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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Still no luck on here how hard is it to get to have some fun on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a word, very!

Single guys outnumber the ladies by around 100 to 1, so they have the luxury of choice.

What are you doing about getting a meet?

Are you actively searching and messaging people, or sitting back and waiting for them to come to you.

If it's the latter, then I'm afraid you are in for one heck of a long wait.

Bear in mind also a number of things. You've only been here for 5 months. Most single guys (although not ALL of them) don't get their first meet until they've been here around 6 months, so you do need to be patient.

You may also find that many may be put off by your young age. It's no criticism of you - after all, you can't help how old you are - it's down to the preference of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a big queue here, it can take years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you got profile pic just keep trying mrs right might come don't know what Darlington birds are like you'll get a meet mate

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Still no luck on here how hard is it to get to have some fun on here"
Same as when you asked two weeks ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use Fab to stay in touch and arrange meets with people we have met at clubs. It's very rare that we use it to arrange a meet with someone we have not met before.

Guess what we are trying to say is clubs and socials open doors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still no luck on here how hard is it to get to have some fun on here Same as when you asked two weeks ago! "

Lol your keeping tabs on him anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still no luck on here how hard is it to get to have some fun on here Same as when you asked two weeks ago!

Lol your keeping tabs on him anyway "

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Still no luck on here how hard is it to get to have some fun on here Same as when you asked two weeks ago!

Lol your keeping tabs on him anyway

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Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We use Fab to stay in touch and arrange meets with people we have met at clubs. It's very rare that we use it to arrange a meet with someone we have not met before.

Guess what we are trying to say is clubs and socials open doors. "

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

what is it with words like 'luxury of choice' or 'women can be choosy/picky'. Sorry, but even if the numbers were reversed, I'd still be a fussy bugger and pick and choose who I think would be a compatible sexual partner, even if it's a one off meet. Even if there were only 10 guys on the whole site, I'd rather go without sex, than just fuck anybody.

Boils my piss this does!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"We use Fab to stay in touch and arrange meets with people we have met at clubs. It's very rare that we use it to arrange a meet with someone we have not met before.

Guess what we are trying to say is clubs and socials open doors. "

Why do we always agree with you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you started a similar thread 2 weeks ago did you learn anything? Or did you just blindly make the changes people suggested to your profile thinking that that would make everything ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know from experience its virtually impossable for a single man to get a msg never mind a meet.I was on here 3 years and not as much as a wink,so if you want advice,get to a social or a club or meet ladies in ur local and socialise.Good luck;-)

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"We use Fab to stay in touch and arrange meets with people we have met at clubs. It's very rare that we use it to arrange a meet with someone we have not met before.

Guess what we are trying to say is clubs and socials open doors. "

We only look to play with others at the club...takes away a lot of the stress and aggravation....also you get to be far more spontaneous without feeling obligated to spend time with someone who really isn't doing it for you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You make your own luck pal

You make your own luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We use Fab to stay in touch and arrange meets with people we have met at clubs. It's very rare that we use it to arrange a meet with someone we have not met before.

Guess what we are trying to say is clubs and socials open doors.

Why do we always agree with you?!"

Great minds!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Be nice if i could go with someone or areange to meet someone there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your clearly boring the women you speak to. Be quirky memorable and most importantly have some decorum! Nobody likes losers begging. And Love your self 100%. Don't be sad about not getting a meet. Find inner peace and happiness before messaging anyone else. Aim to Put a smile on a girls face make her think of you all day at work. This may be a swingers site but bring some sunshine when you message a girl. These beautiful girls get offers n pictures all day long. So Don't be a sheep. Stand out. If all else fails lobstertube is an awesome porn site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good men make an utter killing on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be nice if i could go with someone or areange to meet someone there"

Why is this a pity meet now lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Take note of what the bodybuilder dude above said. He's got it sussed.

OP: what will you achieve by putting a whinging status up? Answer: you will achieve nothing but missed opportunities. Count how many times you've used the word "I" in your profile. It's all about you and what you want. Very little about what you can offer a lady who might be a potential sexual partner. Think from her point of view, not yours.

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