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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it getting so hard to meet? Should. I change my profile?

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By *aidtobespankedCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Its hard for us too.

Trying to convert messages into an actual meet is nearly impossible for one reason or another

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Go to a club - the best advice I can give is to get out and meet like minded people rather than hoping for a hit via the Internet.

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By *ordic36Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Go to a club - the best advice I can give is to get out and meet like minded people rather than hoping for a hit via the Internet. "

ticked that box in the club as well. First I thought the close proximity of another dude would bother me but no it was fine- her bum won us all over ^_^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a club - the best advice I can give is to get out and meet like minded people rather than hoping for a hit via the Internet. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully sympathise it's surprisingly hard to find the perfect person for DP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it getting so hard to meet? Should. I change my profile? "

It is rather unfortunate that I'm either out of most of your age ranges or too far!

(Please note this is not a ploy to bypass filters)

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

A friend of mine text me last night to say she was talking to a half italian, half Cuban guy, in a bar, who was interested.

Alas... I had a big old man sleep last night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We struggle to as guys don't seem to like travelling to meet us for drink first and if happy back to play here ,or just somple no shows lol not had a play meet since end September last year lol ,going to club next Saturday see what that brings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised at this. I thought it would be top of a lot of fantasys x

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"I'm surprised at this. I thought it would be top of a lot of fantasys x"

That's the problem... We're taught to keep our fantasies as just that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is getting harder to meet. Clubs not for us to be honest so we rely on chat social meet up and go from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm surprised at this. I thought it would be top of a lot of fantasys x

That's the problem... We're taught to keep our fantasies as just that..."

I used to think the same until I joined fab. I have loads I would like to do but I'm too chicken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You hardly finding any to talk to or they just not turning up? I've only just joined but you all look pretty fit, I've driven from southampton to Nottingham before which was quite a drive...I suppose it's different if you want a social first along way away and someone's got a confirmed meet for more..

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"I'm surprised at this. I thought it would be top of a lot of fantasys x

That's the problem... We're taught to keep our fantasies as just that...

I used to think the same until I joined fab. I have loads I would like to do but I'm too chicken "

Ok... Sounds sexist, but sometimes it helps if a woman has a guy to help ease her into her fantasies, provide protection and who she can peacock (I know it's the male) for.

Someone to hold onto in that moment when your shaking and grasping for support... And to decide to call it off when it's not right...

In short it helps to have a friend.

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"Why is it getting so hard to meet? Should. I change my profile? "

Don't quite understand the use of "I" and "my". Shouldn't it be "we" and "ours"? Just saying.

You could put more in your profile and make it more plain English and less texture. You could do with more pictures of both of you, they don't have to be explicit.

Do you just put up meets or do you search for single men's profiles which are well written and with good verifications?

Clubs and socials are your best bet but otherwise the above.

Him

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Less *texty *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm surprised at this. I thought it would be top of a lot of fantasys x

That's the problem... We're taught to keep our fantasies as just that...

I used to think the same until I joined fab. I have loads I would like to do but I'm too chicken

Ok... Sounds sexist, but sometimes it helps if a woman has a guy to help ease her into her fantasies, provide protection and who she can peacock (I know it's the male) for.

Someone to hold onto in that moment when your shaking and grasping for support... And to decide to call it off when it's not right...

In short it helps to have a friend. "

But I do have a friend /friends. My latest mfm was with two of my favorites

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

Getting harder to find guys who are available. Most on here seem to only want a quickie in the daytime, not drinks, conversation and the time investment of a quality meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try getting a ffm meet its just as hard if not harder but got to keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to one of the organised socials, we had over 80 genuine swingers at our last one

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"Try getting a ffm meet its just as hard if not harder but got to keep trying "

Thinking now how lucky we are..Connie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A major fantasy of mine... I'd like it to be as magical as my fantasies so shall wait for the right couple.... Plus I'm a bit nervous!

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By *eavensent78Couple
over a year ago

west mids


"Try getting a ffm meet its just as hard if not harder but got to keep trying "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try getting a ffm meet its just as hard if not harder but got to keep trying

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Your profile is too intimidatingly hot for me to even dream!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fully sympathise it's surprisingly hard to find the perfect person for DP. "

For anyone (couples) close enough....I have no problem with any of these scenarios. Check my verifications....very genuine guy!

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Id say its much more easier finding that extra male when your a couple than it is finding 2 suitable single guys when your a single fem. Ive been looking for a couple of years now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it getting so hard to meet? Should. I change my profile?

Don't quite understand the use of "I" and "my". Shouldn't it be "we" and "ours"? Just saying.

You could put more in your profile and make it more plain English and less texture. You could do with more pictures of both of you, they don't have to be explicit.

Do you just put up meets or do you search for single men's profiles which are well written and with good verifications?

Clubs and socials are your best bet but otherwise the above.

Him"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think borrowing a male from an open and understanding couple who meet alone is a viable prospect for us.

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

There are willing participants on here and some of us are just really nice, reliable guys.

Unfortunately most of the couples miss us due to over inflated expectations/requirements.

If you set an age cap of 25, then insist that they are young, hung & handsome you are really not going to get much response. . Maybe some fakers. Lol

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By *ordic36Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I don't see a couple. I see ass and an eye on pics. It's not enough- I can't see who I'm getting by having a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might help to have a pic of the male up too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine guy here....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think borrowing a male from an open and understanding couple who meet alone is a viable prospect for us. "

Maybe we can share a lil message exchange sometime... ??. x

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