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Does my profile need attention, what impression do you get?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anything I can change on my profile?

What impression do you get?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you thought about being taller?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes change your status lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

The fact that your header says just looking might make people not bother reading the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I didn't get to the profile because the status was a bit moany and thats a non starter for me

Im sure you'll look good in your suit at the Attic though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi.

I can't even remember writing the "just looking" header lol

Must of been when I first joined when I was dipping my toe in the water lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Anything I can change on my profile?

What impression do you get? "

Nice photos you're an attractive man. Your status is negative and your profile gives me the impression that you expect women to be swayed by clothes and cars but that might just be me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take out the moany bit and just leave the attic suit bit.

And yep be taller - most women apparently here want tall guys?! There's a few threads about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah see I am really into the car scene, modifying etc, it's just one of my hobbies, I just thought I'd I desercribed a few of my hobbies it would help me to connect with people.

I guess I'm used to normal dating sites, where you tend to tell as much about you as possible.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Anything I can change on my profile?

What impression do you get?

Nice photos you're an attractive man. Your status is negative and your profile gives me the impression that you expect women to be swayed by clothes and cars but that might just be me. "

Not just you: my thoughts too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you. I have corrected that bit.

Not sure what else to say lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ah see I am really into the car scene, modifying etc, it's just one of my hobbies, I just thought I'd I desercribed a few of my hobbies it would help me to connect with people.

I guess I'm used to normal dating sites, where you tend to tell as much about you as possible. "

I'm not suggesting for a minute that you'd want to meet us but imagine the scene, I drive Mr N crazy trying to decide what to wear, shower, groom, use expensive perfume and stockings that cost a fortune and can only be worn once, we turn up and you and Mr N discuss cars over drinks......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why wouldn't I meet you? You look lovely

But yeah I see the point your getting at. I have removed that bit from my profile.

I guess everyone is here to swing, not discuss hobbies and things in common lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well to meet up with new people, see where it leads. Would like to have a regular 1-1 buddy, rather than millions of notches on the bed post I guess. But who knows lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why wouldn't I meet you? You look lovely

But yeah I see the point your getting at. I have removed that bit from my profile.

I guess everyone is here to swing, not discuss hobbies and things in common lol. "

Don't get me wrong we enjoy getting to know people and talking about what interests them but your profile is your shop window, discussing common ground comes later....apart from sexual common ground of course. .

Ps. Mr N would discuss cars all night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha thank you.

Out of interest. What car do you guys have lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Haha thank you.

Out of interest. What car do you guys have lol"

Lol. Don't get me started, let's just say the turbo on mine is playing up and the bill looks like it might be a hefty one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Depends if you know a mechanic. Refurbished turbos can be found as little as 200 pounds. There not hard to fit at all

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Depends if you know a mechanic. Refurbished turbos can be found as little as 200 pounds. There not hard to fit at all "

It's a sensor we think not the entire thing.......damn you've got me talking about cars now .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ooops my bad lol

sorry :D

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"ooops my bad lol

sorry :D"

Have a great time at The Attic, good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you,

im going with no expectations, just suited and booted. chill in the jacoozie and just mingle with people.

not sure what time to arrive though lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"thank you,

im going with no expectations, just suited and booted. chill in the jacoozie and just mingle with people.

not sure what time to arrive though lol"

That's the best way to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well to meet up with new people, see where it leads. Would like to have a regular 1-1 buddy, rather than millions of notches on the bed post I guess. But who knows lol "

So are you a swinger, or is this just something to do between girlfriends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must have changed it all because it looks fine to me..and the taller comments..what does that matter when your on all fours or laying down lol.

Your a good looking bloke so you will do fine. Darcy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well to meet up with new people, see where it leads. Would like to have a regular 1-1 buddy, rather than millions of notches on the bed post I guess. But who knows lol

So are you a swinger, or is this just something to do between girlfriends?"

Are you having a bad day? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well I am new to this, I joined ages ago, I guess im just finding my feet. I wouldn't say I was a swinger really as not had much experience in the swinging community

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U did this last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well to meet up with new people, see where it leads. Would like to have a regular 1-1 buddy, rather than millions of notches on the bed post I guess. But who knows lol

So are you a swinger, or is this just something to do between girlfriends?"

Are singles swingers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just marking time between relationships i guess.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What cars have you got, OP?

And my question is (being an adult club virgin): if you wear your nice suit to The Attic, do you take it off to have sex? If yes, do you hang it up nicely and walk to whereever ya gonna shag in ya undies or what?

It's not concerning per se, but I do worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What cars have you got, OP?

And my question is (being an adult club virgin): if you wear your nice suit to The Attic, do you take it off to have sex? If yes, do you hang it up nicely and walk to whereever ya gonna shag in ya undies or what?

It's not concerning per se, but I do worry. "

LOL

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By *ordic36Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I guess it's up to ladies to comment this one. I might have chosen a different picture but even the one you have there shows that you're rather handsome, your profile says enough about you to have intitial feeling you're trustworthy. You may need to explain why you can't accomodate to get the red flag of "possibly attached" off yourself...and you're already verified which is another plus.

You'r profile is nicely above average man, nothing is screaming there as "wrong" and what can I say - as a single, stay on the club scene first and fab scene second and you'll be just fine. You'll be one of those guys people wanna see again after the first meet. Good luck man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it's up to ladies to comment this one. I might have chosen a different picture but even the one you have there shows that you're rather handsome, your profile says enough about you to have intitial feeling you're trustworthy. You may need to explain why you can't accomodate to get the red flag of "possibly attached" off yourself...and you're already verified which is another plus.

You'r profile is nicely above average man, nothing is screaming there as "wrong" and what can I say - as a single, stay on the club scene first and fab scene second and you'll be just fine. You'll be one of those guys people wanna see again after the first meet. Good luck man!

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I'm a bit of a saddo putting this but I'm gonna anyway lol..what a great post from one guy to another lol..nice to read a Positive comment. Darcy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I agree. Thanks everyone for all the help and advice.

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