where the host didn't make new comers welcome by not looking out for any newbies in a crowded pub."

How would the host have known you were a swinger?

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I am also looking for social meets that make single men welcome in my area. Had trouble with the Camberley social where the host didn't make new comers welcome by not looking out for any newbies in a crowded pub.

How would the host have known you were a swinger? "

Perhaps people were wearing hats eith the word swingers on them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's getting boring on here. Nothing's happening for me. It seems that either women don't want to talk to me in the form of message deleted, or I don't know how to talk to women. Looking for a social/club that allows beginner single men in dorset. However the attitude towards single men is so hostile. What do I do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am also looking for social meets that make single men welcome in my area. Had trouble with the Camberley social where the host didn't make new comers welcome by not looking out for any newbies in a crowded pub."

Its hard enough organising events as it is. Maybe you should of made more of an effort and integrated yourself with the group. People volunteer to organise events. Threads like this could put peopke off organising in the future if people are so ungrateful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to correct you. The person who organises that any many other socials, is very welcoming to newbies lost in the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am also looking for social meets that make single men welcome in my area. Had trouble with the Camberley social where the host didn't make new comers welcome by not looking out for any newbies in a crowded pub."

Is it not down to yourself introducing yourself to people, whys it someone else's responsibility?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's getting boring on here. Nothing's happening for me. It seems that either women don't want to talk to me in the form of message deleted, or I don't know how to talk to women. Looking for a social/club that allows beginner single men in dorset. However the attitude towards single men is so hostile. What do I do?"

Do you fully read profiles before sending a message? Reason I ask is because most men don't, they message me, don't match my requirements then moan when I don't reply.

As for hostile attitude, where's? I'm very polite to those that do take the time to read my profile, I chat to plenty, those I've met, yet to met, and those never likely to meet but firmed a good friendship with.

Too many men moan is what I'm noticing from forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am also looking for social meets that make single men welcome in my area. Had trouble with the Camberley social where the host didn't make new comers welcome by not looking out for any newbies in a crowded pub.

Its hard enough organising events as it is. Maybe you should of made more of an effort and integrated yourself with the group. People volunteer to organise events. Threads like this could put peopke off organising in the future if people are so ungrateful. "

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

If you were a newbie to the scene, why not supply a mobile number to the organiser? They can let you have theirs if they want, or maybe tell you what they will be wearing. I've been to several socials when I haven't known anyone, never had a problem finding the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's getting boring on here. Nothing's happening for me. It seems that either women don't want to talk to me in the form of message deleted, or I don't know how to talk to women. Looking for a social/club that allows beginner single men in dorset. However the attitude towards single men is so hostile. What do I do?

Do you fully read profiles before sending a message? Reason I ask is because most men don't, they message me, don't match my requirements then moan when I don't reply.

As for hostile attitude, where's? I'm very polite to those that do take the time to read my profile, I chat to plenty, those I've met, yet to met, and those never likely to meet but firmed a good friendship with.

Too many men moan is what I'm noticing from forums "

In fairness I've only been here three months. Yes I read women's profiles and message accordingly..... & watch it get deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am also looking for social meets that make single men welcome in my area. Had trouble with the Camberley social where the host didn't make new comers welcome by not looking out for any newbies in a crowded pub."

Not very discreet naming the actual event, wouldn't take a genius to work out who the organiser was and you're kind of slating them in a public forum. You need to make yourself known.

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