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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the best way to go about organising a mmf? With decent genuine guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at cpls or single fems verifications

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Still looking for the right guys.... 6 years on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I accept that. Take it on board. Added a little extra at the end now but will look at rewording tomorrow. Any help accepted x

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I accept that. Take it on board. Added a little extra at the end now but will look at rewording tomorrow. Any help accepted x"

There you go, that last paragraph you added changes the tone completely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All in a sentence....not just a pretty face x

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"All in a sentence....not just a pretty face x"

I'll have to take your word on that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pm me can show you x

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Pm me can show you x"

I can confirm you are easy on the eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See the women understand x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmf, as in the guys play together as well? i'm having no problems arranging mfm but yeah finding guys for mmf is hard work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not really them playing together if they don't want, but I don't mind if they do. It doesn't bother me. The guys I know who have friends that help out, all there mates are now in relationships, so now I'm trying to look through here. It's hard! Who would of thought?! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh I see what you mean, either or for me I just want two men to devour ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I see what you mean, either or for me I just want two men to devour ??"

Yeah mmf tends to mean the guys also play with each other and mfm means the guys focus on the lady.

I just meet guys who have mates they can bring along, i also have on my status that i'm into 3sums so guys know to contact me or ask me about this, and have it on here that i'm looking for MM in my settings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add MM to this: Looking For

Couples (MF) Men

And mention it on your profile about 3sums (making it clear which 3sums you like or else you'll get loads of messages about ffm and fmf lol), single guy meets will probably have mates who wanna fuck you as well, mine do, and coz they know you're up for 3sums they'll mention it. Well hopefully it works for you, has been for me and it's not been up on my profile for long.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd rather with men I've met before and a mate because you already know them....would be my first one but been dying to try for ages! So the quest goes on! Lol. It'll be worth it in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather with men I've met before and a mate because you already know them....would be my first one but been dying to try for ages! So the quest goes on! Lol. It'll be worth it in the end "

OK. Good luck.

I meet the guys on their own then they mention their mate when leaving usually, it's a nice surprise on their way out lol.

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK


"What's the best way to go about organising a mmf? With decent genuine guys x"

More than happy to be one of the decent guys. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been looking for a while for the m in my either mfm or mmf. It's hard work! I think the elusive m is going to be 2 different men for both scenarios!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's also nothing that I would organise easily. It's more complicated, for me, than a mff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went with two friends with benefits, they have similar jobs, so thought well at least there's common ground, for a MMF and when I had a MFMM I just kidnapped them from a club along with the guy I'd gone out with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah mmf tends to mean the guys also play with each other and mfm means the guys focus on the lady."

Well, I've been on here for about 8 years and I never realised that. Fair play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All in a sentence....not just a pretty face x"

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By *egs1194Man
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Still looking for the right guys.... 6 years on "
you havn't looked hard enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding 2 decent men!!!!!! We struggle to find one.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

Go along to a club on a single guys night or bi night, get a private room, should have no problem realising your fantasy

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Oh I see what you mean, either or for me I just want two men to devour ??

Yeah mmf tends to mean the guys also play with each other and mfm means the guys focus on the lady

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Does it? Never heard that before. Mmf or mfm is just the same to me which ever way around it is. I dont look for men who play together.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Still looking for the right guys.... 6 years on you havn't looked hard enough "

Oh i have. Ive even been part of a couple on here and looked but still didnt find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I see what you mean, either or for me I just want two men to devour ??"

Love the way you put things

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Choose 2 of your male friends who have similar mindsets and ask if they would be happy to help you out with a fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at bestofboth500, both lovely guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a look at cpls or single fems verifications"

As she is looking for two men I can't see how that would be useful unless you mean to contact people who have given single women veris?????? I myself always use clubs for this. Can weigh up the goods, check their fingernails and take them off to a room within earshot of others in case they do something you don't like. Had many MMFs, MMMFs and more with this method

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the best way to go about organising a mmf? With decent genuine guys x"
just ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a look at cpls or single fems verifications

As she is looking for two men I can't see how that would be useful unless you mean to contact people who have given single women veris?????? I myself always use clubs for this. Can weigh up the goods, check their fingernails and take them off to a room within earshot of others in case they do something you don't like. Had many MMFs, MMMFs and more with this method "

Check their fingernails

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

If you want a MMF, I'd advise organising a gangbang, then with any luck at least 2 of them will turn up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, if you want "decent genuine guys" I'd say you need to put some pics on your profile and re-word it so you don't come across like a demanding bitch.

