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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

Just wondering should I let sonebody know where I have gone and who with

Lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your scared yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always Leave Details with someone you trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

Just wondering should I let sonebody know where I have gone and who with

Lee"

Certainly - if she is boiling a bunny on the stove.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Always a good idea. I tell all my lady friends to so same goes for you.

I have a bestie who knows about fab. I say where I am going. I give her the persons details I am meeting and a face pic if I have one that includes their phone number. She keeps in touch with me so I can text how it's going and then when I am home etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

Just wondering should I let sonebody know where I have gone and who with

Lee"

definitely, male or female always have someone know where you are and who with. safety is paramount on a site like this.

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not something I've ever done.

The idea of telling a friend or relative that I'm going to dress up as a female and go and meet some guy I've met online for kinky bi-sexual fun doesn't really appeal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are really worried about your safety but you don't want to tell anyone, write down details about where you are going and who you are meeting. Just leave that note at home before you go. And when you meet, casually mention plans you have later, and people who are expecting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not something I've ever done.

The idea of telling a friend or relative that I'm going to dress up as a female and go and meet some guy I've met online for kinky bi-sexual fun doesn't really appeal "
or for the guy! "i wont be long love just off for a quick fuck with a guy who looks better in a dress than you ever did!"

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Mr always knows where I'm going and who with, I give him all the details and let him know when I'm back home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only go with him except when i went to an all girls thing with our fem - but messaged before and after - but generally we do the old home safe message anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think women need to do it more than men tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did on my first meets. the friend who I used to tell her where etc, I no longer see, so have no one really I can tell, but yes definately tell someone

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Can never be to careful, it's best to let someone know. Also if it's not the meet you expected you can text your friend and ask them to ring you.

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By *riendlyGirlWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

I always give details to a friend on here and they do the same when they have a meet. Always better to be safe than sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always let freind know. I keep in touch via text before during and when im leaving. I value my safety too.much not to have someone know my whereabouts

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just get your mate around and he can film it from the wardrobe. Anything wrong and you have photographic evidence.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I had a friend who would text me if I was meeting anyone and we had a prearranged code which was just any two odd numbers so he knew it was me texting back.

No n ed to tell friends it's a dab meet you could just be going on a first date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tell people where I'm going. If I get killed then so be it. A friend texting me isn't going to stop a murderer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't tell people where I'm going. If I get killed then so be it. A friend texting me isn't going to stop a murderer. "

Hang on can you please stop hitting me while I just phone my friend

Suppose it depends if you have someone you can tell, I don't so I don't leave details of where I'm going with anybody

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

I really never thought I'd hear the day a guy asked this...

I remember one of my first times in China, I was 23 & one guy said to my boss "I'm not going down that short cut, it's dark".

My boss said "then your not a man"

Always stuck with me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day if you don't value your own safety then that is your call. Foolish and extremely naive, but I doubt the views of strangers on the internet will make you see sense. Cos this site doesn't attract weirdos

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meets first only take my car keys with me

Leave rest stuff at home or hidden in car that way can't loose stuff at there place like wallet or phone

First meet I try be on cctv like shopping centre innocent unless I disappear cops will find car my stuff note were who iam with

I don't park right in front of there house but walk to it so car is out of way

Lastly if you don't think its safe don't go trust your gut instincts they helped us survive for thousands of years

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