FabSwingers.com forum: What makes you push the 'report' button?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm pretty easy going when it comes down to it, but in the last few days I've pushed 'report' twice. Once because someone was trying to give me money to convince me to meet for coffee, and another because someone send me really foul insults for saying 'I'm sorry, I'm not interested' after sending a dozen messages back and forth.

So what is it that makes you click the 'report to admin' button?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abusive messages. I was taught that if you didn't have anything nice to say, don't say it.

When I didn't reply to somebody I wasn't interested in this morning, they called me ignorant. I explained the above, and they called me "CUNT FACE!"

Click.

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

Abusive message make me press report button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was reported once for calling someone a twat when they sent me abuse after a refusal and since then every nasty message is reported

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By *ogue78Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

messages?? what are they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair i have only had to do it a couple of times since joining.

Normally if someone has got personal, one particular lady rained nasty abuse to us for having an opinion in messages.

we are online and adults not kids in a playground for christ sake.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More inclined to hit report if someone offers us incentives to meet rather than a rare childish insult as we simply just block them.

Have reported a few profiles where the torso shots don't match the head shots after a quick reverse image search revealing the torso belongs to someone else usually a fitness model or pornstar.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Single men who post photographs in which they hide their own face but clearly show the face of a woman. Not only is this grossly unfair and against Fab rules, it is also potentially breaking the law under the new "revenge porn" laws.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Very little but children in photos, people other than the op who can be clearly identified in photos, outright nasty racism and abuse in messages. I rarely report abuse in the forums I think it should remain where it is so that people can see what the person is like.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Pictures nicked from the web drive me insane so I always report those if I come across them

Very rarely needed to report abuse,I have reported for innapropriate messages such as taboo stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abusive messages (not tbat we get many). We don't receive messages with incentives to meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing anyone says has made me report them,not that I remember anyway. I didn't run to mummy when I was a child,I'm not doing it as an adult. I would report someone who made new profiles to send abuse. Not because the abuse bothers me but to let them know there are consequences for their actions. I have reported a couple of profiles where they have said on here as a single now,don't know how to change from couple to single. Helping them out

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"I'm pretty easy going when it comes down to it, but in the last few days I've pushed 'report' twice. Once because someone was trying to give me money to convince me to meet for coffee, and another because someone send me really foul insults for saying 'I'm sorry, I'm not interested' after sending a dozen messages back and forth.

So what is it that makes you click the 'report to admin' button?"

In future, if someone offers you cash to have a coffee with them please direct them to me.

I'm more than happy to be paid to knock back a cappuccino with someone. Travel costs required too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Abusive messages (not tbat we get many). We don't receive messages with incentives to meet!

Your missing out. Messages like that usually correlate with pub closing time.

Never got round to asking what the incentive is? For risk of feeling undervalued.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a problem with abusive messages, though I might just be very thick skinned. I have reported obvious soliciting when I have come across it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what is it that makes you click the 'report to admin' button?

In future, if someone offers you cash to have a coffee with them please direct them to me.

I'm more than happy to be paid to knock back a cappuccino with someone. Travel costs required too."

Or she could say ok and you both turn up. If he was serious that would give him a nice shock

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Very rarely hit the report button but if we do, it's generally for inappropriate content.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Net pics irritate me a lot. I found one the other day, where she had a mixture of net pics and one's that may have been genuine. She was meet verified by a few people, so I thought she had improved her look by nicking pics. Reported her. Not gone yet, though.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

People passing off pictures that aren't them as their own. Guys or 'girls' messaging me from single profiles asking me to meet them as a couple or vice versa. Persistent abuse after I've said no. People offering me financial incentives to meet them. I don't spend my life reporting but I assume if people flout the site rules attempting to contact me then they'll do the same to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Net pics irritate me a lot. I found one the other day, where she had a mixture of net pics and one's that may have been genuine. She was meet verified by a few people, so I thought she had improved her look by nicking pics. Reported her. Not gone yet, though."

