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By *earboynottingham OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

If we don't fit that description should we abandon all hope?

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"If we don't fit that description should we abandon all hope? "
. No . Lots of people do not need to go to the gym to be fit and healthy. Personality is a lot more important than being VWE. Luckily we live in a world where different people like different things .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm not into 6 packs or vwe guys, prefer Mr Average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No just WE athletic will do fine

Or failing that nice looking personable with no sense of bitterness and entitlement.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If we don't fit that description should we abandon all hope? "

Yes. Lots of men have asked this and some have stated it as fact so despite my experience as an actual woman that this isn't true I must bow to the experience of the men who feel this and say that anyone with less than a six pack and a huge clock might as well go home now.

Of course I don't believe that but I'm not sure what answer you're expecting because if us women say it isn't so you don't believe us.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Cock I mean clock dammit!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Cock I mean clock dammit!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we don't fit that description should we abandon all hope? "

If you want to, surely that is something you should decide?

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By *earboynottingham OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Cock I mean clock dammit!"

Huge clock?

Grandfather?

I only ask because I read quite a few profiles and initially think 'yea could be compatible' but then I spot gym fit vwe required and I don't message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

As they are the only type of Men who have sex these days

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Cock I mean clock dammit!

Huge clock?

Grandfather?

I only ask because I read quite a few profiles and initially think 'yea could be compatible' but then I spot gym fit vwe required and I don't message them. "

There you go then, you aren't compatible although you initially thought you were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock I mean clock dammit!

Huge clock?

Grandfather?

I only ask because I read quite a few profiles and initially think 'yea could be compatible' but then I spot gym fit vwe required and I don't message them. "

Then why not find someone who is compatible?

We have some outrageous tongue in cheek demands on our profile but body type is not one of them.

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By *earboynottingham OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Cock I mean clock dammit!

Huge clock?

Grandfather?

I only ask because I read quite a few profiles and initially think 'yea could be compatible' but then I spot gym fit vwe required and I don't message them.

Then why not find someone who is compatible?

We have some outrageous tongue in cheek demands on our profile but body type is not one of them. "

Trying to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand where this bloke is coming from, and it does leave room for interpretation on the gym fit part.

I personally see it as a lady who wants to meet men who have a six pack, and at the end of the day, its up to them who they meet, so no dramas.

being in the forces means we have to be gym fit, but apart from the Physical training Instructors who spend most of the day working out, most military blokes have an average look. We are gym fit when it comes to stamina and endurance. we just don't have the gym fit male model look haha

its personal interpretation, everybody is different and likes different things.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Giving a rough estimate how many profiles ask for this? I have no idea I've just realised

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I meet men of all sizes, but I do tend to avoid the ones who obsess over looks, their own or others.

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By *earboynottingham OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Giving a rough estimate how many profiles ask for this? I have no idea I've just realised "

Quite a few, seems to be even more frequent on couple profiles.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Giving a rough estimate how many profiles ask for this? I have no idea I've just realised

Quite a few, seems to be even more frequent on couple profiles.

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The majority that you look at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

banging on about how fit and WE someone is just puts me off them..

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By *earboynottingham OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Giving a rough estimate how many profiles ask for this? I have no idea I've just realised

Quite a few, seems to be even more frequent on couple profiles.

The majority that you look at? "

Not too sure to be honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to know just how many profiles have this. Have you looked at all kinds of profiles,not just ones who fit your criteria?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'd like to know just how many profiles have this. Have you looked at all kinds of profiles,not just ones who fit your criteria? "

I had to check mine. It just says tall.

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By *earboynottingham OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I'd like to know just how many profiles have this. Have you looked at all kinds of profiles,not just ones who fit your criteria?

I had to check mine. It just says tall. "

I have only really looked at the ones matching my criteria.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

VWE is a massive no for me, I've turned down guys for it.

Gym fit - not fussed about - I like someone who has taken care of themselves and is fit enough to keep up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to know just how many profiles have this. Have you looked at all kinds of profiles,not just ones who fit your criteria?

I had to check mine. It just says tall. "

Looking like Bradley Cooper or Ryan Reynolds for us. It's hardly a big ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called skinny, too skinny, very skinny, still skinny, needs to grow a chest first. It's easy to say deal with rejection and move on or go to the gym (which I did) but women should think of the consequences it has on men's self esteem.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'd like to know just how many profiles have this. Have you looked at all kinds of profiles,not just ones who fit your criteria?

I had to check mine. It just says tall.

Looking like Bradley Cooper or Ryan Reynolds for us. It's hardly a big ask. "

Totally reasonable!

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By *earboynottingham OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I'd like to know just how many profiles have this. Have you looked at all kinds of profiles,not just ones who fit your criteria?

I had to check mine. It just says tall.

Looking like Bradley Cooper or Ryan Reynolds for us. It's hardly a big ask. "

Sorry who and who?

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock I mean clock dammit!

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So you have a little fetish for "Big Ben???"

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if VWE and not gym fit...

I insist the light goes off.

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

I tend not to meet ultra gym fit types as they seem to think they don't need to put any effort in because they have a good body.

Do love a big cock, but I've met guys who aren't VWE because there was appeal in some other way.

I think the key is to be unique and stand out from the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You guys make some of us "Gym fit" out to be self obsessive when most of us aren't.

I didn't realise looking after yourself and wanting to feel good about yourself was such a turn off. I go to the gym to be stronger, the body just comes with that. We aren't all narcissists you know

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Cock I mean clock dammit!

So you have a little fetish for "Big Ben???" "

Lol.

