FabSwingers.com forum: new angle

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok guys, I've joined this site and realised I've come to swinging incorrectly. I guess i thought, you join, you Fuck, easy right?? Well I've taken a little step back, i want swinging to be part of my life, and realise this site is probably about 1% of that. Anyway Im thinking of going to a club and some social meets, i want to try and build a small network of close friends, which Im sure Will be the way forward. What id like to know as a complete novice is, well basically everything about going to clubs as a single guy. I am very nervous about doing so, any a little insight prior to going from you guys would be a great help Im sure. So thank you all in advance and hope to speak soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a quick look at your profile (as i think that's where you need to start) Your profile write up isn't too bad, but if it was me I'd add in your qualities and what you can offer potential meets. You need to sell yourself.

The second thing that you need to do is have some public pics and an avatar. When sifting through messages from single blokes, I will always ignore profiles without a pic, it's just another filter for us.

As for how to get into the scene:

You need to check on the forums (usually meets and events section) for a social event local to you, get yourself on the guest list and mingle! It will give you a chance to meet lots of new people in a relaxed environment, and hopefully you'll find people you hit it off with although you might need to go to a couple of them before you make real connections. Next up, take a trip to a local club, ring them and find out what would be the best day to visit and check dress code etc. It's nerve racking going for the first time but you'll meet loads of people that you'll no doubt stay in touch with. The key is to network!! Always be respectful, always leave a good impression (bad reputations spread like wildfire in swinging circles!) be a gentleman and I'm sure you'll be fine. Good luck!!

Juicy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your feed back, really is appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost all of the previous advice was about your profile which is fine if that what you asked.

From how I interpret the question, you realise that the chance of getting into seining via this site alone is pretty slim, and do you want advice on clubbing?

You don't really need a fab profile to go to a club.

When we started, my wife and I, we researched clubs we were interested in visiting. Read the reviews and noted the different evenings they had to offer.

We chose a club and I called them to clarify membership rules, dress code etc.

as a single guy some clubs have a waiting list.

Once in a club, be respectful and friendly.

Smile! I'm amazed how many people don't. They seem to give off a pissed off vibe and so get little or no fun.

Chat to people and assume nothing. You may get to play first visit but it isn't guaranteed.

above all; have fun. Swinging is supposed to be fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Almost all of the previous advice was about your profile which is fine if that what you asked.

From how I interpret the question, you realise that the chance of getting into seining via this site alone is pretty slim, and do you want advice on clubbing?

You don't really need a fab profile to go to a club.

When we started, my wife and I, we researched clubs we were interested in visiting. Read the reviews and noted the different evenings they had to offer.

We chose a club and I called them to clarify membership rules, dress code etc.

as a single guy some clubs have a waiting list.

Once in a club, be respectful and friendly.

Smile! I'm amazed how many people don't. They seem to give off a pissed off vibe and so get little or no fun.

Chat to people and assume nothing. You may get to play first visit but it isn't guaranteed.

above all; have fun. Swinging is supposed to be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It goes without saying that you don't need a fab profile to go clubbing, however if you have a profile you may as well put a bit of effort into it. When we meet people in clubs that we'd like to keep in touch with, giving them our Fab username or visa/versa is just a convenient way to do so.

anyway I wish you loads of fun with your fab journey xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for your feed back, really is appreciated x"

Clubs is the way to go , keep membership here , to see meets posted at clubs,

Just pay the entrance fee and go remember to talk to people .

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