I reported a whole profile as being fake with stolen pics. I knew he was fake as I'd been approached by him years ago on a Facebook app and did my research. He had a whole life around this American body builder,who had a Twitter account and blogged almost daily on his website. I'd forgotten about reporting him,and he was cam verified which made me laugh. He was 150 miles from me according to fab gps,while the real man was tweeting from America that day

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Only used it a couple of times, the first being where a guy using a fake couples profile posted our username and my place of work in the status update, because Mr hadn't replied to his last couple of messages within half an hour.

The other time was for a fake profile as well, if I remember correctly. Unless messages are ridiculously abusive, we just delete and block

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I report abusive messages, not because I was affected by it but because I know that there are many out there that aren't as thick skinned as I am, and would take offence if they received something petty. So if I report him (normally a him) then he may be removed before he can abuse someone else.

I have also reported people who send me a private pic with their message which isn't of them (I am pretty sure Prince Harry isn't on here although he did send me his pic) I couldn't report the pic as it wasn't public so I reported the message.

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

Nothing...so far!

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

Same really. I've got a thick skin but some offensive messages really do warrant a report to admin.

Plus any offers to pay me for sex or if I see anyone offering generally to buy sexual services.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

The only time I've reported was when someone sent my message wanting to dress me up as a school girl and chase after me in the woods. If I had some kind of kink displayed on my profile that I like to dress up or be "attacked" then fair enough, but I dont.

Just found it creepy. Don't know if anything was done as I blocked him straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since my profile says that I only go for black men, I get a lot of racist comments/abuse from people who aren't black so I definitely report those type. I also report people who are using fake pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time I post in the forums I then have to fight back the urge to report myself

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I report anything I see as being against the ethos of the site i.e. people choosing the wrong sex, people I suspect are not what they claim to be, photo's stolen from websites.

It's only by us reporting these things that Admin can do anything about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually for "borrowing" photos off other sites, naming someone in a status in a derogatory way or a couple on a single guy profile.

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By *ilkynmyzzyCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington

For the first in a long time we've just reported a profile due to one of the pics they have. How it's been approved is mind boggling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I report anything I see as being against the ethos of the site i.e. people choosing the wrong sex, people I suspect are not what they claim to be, photo's stolen from websites.

It's only by us reporting these things that Admin can do anything about it."

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

I report the profiles with the fake pics. It's so annoying! If something looks too good to be true, it usually is!!

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Not reported many, but most recent one was a female profile whose profiles pics looked as if she was about 15 - maybe she was very young looking, but better to be safe etc….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pictures nicked from the web drive me insane so I always report those if I come across them

Very rarely needed to report abuse,I have reported for innapropriate messages such as taboo stuff

this

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

1 fake profile, 1 no-show, and 1 abusive stalker several times!

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

I've reported three.

All were no shows, one of them after a week of messaging and I went to the expense of a hotel room and he pretended he was coming right up until he was still 'stuck in traffic 15 miles away' an hour after he was supposed to have arrived. Funny how his mobile was within half a mile.

One of the others actually sent me to someone elses hotel room, I think as revenge for them being messed around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake pictures. Even worse when the non verified fake profiles have pictures of people you know.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Lunchtime today when a random guy wanted to pay me to 'perform' in front of him.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fems who say they're single, but then try and reel you into a couple meet. Grrr.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

People in top photos who have cropped water marks off of other people's pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything illegal. Fake profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've done it yet. Had a few messages calling me a dickhead in responce to forum posts etc but didn't bother reporting.....they were pretty accurate to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet he is on here. I wouldn't put it past him.

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By *-elleWoman
over a year ago

Romford

"More inclined to hit report if someone offers us incentives to meet rather than a rare childish insult as we simply just block them.