The truth is that very well endowed scares me, I honestly prefer a normally endowed man who understands that good sex is about the whole body not just a few inches of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend not to meet ultra gym fit types as they seem to think they don't need to put any effort in because they have a good body.

"

And that is a pretty sweeping generalising as well. I put a lot of effort into my meets and the people I meet. I'm not an exception to the rule. There are many men out there who are not "gym fit" whose egos think they need little or not effort.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Our profile doesn't request gym fit or VWE in fact it says if you are bragging about being VWE don't bother messaging because I won't do you.....I am married to gym fit so I already have one of those

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You guys make some of us "Gym fit" out to be self obsessive when most of us aren't.

I didn't realise looking after yourself and wanting to feel good about yourself was such a turn off. I go to the gym to be stronger, the body just comes with that. We aren't all narcissists you know "

The problem when discussing things like this is that it will always be seen in terms of right and wrong.

We all have something to commend us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You guys make some of us "Gym fit" out to be self obsessive when most of us aren't.

I didn't realise looking after yourself and wanting to feel good about yourself was such a turn off. I go to the gym to be stronger, the body just comes with that. We aren't all narcissists you know "

For some It's far easier to make excuses and whine about it then actually get off your ass and do something.

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By *irm hand LukeMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/West Oxfordshire


"No, I'm not into 6 packs or vwe guys, prefer Mr Average."

Yay there's hope for me yet

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Cock I mean clock dammit!"

I read that in a 'Jack Bauer' voice!

A

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Everybody likes and is attracted to different things. I know it's a cliche but I'd like to think there's somebody for everyone out there somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only require gym fit b VWE so yea jog on xxxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Cock I mean clock dammit!

I read that in a 'Jack Bauer' voice!

A"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope we want average too, feel a bit weird being of average ourselves and wanting a gymfittie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You guys make some of us "Gym fit" out to be self obsessive when most of us aren't.

I didn't realise looking after yourself and wanting to feel good about yourself was such a turn off. I go to the gym to be stronger, the body just comes with that. We aren't all narcissists you know "

I agree. They have loads of stamina and make all the effort for me, which is fine coz i'm a lazy bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only fit the gym fit part but don't got a big cock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only fit the gym fit part but don't got a big cock lol "

Ok ill lick your pecs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is gym fit ? Good Cardio or looking hench (buff) or both and VWE ?? girth or length or both ?women help me out please ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only fit the gym fit part but don't got a big cock lol

Ok ill lick your pecs xxx"
YEs that would be nice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is gym fit ? Good Cardio or looking hench (buff) or both and VWE ?? girth or length or both ?women help me out please ?? "

Six packs n larger then 8" n big girth too mmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only fit the gym fit part but don't got a big cock lol

Ok ill lick your pecs xxxYEs that would be nice x"

Yummy xx can i add toppins pl ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only fit the gym fit part but don't got a big cock lol

Ok ill lick your pecs xxxYEs that would be nice x

Yummy xx can i add toppins pl ?"
YEs u could, like strawberries and cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope we want average too, feel a bit weird being of average ourselves and wanting a gymfittie "
totally agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right see this one now answers my question as to the gym fit thing most of the posts on this are from a range of people some dont want gym fit but most of them posting do what is it with us normal people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only fit the gym fit part but don't got a big cock lol

Ok ill lick your pecs xxxYEs that would be nice x

Yummy xx can i add toppins pl ?YEs u could, like strawberries and cream "

Mmmmmm and sticky choc sauce n hundreds n thousands xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope we want average too, feel a bit weird being of average ourselves and wanting a gymfittie "

I'm fat, muscly as well but far from gym fit. Doesn't bother me to get with gym fit guys, do wonder what they see in me but whatever, happy to oblige. I don't specifically seek them out, it's just people like whatever they like? I like loads of different types of guys, it's how they are overall that makes them attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been called skinny, too skinny, very skinny, still skinny, needs to grow a chest first. It's easy to say deal with rejection and move on or go to the gym (which I did) but women should think of the consequences it has on men's self esteem. "

Sorry I disagree. If they are offensive in their rejection, then you probably had a lucky escape.

But sometimes letting someone down gently ends up in the circle of, but I can go to a gym etc, etc. A no can be polite, but still means no. If you are a sensitive sort, this might not be the site for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been turned down before because I keep in good shape, and whilst I'm ok (above average if you believe all the horse shit on here) in the trouser department, I certainly don't consider myself WE at 7", but I do think confidence is something most women require in a man, so, stop worrying and 'wow those chicks'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only fit the gym fit part but don't got a big cock lol

Ok ill lick your pecs xxxYEs that would be nice x

Yummy xx can i add toppins pl ?YEs u could, like strawberries and cream

Mmmmmm and sticky choc sauce n hundreds n thousands xxx"
yes spread the hundreds all over body mmmmm x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You guys make some of us "Gym fit" out to be self obsessive when most of us aren't.

I didn't realise looking after yourself and wanting to feel good about yourself was such a turn off. I go to the gym to be stronger, the body just comes with that. We aren't all narcissists you know "

Couldn't agree more ...talk about stereotyping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You guys make some of us "Gym fit" out to be self obsessive when most of us aren't.

I didn't realise looking after yourself and wanting to feel good about yourself was such a turn off. I go to the gym to be stronger, the body just comes with that. We aren't all narcissists you know "
That's right as we got fitness as lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You guys make some of us "Gym fit" out to be self obsessive when most of us aren't.

I didn't realise looking after yourself and wanting to feel good about yourself was such a turn off. I go to the gym to be stronger, the body just comes with that. We aren't all narcissists you know "

I thoughts exactly.... I do it for myself not for others... Keeps my mind in a good place

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