FabSwingers.com forum: How important is Cumming

By *rank Einstein OP Man
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Hey all, so somethings been bothering me for years and I haven't really had anyone to ask about and just realised the swinging community is open regarding sequel matters so it'd be a place.

Anyway my question is how important is male evacuation? Especially at social events etc. See, for as long as I remember I've had problems reaching climax but over the years I've come to accept it. I can stay erect with a woman and pictures of naked men do nothing for me so I'm sure I'm not gay.

So, is a guy expected to cum in a swinging environment with one on one, group sessions, parties etc?

Sub note I've literally had on and off sex for 3 hours before calling it quits before. And I can cum it's just rare that I do so would that ever cause an issue?

Any comments/opinions would be great, thanks in advance.

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By *rank Einstein OP Man
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Oh almost forgot, my balance is ensuring the woman I'm with experiences climax I'm just not so terribly fussed about reaching one myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would depend on the woman. Mr can play in a club all night with a variety of women.. And just not cum. It's nothing to do with the women. Or him not being able too.. he just doesnt.

Most women haven't seemed to have minded or even mentioned it.

I however find it hard to reach satisfaction If a guy didn't cum as for me its the ultimate finish and it does it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I however find it hard to reach satisfaction If a guy didn't cum as for me its the ultimate finish and it does it for me "

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By *rank Einstein OP Man
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Ah, that's what I was worried about. Thank you for your input.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyway my question is how important is male evacuation?"

You meant ejaculation. Evacuation sounds like scat. Which is a completely different question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How strange you should have posted this at almost the exact time I was thinking about something of a similar nature. For some reason today I got thinking about the times when men have said they don't come from certain sex acts-receiving oral,woman on top,anal etc. It made me wonder if it was an apology or they don't want something that doesn't make them come. Do they not enjoy the experience of the touch if ejaculation isn't the end result. I like doing them,I don't have to have an end result of the man coming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I knew that was the situation upfront I would be more than ok with it as I would know it wasn't because I had failed to push the right buttons x

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By *aitMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I have the same "problem". But I always use a condom, and waggle Little Wrinkly when it seems appropriate. They never notice!

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By *rank Einstein OP Man
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"Anyway my question is how important is male evacuation?

You meant ejaculation. Evacuation sounds like scat. Which is a completely different question."

You spotted an auto correct mistake, well done. If you don't have anything of value to add kindly keep your comments to yourself.

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By *rank Einstein OP Man
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"How strange you should have posted this at almost the exact time I was thinking about something of a similar nature. For some reason today I got thinking about the times when men have said they don't come from certain sex acts-receiving oral,woman on top,anal etc. It made me wonder if it was an apology or they don't want something that doesn't make them come. Do they not enjoy the experience of the touch if ejaculation isn't the end result. I like doing them,I don't have to have an end result of the man coming."

I'm not sure to be honest that's a different topic I think, mine is all round even though I do enjoy the act

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By *rank Einstein OP Man
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"If I knew that was the situation upfront I would be more than ok with it as I would know it wasn't because I had failed to push the right buttons x"

Thank you, with that in mind do you think it would be a good idea to disclose it on my profile or via message in advance?

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By *rank Einstein OP Man
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"I have the same "problem". But I always use a condom, and waggle Little Wrinkly when it seems appropriate. They never notice!"

I've thought of that but was worried about it being spotted or the asked to cum on face/breasts scenario coming up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I knew that was the situation upfront I would be more than ok with it as I would know it wasn't because I had failed to push the right buttons x

Thank you, with that in mind do you think it would be a good idea to disclose it on my profile or via message in advance?"

I think pre meet chat via personal message. We have met a couple of people with similar circumstances and they chose to do it face to face but I would have been happy discussing it remotely as well.

Didn't stop us meeting

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By *atsnCorsetsCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hey male of the couple typing here. I've had the same problem a few years back and I went to the Doctors over it. I was told it was a condition called anorgasmia. I had major surgery and it threw my hormones in to a muddle and that resulted in anorgasmia. It did however take me a while to get my Doctor to take me seriously as he said I should be thankful of "Super Stamina." So I swapped GPs...

I couldn't cum no matter how much I wanted to from anything. I had some women (I was single at the time) get really offended that I couldn't cum whilst others were completely accepting.

If it's a concern asking your GP is always a sound option or feel free to message us for advice. It's a very real problem that a lot of people just don't take seriously.

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't always reach orgasm during sex . . I've never cum from receiving oral only.

That doesn't mean I don't enjoy it.

I look on it like a train journey, I enjoy the scenery as much than getting to the station.

I also get my kicks from knowing and seeing the other persons involved are having a ball. . . . Or two

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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