Have reported a few profiles where the torso shots don't match the head shots after a quick reverse image search revealing the torso belongs to someone else usually a fitness model or pornstar. "
I had a friend advise me that someone had a profile with a couple of my fab pics, including a face pic, I reported them and the account was removed same day, but what if my mate never noticed... They could have been getting away with it right now...that felt very odd.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I always report photos taken from the web, and singles profiles that state they only meet as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abusive messages, those who are single but clearly state they only play with their partner present, those who admit they aren't the age their profile says and those who clearly look a whole lot younger than their profile age

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By *ire meet GasolineCouple
over a year ago

Reading

We have only ever reported one- a "lady" messaged us, but for whatever reason, it just didn't feel right, so I googled their image and found it was a still from a porn film.. Asked them to send us a face pic, and she blocked us!! I made a complaint to admin - the profile is the same, but the photos are now gone x

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"I report anything I see as being against the ethos of the site i.e. people choosing the wrong sex, people I suspect are not what they claim to be, photo's stolen from websites.

It's only by us reporting these things that Admin can do anything about it."

What do you mean choosing the wrong sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I report anything I see as being against the ethos of the site i.e. people choosing the wrong sex, people I suspect are not what they claim to be, photo's stolen from websites.

It's only by us reporting these things that Admin can do anything about it.

What do you mean choosing the wrong sex?"

Claiming to be a single female or couple when really they are a single male

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I reported someone on another site who was using pictures stolen from the web. I ququickly found they belonged to a Thai model. The person still claimed to be female and that the Thai photos were representative of what they wanted to do. In the end they admitted to being male, I reported them but they are still there!

Nearly reported someone on here for arranging a meet then asking me for £50 "towards car tax". But they had 28 good verifications by meet sp I just put it down to a one off and blocked them.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

So what is it that makes you click the 'report to admin' button?"

You too?

But mine wasn't after coffee; well atleast I don't think so

Reported him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Creepy guys who want to impregnate you with the pet dog. Report & run away from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually report if a profile isnt what it says it is - or in here if its getting out of hand but then i think admin probably get dozens of red lights flashing at the same time - not had to do it often i might add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I reported someone on another site who was using pictures stolen from the web. I ququickly found they belonged to a Thai model. The person still claimed to be female and that the Thai photos were representative of what they wanted to do. In the end they admitted to being male, I reported them but they are still there!

Nearly reported someone on here for arranging a meet then asking me for £50 "towards car tax". But they had 28 good verifications by meet sp I just put it down to a one off and blocked them."

28 x £50,not a bad little earner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what is it that makes you click the 'report to admin' button?"

Iv not had to report anyone.... Yet

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Abusive messages, those who are single but clearly state they only play with their partner present, those who admit they aren't the age their profile says and those who clearly look a whole lot younger than their profile age"

Ha. At least half the profiles would disappear if you were banned for lying about your age.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"Nothing anyone says has made me report them,not that I remember anyway. I didn't run to mummy when I was a child,I'm not doing it as an adult. I would report someone who made new profiles to send abuse. Not because the abuse bothers me but to let them know there are consequences for their actions. I have reported a couple of profiles where they have said on here as a single now,don't know how to change from couple to single. Helping them out

but its not about running to mammy though, its about everyone doing there bit to help the site out, we dont report willy nilly but anything blatantly breaking the rules or abusive or fake we report.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Haven't had to report any one yet but have been close. Blokes hassling for a meet mainly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only reported one profile but I've never had the need to report someone on a person level as yet, and I hope this doesn't change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I report anything I see as being against the ethos of the site i.e. people choosing the wrong sex, people I suspect are not what they claim to be, photo's stolen from websites.

It's only by us reporting these things that Admin can do anything about it.

What do you mean choosing the wrong sex?

Claiming to be a single female or couple when really they are a single male"

This. And pics with faces on show (not the profile owner). Haven't reported mail for over a year. I just get nice mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single men who post photographs in which they hide their own face but clearly show the face of a woman. Not only is this grossly unfair and against Fab rules, it is also potentially breaking the law under the new "revenge porn" laws."