Anyone who messages you with your profile as it is now will have an 'any hole's a goal' attitude."

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"What's the best way to go about organising a mmf? With decent genuine guys x"

I've read the full thread and you come across on this thread a lot nicer than your profile makes you seem.

Also there are no pics so I'd have no idea whether I'd actually find you attractive or not.

If you want to meet genuine, nice guys, as opposed to the "any holed a goal" guys then you have to put as much effort into it as the guys who are genuine and nice do.

Hope this helps pineapple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A public pretty face pic would help and message a few guys u find attractive. If you like the sound of them and how they come across then great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op is there anyone that's posted here that's taken your fancy, their has been a few guys so you could start your search there.

If you want to be the centre of attention and if you're attractive then a message and chat to guys could gauge their interest, some will some won't.

G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a look at cpls or single fems verifications"
lol she is after single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding 2 decent men!!!!!! We struggle to find one."

You surprise me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the best way to go about organising a mmf? With decent genuine guys x"

Its really not hard

Go through profiles, message guys you like, chat, when you find two you like ask them if they would like to join you for a 3sum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still looking for the right guys.... 6 years on "

Who are you looking for two millionaire body builders

All the guys on here and your telling me in 6 years you havnt found two that you'd like a 3sum with?

Seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think she do get loads of offers tho

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By *egs1194Man
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Still looking for the right guys.... 6 years on you havn't looked hard enough

Oh i have. Ive even been part of a couple on here and looked but still didnt find. "
you know where to find me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any I've had with my mate have been accidental,met up with a few people and has just dropped into conversation somehow..and hey presto!! lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to socials n see which guys u fancy and if they click well with any other guys you fancy there...then openly suggest some three way fun. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest checking veris single guys that are recommend. Picking two random guys in a club may end with two guys who jump on and jump off and then make their excuses and leave rather than staying and playing and making it a sensual experience for you not to be forgotten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the best way to go about organising a mmf? With decent genuine guys x"

We get those requests all the time but don't want them..I'll pass them on to you lol. Darcy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the best way to go about organising a mmf? With decent genuine guys x"

Message me we go on the hunt! Jpb done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding 2 decent men!!!!!! We struggle to find one.

You surprise me!!"
believe us it is not as was as you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy not was bloody auto correct

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Still looking for the right guys.... 6 years on

Who are you looking for two millionaire body builders

All the guys on here and your telling me in 6 years you havnt found two that you'd like a 3sum with?

Seriously "

Unlike some people on here, i would never just go and meet 2 guys. Id much rather meet 2 that i may of met before or at least one of them. Also quite a number of my meets live quite far away. So getting 2 i already know together would be quite hard.

To be honest, it can be hard finding meets anyway. Everyone always thinks coz your a single fem you have the upper hand. Well i guess some do if they are willing to meet anyone. Thats not me, im picky and wont appologise for that. Ive tried the chat in the afternoon and meet that night..it was the worst experience of my life!!!

Many times I've put meets up and had no replies because i cant accom. I have suggested hotel meets in the past to but nothing. Also meets at theres but it seems nobody accoms either lol.. Yes, there are clubs too..which ive also posted looking for someone to go to clubs with... Again nothing. I wouldn't rock up to a club on my own..i just haven't got the confidence for it.

Btw.. I aint moaning.. Just airing my view

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I have lots of MMF, MMMF and even MMMMMFF fun - in fact it's our favourite part of this lifestyle. However it's always in the clubs where it's both safe and easy to organise. There are always plenty of willing single men and male halves of couples to oblige. As a single woman I suspect it would be the best option for you - and cheap as most clubs allow single women free entry.

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