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Ex playmate not letting me show veri

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, I am after a little bit of advice, as I am confused lol...It don't take much

I was playing with a guy for about 5 months and he left me a wonderful verification, now that it's finished with him.. I showed it on my profile and he mailed me to take it down or he'll block me, he's adamant that I don't show it..Feel a bit baffled and hurt as there are a couple of other women who have a veri from him published on their profiles!? Is he ashamed ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems a bit weird - copy and paste it and put it in your profile - you dont have to name him - but he can block you and you havent lost it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With an attitude like his is be likely to hit the block button anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just respect his wishes. Only he can tell you his reasons

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport

I doubt anyone could be ashamed of you id just take it down and move on. As gutting as it is to lose a good verification I'm sure there's plenty more just round the corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd...if he feels such venom re the veri - why does he not just block you anyway.

S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I doubt anyone could be ashamed of you id just take it down and move on. As gutting as it is to lose a good verification I'm sure there's plenty more just round the corner "

Thanks !! Yeah perhaps I should just brush it off and move on! It just baffles me, I have taken it down off my profile as I respect his wishes but what difference does it make to him if it's there or not, I'm thinking he doesn't want other men I may potentially meet looking at his profile??

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"seems a bit weird - copy and paste it and put it in your profile - you dont have to name him - but he can block you and you havent lost it "

Last week i found a verification i had left a couple copied n pasted on the now single male half of the couples new profile. I didnt ask, i told him to take it off. He had no right putting it on there.

My advice would to either respect his wishes or if you really want to show it, let him block you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's over, with that attitude I would block him first!

He was obviously happy to leave the verification when you were playing, so if he has an issue with you displaying it now at least if you block him he can never show your veri at a later date?

Sounds like sour grapes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If he blocks me then will it still show on my veri list? I have only met three people off here and left them all great veri's.... And have in return three fab ones back..

Not one of those three people published my one's I left them... It's making me paranoid lol !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd just respect his wishes. Only he can tell you his reasons"
why leave a Veri in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he blocks me then will it still show on my veri list? I have only met three people off here and left them all great veri's.... And have in return three fab ones back..

Not one of those three people published my one's I left them... It's making me paranoid lol !! "
sorry to hear that xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will still stay on your summary.

I don't show any of my veris but that doesn't mean I don't appreciate them and enjoy reading them. Equally guys I have met don't always show mine and I can't say I'm bothered x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he blocks me then will it still show on my veri list? I have only met three people off here and left them all great veri's.... And have in return three fab ones back..

Not one of those three people published my one's I left them... It's making me paranoid lol !! "

Will still show on your verification list even if he blocks you or you block him. It is your choice if you leave it up or don't.

About the others don't worry loads are too lazy to go through their verifications and never put them up... Just go on and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he blocks me then will it still show on my veri list? I have only met three people off here and left them all great veri's.... And have in return three fab ones back..

Not one of those three people published my one's I left them... It's making me paranoid lol !! "

Sometimes people don't show their veris to stop drama with other people they're fucking. Wouldn't worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would take it down and not care why he wants it off. You could take it down and block him,out of sight out of mind. Don't worry about why he wants it off,focus on who you can meet in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually an ultimatum like that might prompt me to tell him to block me. I don't like threats in an form.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Get some bigger, badder, better veris OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would take it down and not care why he wants it off. You could take it down and block him,out of sight out of mind. Don't worry about why he wants it off,focus on who you can meet in the future "

Great advice, thank you very much xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he blocks me then will it still show on my veri list? I have only met three people off here and left them all great veri's.... And have in return three fab ones back..

Not one of those three people published my one's I left them... It's making me paranoid lol !! "

There are lots of reasons why people dont post their verifications hun. Some just like to keep what happened at a meet between the people who were there, some dont like other playmates to know who they have met previously because of potential drama etc.

As others have said, dont waste anymore time worrying about his reasons, just block him and move on.

He sounds like a proper bell end anyway, and after looking at your profile, I'm sure there'll be no shortage of peeps messaging for you to take your pick from!!

Dont let him drag you down. Juicy Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he blocks me then will it still show on my veri list? I have only met three people off here and left them all great veri's.... And have in return three fab ones back..

Not one of those three people published my one's I left them... It's making me paranoid lol !! "

No if you block the veri will be hidden and any you have given to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd just respect his wishes. Only he can tell you his reasons"

This

We have met a few who prefer not to have veri's published and we totally respect this .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be inclined to block him. I wouldn't care what his reasons are...i don't let guys in here dictate to me. I can do without the drama and the hassle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he fucking weird? If you don't want someone to display a verification, why the hell did he leave you one then?

If there is one thing that annoys the fuck out of me. Is when men manipulate women to do what they want. Boils my blood that.

I see it all over fab. The amount of times this shit happens. Fucking wankers.

(sorry, rant over)

..it's your profile at the end of the day. You display that which you wish. It has nothing to do with him. He just has to grow some balls, grow up and deal with it. If he doesn't like it. Tough shit. It's not like you'd be at a loss if he blocks you, is it?

However, I just don't agree with the way he went about to tell you not to display it. If he said it to you nicely, without the malice. Then yeah, out of respect maybe not display it. But, to say all that with a threat. He's having a bubble.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If he blocks me then will it still show on my veri list? I have only met three people off here and left them all great veri's.... And have in return three fab ones back..

Not one of those three people published my one's I left them... It's making me paranoid lol !!

There are lots of reasons why people dont post their verifications hun. Some just like to keep what happened at a meet between the people who were there, some dont like other playmates to know who they have met previously because of potential drama etc.

As others have said, dont waste anymore time worrying about his reasons, just block him and move on.

He sounds like a proper bell end anyway, and after looking at your profile, I'm sure there'll be no shortage of peeps messaging for you to take your pick from!!

Dont let him drag you down. Juicy Xxx"

Thanks xxx No more wasting time, your right.. Had some great advice from here cheers xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is he fucking weird? If you don't want someone to display a verification, why the hell did he leave you one then?

If there is one thing that annoys the fuck out of me. Is when men manipulate women to do what they want. Boils my blood that.

I see it all over fab. The amount of times this shit happens. Fucking wankers.

(sorry, rant over)

..it's your profile at the end of the day. You display that which you wish. It has nothing to do with him. He just has to grow some balls, grow up and deal with it. If he doesn't like it. Tough shit. It's not like you'd be at a loss if he blocks you, is it?

However, I just don't agree with the way he went about to tell you not to display it. If he said it to you nicely, without the malice. Then yeah, out of respect maybe not display it. But, to say all that with a threat. He's having a bubble.

Great rant and very right too x

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd just respect his wishes. Only he can tell you his reasons"

Yep, totaly agree, respect his feelings

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I'd just respect his wishes. Only he can tell you his reasons

Yep, totaly agree, respect his feelings "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get some bigger, badder, better veris OP "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Its amazing how verifications can cause so much grief on here and highlight so many issues

I would have blocked him the minute he asked you to take it off your profile

Have lots of fun getting some great new ones

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I'd ignore the little wankstain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd just respect his wishes. Only he can tell you his reasons

This

We have met a few who prefer not to have veri's published and we totally respect this ."

Why bother writing them? As a reminder of who you met and what you did,or to read how great they think you are?

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

Hiya

Cut and paste it saying user has left the site and then hide it so that it does not show. Therefore not attributed to him.

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