Usually fab makes you blur the face out i know it used to in the past esp if its a singles profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women asking for a veri before we had met and then she said she would return the favour i reported and blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but its not about running to mammy though, its about everyone doing there bit to help the site out, we dont report willy nilly but anything blatantly breaking the rules or abusive or fake we report."

I'm not talking about abusive messages. I've read of people reporting because they didn't like something they said on the forum. I can let things slide so I would never report for that. When children weren't very nice to me as a child I did the same thing.

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I've reported once. It was a female with very clear pix of children in the background. I just thought it was wholly inappropriate for this type of site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Female profiles that say they only meet with partner or couple profile that is clearly just a male. Not had any abusive messages yet

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By *aderewskiMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I ve read a lot of comments saying abusive messages make them click the report button. It must be the anonymity of the Internet that makes them brave enough to Send abusive messages. I wonder how they must behave in their family settings

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

but its not about running to mammy though, its about everyone doing there bit to help the site out, we dont report willy nilly but anything blatantly breaking the rules or abusive or fake we report.

we can also let little things slide, agree with you there, no need to report every little thing, but if someone is breaking site rules or fake surely its kind of a duty to help the site and report them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've reported once. It was a female with very clear pix of children in the background. I just thought it was wholly inappropriate for this type of site."

we were chatting to some newbies and their pics had large photos on the wall of their children - mentioned it to them and they said oh right - but left them there -

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I've reported every single female whom I consider to be attractive for not messaging me begging for my cock. They all appear to still have active profiles

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By *mooth8Man
over a year ago

s hertfordshire

I never used to report anyone even tho some people think it ok to be abusive just because your a guy. I've since started to report 'no shows' abuse and 'dodgy' profiles like the porn site disguised as a single fem who was trying to get guys to put credit card details onto a Web form! Yes really. Apart from that reporting someone is a waste of time as admin are very weak in dealing with the perpetrators but take the easy route and suspend people who retaliate. It's like some teachers... punish the victim and ignore the bully.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've found Admin to be pretty swift at dealing with issues in the main.

I'm curious at their policy for dealing with partial fakes - those genuine and longstanding profiles, who have just added a few netpics to the true ones.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

You only have to breathe within my galactic atmosphere...

- Amy. x

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"I've found Admin to be pretty swift at dealing with issues in the main.

I'm curious at their policy for dealing with partial fakes - those genuine and longstanding profiles, who have just added a few netpics to the true ones. "

Oh dear..happened once...the pic is definitely not his, but he is verified by loads of couples by hosting parties.

I still unsure whether to report or not.

Ive reported those who asked for money.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

I reported someone who sent us more than one message offering us increasingly rediculous amounts of money for "travel" (and I mean, like, £100-300 - he lived less than 10 miles away).

I don't think anything could be done though because he was smart in how he worded it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men who pretend to be 18 year old girls who probaly put (dressed) pictures of their daughters up should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had to report anyone thankfully, but have pressed the block button a few times for people who can't take no for an answer or that have been weird or abusive.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't now..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reported a couple of fake profiles for stealing my pics and posting them on there own profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abusive messages, stolen photos/fake profiles when evidence exists of the latter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have reported a few times a profile who is basically running a prostitution racket. Has his two girls in a flat and charges men £80 to come to his two girl parties. Usually gets 10-20 men turn up. Still there though the last time I looked, still advertising those parties.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Abuse mostly,got told to f off for sating no thanks .I also reported a really rascist derogatory profile i saw .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude bullies in the forums that think they are gods gift to men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stalkers contacting all my veris telling them I was someone else. Then setting up fake accounts when everyone blocked them and carrying on

One guy regularly insulting some members on here, he wasn't so much naming and shaming as totally slagging them off.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i'll report anything... lol

abusive status updates...

naming and shaming...

clubs/people who advertise events in the wrong sections...

people who put up meet requests in the wrong section...

if something stands out and screams "wrong" to me... i'll report...

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

I've reported people for having pics on their profile which I know aren't them....sometimes because I was present when the pics were taken!

Chancers, fantastists and timewasters...can't be bothered with them.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

When a single F or M clearly states on there profiles that the partner will always be present to play....thats not being single...

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

I only click report for illegal suggestions. Which surprisingly, I get a lot of.

Anything abusive or insulting, I just block them. They don't even warrant my energy of filling out a report form.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only ever men I've clicked the button on, I don't think I've ever had abuse or problems with women or tv/ts

Even as a man, I can honestly say that there's an abundance of dicks on here (at least in my area) and I don't mean the erect kind

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Ive only reported one person,when I found out she was way under age.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Only done it once........when i was a newbie gave the guy my proper name and he became abit of a stalker. Blocked him but then he wrote on one of the threads my proper name

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Fake profiles.

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've hit the report button twice in the last month or so. Once from a guy who got really abusive using the c word aimed at me. All because he didn't like a reply to one of his posts.

The second time was a post containing a very racist remark.

I was surprised at mod hadn't spotted it before I did.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

In seven years I've only reported one message for being abusive. A picture of mine was rejected as too rude: it's similar to my avatar my hand is just lower. So for a day I looked at pictures and reported all that had objects inserted in arses! Petty and childish? You bet, but fair is fair and there should be consistency.

I don't report racist/homophobic etc threads. I like to see the particular moths that flock to the flame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

obvious fake photos

i reported someone using my pics once and put the profile in status

i was threatened with a ban before the offending pics were removed,balance it is???

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Reported twice and both for blatant racism.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

So what is it that makes you click the 'report to admin' button?"

We've reported someone who offered money for sex with Flik...they were also recommending drugs (of the non-prescription/over the counter variety)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They only person I reported was a bloke from Glasgow who copied my pics and put them on his own profile.that was only after me politely asking him to take them down

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Ive reported a guy once -

He agreed for a meet and then called from the train station (so he claimed) saying he's out of money and asked me to wire him some.

Report..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'll report anything... lol

abusive status updates...

naming and shaming...

clubs/people who advertise events in the wrong sections...

people who put up meet requests in the wrong section...

if something stands out and screams "wrong" to me... i'll report...

Snap! Admin can only change things if they know there is a problem.

I've hardly had any abusive messages since I stopped replying to those I had no interest in so it's been a while since I've needed to report one of those, but anything I see to be fake or misleading gets reported so it can be corrected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

reported one the other day - single fem - quite new but said had been on before - 3 pics one of a cock - messaged us but said her fella always there and plays hard - so really a couples profile - we did see the cock pic go before she blocked us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd report if there are other people with faces shown in their photos, especially if they go to the effort of hiding their own.

I also report if I reply to a meet today and suddenly find myself asked if I mind playing with a large group of guys and don't mind paying £50 to cover costs.

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By *ueenandworkerbeeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Surprised to hear how many of you guys have had abusive messages! We haven't had any... yet.

We've reported one profile however that seemed to just have conflicting information all over the place. For example they'd posted a meeting in the southwest where they were usually based despite the fact that they were apparently going to our club in Leeds that night - but we just thought they were a bit dim! They were asking for us to go on skype all day even though we said that we didn't like cams and were busy with family anyway. We also had verifications so we didn't see the point chatting when we were meeting them at a club that we'd pre arranged to go to before we even stared chatting with them. They let us down very last minute (which wasn't an issue for us anyway but still) and then when we'd left the club in the early hours they were still bugging us for skype?? After our report for non-meet (and them just being sooo annoying) we googled their phone number and it was linked to someone who lived in Rochdale. From now on that'll be our first step before meeting someone!

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